Chapter 0063: Negotiation
"It's okay, I'll ask next time." Liu Ya smiled.
Xiao Chen estimates that the current Civil Affairs Bureau will definitely not open the door.
But there is still a way to figure it out.
Besides, in this world, in fact, the marriage certificate is just peace of mind, whether there is or not, it is the same.
He just regretted that he had actually thought about a lot of the details of the wedding.
It's just that I didn't have time to achieve it, and I said before that I would get married when I had enough of Yaya, but now I don't have a chance.
"In today's society, you always have to get a certificate to have a baby." Zhou Zhigao said.
After Xiao Chen and Liu Ya looked at each other, Liu Ya's eyes signaled: Do you want to say it?
Xiao Chen rubbed his nose: "That, Dad...... Mother...... Let's talk about this? ”
The two of them also looked at each other, and the four of them washed their hands and sat in the warm room and talked. Zhou Jing observed.
Liu Ya also thought about whether to pour tea or something for a while, but after thinking about it for a while, her parents were angry and might be smashed, so she still didn't want to.
"That's it...... We both confirmed each other when we were together that we didn't like children. ”
Zhou Zhigao didn't speak, and Ma Fen stopped talking.
"The two of us have discussed before that we will not have children for the time being after marriage. Wait until you're forty. Xiao Chen said.
"Nonsense, can you still live at forty?" Muffin frowned.
"So we decided to freeze first after we got married...... Anyway, it is possible with the current technology. But not anymore. Some time ago, I also discussed with Yaya, and we unanimously decided that we should not have children, at least not on our own. Xiao Chen said.
Zhou Zhigao frowned: "Why?" ”
If you can't give a suitable reason, you'll die.
Xiao Chen smiled: "First of all, the two of us still don't like children. ”
Ma Fen frowned: "I like it when I am born!" Who likes children when they're fine? ”
"Mom." Liu Ya shouted: "We won't do what we don't like to do." ”
"Nonsense, if you don't have children, who will care about you when you get old in the future?" Muffin became excited.
"The second reason is that the current situation is not suitable for raising children." Xiao Chen said: "Raising a child is not enough to eat. Now that the schools are gone, what should I do if I have a child? Even if it's not so far away, children are very fragile, what if they get sick? At such temperatures, children cannot be sent to the hospital even if they are sick. Even if it can be delivered, there is no electricity everywhere, what can the hospital do? ”
"Third, even if these can be overcome, but in this case, Yaya is pregnant and gives birth, won't your parents worry? I wouldn't agree. Xiao Chen stopped laughing.
He has been at Liu Ya's house for a winter, and he has always been easy to talk, and his parents can say anything.
This was the first time he had taken his family so seriously.
Zhou Jing subconsciously sat up straight.
Speaking of which, Muffin is not so intense.
"For many years, women don't always have to have children. Our guys eat well......"
"Mom, you should know how much damage a woman's body is when she is pregnant and has a child, and she doesn't like children. We don't like it, so why force ourselves for things that aren't important? Xiao Chen said.
"But...... After all, it's about having children, what should I do when I'm old? Muffin frowned.
"I think there are many people who think the same way as us, and there will always be a way out in the future. Besides, having a child does not guarantee that you will live well when you are old. Social order will always be restored slowly, and at that time, it doesn't matter if you have children or not. ”
"Mom and Dad, in the current situation, do you really dare to watch Yaya get pregnant and give birth?"
Ma Fen stopped talking, she is Liu Ya's own mother, naturally she loves her daughter more than her grandson who doesn't know where she is.
It's shocking not to have children.
"No children, can you two sustain it?" Zhou Zhigao said suddenly.
"Dad, won't you get divorced if you have children?" Liu Ya smiled: "My mother and the Liu family ...... There are a lot of divorces in the village, right? Even if we have children, if we have no feelings for each other, we will not get along together. ”
"Look at what this says!" Muffin sighed.
"For the sake of the girl, I agree. I'm afraid that you will regret it, and when you are older in the future, you will regret it, and you will not be able to give birth if you want to. Zhou Zhigao said.
"At that time, it was possible to adopt. In fact, although we don't like children, but after a few years of stability, maybe we will have the opportunity to adopt children. There are more orphans now. But that's all for later. Don't worry, it's the same if you don't have children. Liu Ya said.
"Can the adopted child kiss you?" Muffin frowned.
"Then do you say that Dad is not good to me? Am I not close to my dad? Liu Ya looked at her: "I haven't changed my surname." Mom, you've had another child. If you think about it, I am not my father's biological child, you and my father do not have biological children. ”
"You kid, I have one sentence, and you have ten sentences blocking me. Am I not unable to give birth? Muffin glared.
"If I don't stand up to you, I'm just reasonable." Liu Ya hugged her arm: "Mom, I love you." ”
Zhou Zhigao sighed: "Let's go, let's go to work." ”
This is what it means to make Liu Ya and Niang speak.
Xiao Chen smiled and went out.
Leave the maid in the house.
"Sister, Dink? It's so cool, I don't like kids either. Zhou Jing became excited.
"Nonsense! Everything is good when you are young, but what about when you are old? Muffin frowned.
"Mom, you can control you if you give birth to someone like me, what if you give birth to Mao Feng? Don't say it's impossible, neither of us likes children, can we do a good job in educating children? Besides, parents don't like their children, and then call their children to come to the world to be fair? ”
"I mean you can't do it, but how can anyone not have children?" Ma Fen sighed: "You are stupid to study." I'll ask you, even if we all promise you not to have children......"
She paused, and still said: "Xiao Chen is not from here, the situation will be better in the future, you two are not connected, what if he wants to leave?" ”
"Mom, you just think in your bones that I can't live without a man. When Xiao Chen hadn't come yet, I didn't have a good time? Liu Ya shook her head: "Besides, if you have a child, you can stop people from leaving?" By then, even if he reluctantly stays, how are we doing? This is not the old society. Breakups, divorces are normal. ”
"I'm not for you?" Ma Fen's eyes were red: "I gave birth to you, and I have been in Changxing Village for more than ten years...... Fortunately, I met your grandparents who were open-minded, and your father was kind......"
"yes, you've met it all, why can't I? It's not like we didn't go out to pick up boys in our village. It's not that there are no brothers and children. Why didn't you ask for it? ”
"I went to school, and when I was in high school, it was the best high school in the county, and I didn't miss anything. Yes, when I was in junior high school, the people in the village persuaded me to study in Jiangjiazhuang, it was cheap. Why do you have to send me to the county seat? ”