"Actually, the country still ignores this part, I feel sad to see it, although I am not a pleasing personality, but I am extremely inferior, since I was a child, my parents' education is frustration education, when I do it right, I have never praised, but I made a little mistake, all kinds of cynicism followed, even if I am now 985, 211 graduate students, but I still think I am very bad.

People like me, who have no confidence and low self-esteem, have always talked about being sorry; There is guilt in relying on others; Fear of being disliked or hated by others; I always feel that everything is my own fault; repeatedly review the ugliness of one's past; After communicating with others, reflect on what you just said almost to the extent of self-abuse; full of anxiety and despair about the future; Afraid of human-machine interaction, can't afford to make jokes; I don't forget the insults I have received for a long time; Treat advice from others as bad; over-reliance on someone; Aggressive and fearful at the same time, believing that one's talents are worthless!

I love my parents very much, but the impact of the family of origin is really not a small matter, as the blogger said, we all want to change, but it's really hard. ”

"In fact, I envy those children who grow up in loving and encouraging families, and they have a strong sense of confidence and security that I can't imitate in my life."

"Hey, when it comes to the heart, I seriously lack self-confidence and security, I want to be affirmed by others, and I am afraid that others are just polite, and I feel full of distrust of the whole world."

"The temperament and style of parents will be imperceptibly copied to the younger generations and imprinted. Those who lack love in childhood are likely to have a pleasing personality; Those who lack maternal love in childhood are most likely to have maternal love; Those who lack father's love prefer uncles; Those who have experienced poverty have more obsessions with wealth, and so on. And these experiences are almost the conditions for the formation of our character, whether happy or sad, good or bad, and it is these experiences that have made us who we are now, and it is rooted in our consciousness, and no one can do anything about it. ”

"No, this topic is so sad!"

"Seeing this Weibo in the middle of the night, the mood is very complicated, the impact of the original family on everyone is huge, but I want to say, we can't really solve our own through confrontation, self-knowledge and difficult to control the shortcomings, since you see yourself and can't do anything, then simply go and see the world! Everyone in this world has their own unique logic, has their own shortcomings, and there are many shortcomings and advantages in this world, but the personality is full of charm, and the people who are deeply attracted to us, all the unbearable is not enough to be the reason why I hate myself.

It is these experiences, good and bad, that make us who we are sparkling and unique! Therefore, first embrace yourself full of shortcomings and face yourself, in order to better embrace the world! ”

Ying Ru didn't expect that her role could trigger such a discussion, in fact, the two netizens' understanding of Sheng Guifei is exactly the same as her understanding of Sheng Guifei, when she first read the script, she also felt that Sheng Yanran was for Qin Ziyu, but then she felt that she was completely calculating, and it wasn't until the end of filming that she realized that Sheng Yanran was actually a complete tragedy.

The biological mother died because of the difficult birth of her younger brother, less than a year later, her father accepted the continuation of the string, after that, Sheng Yanran almost masochistic demanded that she be perfect, one is to gain a sense of existence in the Hou Mansion, and the other is because of her stepmother, she has never asked herself what she wants in her life.

The thinking of the original family triggered by Sheng Guifen lasted for two days.

Because of this, the status of "Sinking Fish" in the hearts of netizens is no longer just a spoof web drama, "Sinking Fish" has depth, although it can't be said what height it has risen to, but at least it is an underestimated height before.

Even, a film critic who has always been famous for poisonous snakes even praised "Sinking Fish".

""Sinking Fish" is definitely a true portrayal of modern society hidden under gags and the imagination of an ideal society, it is an underrated web drama."

In fact, since the launch of "Sinking Fish", there have been two large-scale discussions, the first is about the awakening of feminist consciousness in film and television, and the second is about the discussion of the original family.

The popularity, which had already faded a little because of time, became hot again because of this film critic's Weibo.

What Ying Ru didn't expect was that Zhu Chang, a film critic who has always been famous for poisonous snakes, praised Ying Ru for the first time after praising "Sinking Fish".

Sheng Yanran's tragedy originated from her original family, in fact, my favorite in the whole drama is this character, at first I thought it was a simple tsundere character, but later I found out that the tragedy was hidden in the depths, does she care about Qin Ziyu? Of course she cares, otherwise she can't block the knife for Qin Ziyu, although some people want to say that she blocked the knife for Qin Ziyu because she calculated it for her brother, but I think that she has long regarded Qin Ziyu as a friend in her heart, and she is the only friend, there is a detail that can support my point of view, that is, when Concubine Li framed Qin Ziyu and murdered the emperor, it was Sheng Yanran who stood up and took the blame, although later Sheng Yanran herself said that because she found such a big crime of murdering the emperor, the emperor actually just put her in the cold palace, This already shows that the emperor saw the clues.

But what you need to know is that Sheng Yanran came out to take the blame was a split second decision, at that time she didn't think so much, the reaction people made in a moment was the most instinctive, then her instinct was to take the blame for Qin Ziyu and let Qin Ziyu live, you see, she subconsciously took such a big charge of murdering the emperor, she subconsciously withstood it, at that time, she didn't think of what kind of disaster would be brought to the Zhongyong Marquis Mansion because of her guilt, and she didn't think of the glory of her younger brother and biological mother who she desperately guarded, will all fall into the dust because of her guilt.

All this is instinctive, so I still want to believe Sheng Yanran's sincerity to Qin Ziyu. But why do I say that her tragedy has long been buried in her blood?

Because after instinct, it is reality, and reason finally hit a heart, and it is precisely because of the flaws in her original family's character that she is destined to be unable to grow happily in the sun like Qin Ziyu.

Finally, I want to say that this role is difficult to control, the expressiveness is weak, the whole character can't hold up, the expressiveness is strong, the whole character is easy to disgust the audience, and at the same time, no matter what it is, it can't show Sheng Yanran's tragic color, but the interpretation that should be like this makes this character all present in front of us, adding one point is too full, and one point is too flat. Although Ying Ru is not from a professional class, her acting skills are definitely one of the best young actors in recent years, which is fair, and I selfishly think that with the role of Sheng Yanran alone, Ying Ru has already won the award in my heart. ”

Zhu Chang's Weibo came very unexpectedly, and when he saw it, it had already been on the top of the hot search.

You must know that there are very few people who have received praise from a film critic like Zhu Chang, and he talks about dramas and never involves personal feelings.

For example, Ying Ru is the actress Cheng Yiqian of a company, and her role in the year after the seal was praised by Zhu Chang, but a role played the next year, because of her mediocre performance, she was also degraded by Zhu Chang as worthless.

"Oh my God! Have you seen Zhu Chang's Weibo? Xue Ruoyang called Ying Ru as soon as he saw Weibo, and his voice was full of amazement and envy, "He praised you!" Oh, my God! And also praised our show! ”

Ying Ru nodded with a smile in his eyes: "I saw it, and I was about to respond to him." ”

A film critic of Zhu Chang's level praised her, of course she wanted to send a Weibo to thank her.

"Oh my God! I was shocked when I saw it! No, I have to tell Qin Feng and Sister Jia Nan that they are filming in the deep mountains and old forests, and they must not know this good news yet. Xue Ruoyang's temperament is a bit like wind is rain, and he hung up the phone in a hurry after saying this.

Ying listened to the busy sound on the other end of the mobile phone, and couldn't help but laugh dumbly.

Lu Sinian, who was on the side, raised his eyes and saw her smile, and couldn't help asking, "Why are you so happy?" ”

Ying Ru heard his voice, stepped forward and threw himself into his arms, and then rubbed his chest with the top of his head, "Zhu Chang praised me on Weibo!" ”

"Zhu Chang?" Lu Sinian raised his eyes slightly, as if he was a little puzzled by the name.

Ying Ru guessed that he might not know Zhu Chang, so he sat up straight and briefly introduced Zhu Chang to him, and after the introduction, she pressed the corners of her mouth that were already a little irrepressible, "He praised me on Weibo, I really didn't expect to get his approval." ”

Lu Sinian listened to her words, his thin lips were slightly raised, a doting smile overflowed from his eyes, and he raised his hand to encircle her whole person in his arms.

"You work hard and you are very good, not only him, but everyone can feel your excellence."

His words touched Ying Ru's heart very much, and he couldn't help but stretch out his hand to wrap around his waist, put his chin on his shoulder, and the faint scent of cologne came from the tip of his nose, and his heart was in a trance.

In fact, Zhu Chang's recognition of her is not only her now.

The current Ying Ru is formed by the fact that Ying Ru in her previous life has experienced many betrayals and separations, just as she saw a sentence in the previous discussion about the original family, "It is these experiences, whether good or bad, that constitute a shining and unique us." ”

It is the various things of the past life that have created what it should be today.

She doesn't thank those experiences, she is grateful for herself who is still strong after experiencing those things!