Chapter 504: Appropriate
Tossing back and forth for such a thing for a long time, Mr. Mu Er was also tired, so he discussed with Mrs. Mu: "Why don't you take a step back?" ”
Old Madam Mu said solemnly: "No, you must follow the rules of my family." ”
Mr. Mu Er tried to convince her: "...... Is this the relationship...... Why take it too seriously and make the relationship stiff, which is not conducive to getting along in the future. ”
Old Madam Mu said lightly: "It's true that his identity is different, but don't forget, why the Mu family has today's reputation." To live, to be a good general, to die, to be for the country, for the king, for the people for the way. I won't budge. ”
Mr. Mu Er had no choice but to tell Shao Jing about it in embarrassment.
Shao Jing was silent for a moment, and then took a deep look: "Youchun understands, just do what your grandmother says." ”
The reason why the Mu family is willing to do their best to protect him is because of his identity.
Old Madam Mu thinks that she is guarding the blood and blood of the monarch and doing her duty as a loyal minister.
Therefore, she strictly demanded him with the truth she thought was correct, and did not allow him to make any mistakes, which was also fulfilling her duty as a loyal minister.
If he doesn't listen, it proves that he doesn't deserve the loyalty of the Mu family.
Mr. Mu Er was a little surprised when he saw Shao Jing coming down so easily, and then smiled easily: "Sure enough, he is a very good child." ”
Then, Old Madam Mu knew Shao Jing's attitude, nodded with a serious expression, and said to Mr. Mu Er: "It's a sensible person, it doesn't seem to be too difficult to get along with." ”
Mr. Mu Er said: "I think so too. ”
The Mu family is relaxed here, but Shao Jing is under pressure.
He looked at Tian's father's fierce eyes, and Xie Shi didn't understand the little depression, so he pushed Tian Youwei forward stubbornly: "Ah Wei also talk about her thoughts." ”
Tian Youwei deliberately embarrassed him, pretending to be shy and said, "I don't have any ideas, listen to you." ”
"......" Shao Jing smiled bitterly and begged her for mercy again and again.
Tian Youwei waited until Tian's father's breath was almost suffocated, and then said: "Now for our family, it is the best to achieve what we want safely and smoothly, why care about the details and process?" Daddy, did you think at that time that if our family and Ah Jing could come back safely, could we do without anything else? Now that we are all at peace, what are these false gifts? ”
Xie Shi also came back to his senses, and comforted Tian's father in a low voice: "Old man, don't be stubborn, in my opinion, nothing is as important as children." ”
Father Tian sighed: "I'm just for the child, since you don't care, then do what you want." ”
He reluctantly got up and walked out slowly on crutches, his back a little more lonely for no reason.
Tian Youwei's nasal cavity was sour, and her feelings came up, she knew that Tian's father wanted to marry her in style, for fear that she would keep giving in now and be sad when she went to the Mu family in the future.
But she is married to Shao Jing, not to the Mu family.
The kindness of the Mu family is one thing, and the way the two sides get along is another.
It's not that if you owe the Mu family a favor, you have to keep giving in and completely lose your ideas and bottom line.
Shao Jing patted the top of her hair and whispered, "Just let him stay alone for a while." ”
Xie said: "Don't think that your father is stubborn and unpleasant, his biggest wish in this life is two things, one is to see the family's kiln become more and more prosperous, and pass on the craftsmanship left by his ancestors." The second is to watch the children get married, the husband and wife are harmonious, the children are prosperous, safe and healthy.
You also know that our family has had some difficulties in the past few years, and Ah Bing and Ah Shu's marriage has not been successful, so he wants to make up for it. Yuyao attaches great importance to these false gifts when handling red and white ceremonies, he is a strong person, where can he tolerate himself inferior to others? ”
Shao Jing said: "Aunt don't worry, I understand." Anyway, I'm dragging you down. ”
He sincerely felt that the Tian family was dragged down by himself, but the Xie family didn't know the secrets in the middle, so he only thought too much: "This kid is talking stupidly, and the family doesn't drag it down." Okay, I'll talk to the Mu family about this matter in person. ”
Xie Shi was not verbose, dressed up seriously, solemnly boarded the door of the Mu family, and sat with Mrs. Mu for an afternoon of tea.
The two sides agreed that the woman could do whatever she liked, even if Tian Youwei wanted to marry from Yuyao, as for the man, she would follow the rules of the Mu family.
Don't invite guests, just don't hold banquets, it's not that people are not allowed to watch the ceremony, and the guests and friends who should be invited will still be invited.
Tian's father listened to this latest plan and finally accepted it, so Zhang Luo wanted Tian Youwei to return to his hometown to prepare for marriage, so he married from Yuyao.
Tian Youwei's heart was broken.
No matter what you want to do in Lin'an City, as long as you have money, you can invite a skilled person to do it properly, and you don't need to toss the host's family.
To go back to Yuyao to get married, it means that you have to do everything yourself and worry about everything, in addition to rearranging the house over there, you also have to prepare a lot of food, wine, fruits and other things.
The villagers will drag their families to eat for two or three days, borrow tables, chairs, benches, pots and pans, and invite their neighbors to help......
Tian's father is not in good health, Tian Bing can't hear it, Liao Shu is about to give birth, Shao Jing has to be busy with the Mu family, and this mess has to fall on her and Xie's family.
Tian Youwei just thought about it, and the whole person was not good.
But seeing that Tian's father was planning with great interest, Tian Bing's eyes were also shining, and Xie Shi was rubbing his hands, so he didn't dare to disappoint the fun, and only asked weakly: "Is the dowry still to be sent back to Yuyao from Lin'an, and then from Yuyao?" ”
Father Tian slapped the table: "Yes!" Trousseau! Why did you forget this link! ”
Tian Youwei wanted to cry.
But I heard Tian's father say: "After a long journey, moving around, it is easy to break the furniture, and your set of furniture inlaid with luodian is valuable, and it is a pity to break it." Some of them will be sent over when they are in the bunk, and the rest will be put on the dock in advance and wait, and when you and Ah Jing get off the boat, they will immediately follow you to Mu's house. ”
Tian Youwei's eyes are blank, okay, you can do whatever you want, anyway, it's only this time in two lifetimes.
Everything was agreed, Tian Youwei rolled up her sleeves and prepared to take the lead, preparing for her own wedding, not wanting Tian Bing to stand up and put on a straight face, so she was directly put in the air.
She thought that it was inconvenient for him to do things, so after saying a few more words, Tian Bing asked her very directly: "Do you think I'm useless?" Then if you marry into the Mu family in the future, who will help me? You and Ah Jing come back every day to manage these things? ”
Tian Youwei was speechless, and Liao Shu also said: "Let him go, there will always be this day, and our children will have to rely on him in the future." ”
Tian Youwei didn't care, and let her family toss it.
People are in good spirits on happy occasions, Tian's father is in a good mood, and most of his illness is better, so he followed Tian Bing on crutches, busy with everything and quickly, and quickly arranged everything properly.