Now it's good.

Her son is not only uncaring.

Even most of the time, he stood on the same side as his father and came to unite her.

The more I thought about it, the more angry I became.

Song Shinian glanced at Yan Yu, "If you say it again, I'm really going to be angry." ”

Yan Yu smiled, just when the elevator came, he pulled people onto the elevator, and kindly started another topic: "By the way, Nian Nian, when are we free in the past two days to get the marriage certificate?" ”

"Huh?" Song Shinian was completely shocked.

She stared blankly at the man with a calm expression, as if he had just asked him what he was going to eat for the night, and stammered, "This, so suddenly?" ”

Yan Yu glanced sideways at him, then closed his eyes and was silent for a moment.

This silence made Song Shinian's heart even higher.

Suddenly, she felt uncomfortable again, accompanied by a feeling of guilt, panic, and wanting to escape, and feeling helpless.

She could vaguely understand what she was thinking and why.

But she didn't want to face it.

So Song Shinian just nervously grabbed the corner of his clothes and held his breath, wanting to listen to Yan Yu's answer.

And Yan Yu didn't torture him in embarrassment, he just was silent for a moment, and then said truthfully: "Do you still want Fan Fan's account to be on his parents' account all the time?" ”

Although there is a reason for it.

But what is embarrassing and suffocating is that four years ago, after Song Anfan was born, Song's father and Song's mother were worried that Song Shinian would have an impact on Song Anfan if he couldn't wake up in the future, but Song Shinian was a vegetative person at the beginning, and there was no way to sign the formalities, and third, of course, it was also out of Song's father and Song's mother's dead heart-

They were expecting a miracle to happen and waiting for Song Shinian to wake up. But in case Song Shinian woke up and suddenly became an unmarried mother, this had a great impact on the unmarried at that time, and Song's father and Song's mother were even worried that she would not be able to marry in the future.

So after weighing the pros and cons and considerations, Song's father and Song's mother registered Song Anfan's household registration in the names of the two of them.

In other words, Song Anfan is legally the son of Song's father and Song's mother, and the younger brother of Song Shinian.

Although this is very unusual, to be honest, this situation is not uncommon in China.

Song Shinian had always held the idea of getting by.

Because no matter where Song Anfan's bitterness is registered, he will always be his son, and it will never change.

So I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

It's just that at this moment, she was brought up by Yan Yu, and she also felt that she couldn't do this.

Now that Fan Fan has a father and a mother, of course the household registration must follow them.

Song Shinian thought about it and replied decisively: "You can move out." "But what does this have to do with getting a certificate or not?

Song Shinian only dared to think about this question in his heart, but did not dare to ask more.

I'm afraid that if I accidentally ask, it will be thunderous.

And Yan Yu was obviously well thought out.

When he saw Song Shinian's answer, he nodded and continued: "But to move the child's household registration out, you need to prove that the two of us are husband and wife and provide a paternity test. Paternity testing is easy to do, but the husband and wife certificate must have a marriage certificate. ”

Only then did Song Shinian understand.

So that's the problem.

She looked at Yan Yu hesitantly, and quickly withdrew her gaze.

She really wanted to move Song Anfan's household registration to her name, but let her marry Yan Yu now......

This, this, this-

"Wouldn't it be too rushed?" Song Shinian asked very quietly and humbly.

Yan Yu looked at Shi Nian, who wanted to shrink himself into the ground, although Shi Nian's answer was within his expectations;

But seeing it with my own eyes and hearing it with my own ears, my heart still hurts uncontrollably.

He sighed silently, turned his gaze away, looked at the vague influence of Song Shinian reflected in the stainless steel plate of the elevator door, and said in a clear but firm voice: "Don't be in a hurry, when we have completed the formalities, we can arrange a kindergarten for Fanfan." ”

He said: "Although there are many kindergartens now, we can't just find one and go to it, which is irresponsible to Fanfan." ”

Song Shinian listened as if his heart had been poked sharply.

When she faced Yan Yu, she could often feel what an irresponsible mother she was.

But she really doesn't understand all the things about the child.

What's even more shameful is that she is indeed negligent in care.

Yan Yu couldn't wait to bury his head in his chest when he saw Shi Nian, and immediately comforted her: "Of course, your mental age is only 18 years old, every year, I can understand that you are not used to your son now." Although I just recognized Fan Fan, you also said that my age is here, so I have to think more about you and Fan Fan. ”

Song Shinian immediately nodded obediently, and asked with concern: "Aren't all kindergartens the same?" What kind of kindergarten do you want Fan Fan to go to? ”

Yan Yu smiled at Shi Nian slightly, and said softly: "Of course it's different, the kindergarten I chose has a very good environment and covers a wide area, yes, and it is built in the royal garden, as soon as I returned to Beijing, I bought a school district house near there, so that Fan Fan can go to that school." ”

"And although it is a kindergarten, it is a comprehensive cultivation of morality, intelligence, physical fitness, art and labor. There are many courses such as multilingual courses, Orff music, roller skating, swimming, painting, etc., and the educational philosophy is also very good. ”

Song Shinian listened, and his calm expression slowly became exaggerated.

She looked at Yan Yu dumbfounded, "Kindergarten? So much for a four-year-old to learn? Why are children so pitiful now? You still think such a school is very good? ”

Yan Yu glanced at Shi Nian lightly, and said: "First, now Fan Fan is precocious, much more mature than you think, I have inspected the school and carefully observed Fan Fan, I decided it, and I also asked Fan Fan's opinion in advance, he agreed, and he was full of expectations for the new school, and he thought it was cool to learn more things." ”

Song Shinian: "!! ”

She was dumbfounded, a picture of being struck by lightning.

Yan Yu continued: "And every year, this is the capital city, not your hometown; And this is the generation of economic explosion, the Internet and talents, not the era when you were a child, when the news was closed and sluggish, if Fan Fan wants to live in Beijing, then he has to adapt to the interests and learning progress of other children of the same age in Beijing, so that he can gain a firm foothold in Beijing, and will not be excluded from the whole society due to autism for various reasons, and become a distressing marginal figure. ”

Song Shinian blinked in a panic.

Why is it clear that she disagrees with it in her heart; But after hearing Yan Yu's explanation, will you think that he is right?

Oh, yes.

In the Song Dynasty, you can't compare your childhood experience with the explosive economy now.

Society is progressing, and your child's future will not be compared with your childhood, but with your child's peers.

When all the children are receiving a well-rounded and versatile education, but your child is not accepting it, he has already lost in the beginning.