Duan Chaonuan didn't expect this, but she felt that Tang Lang's daring and undisguised shadow was right for her own appetite!

Yan Hui asked Lu Boyu and said, "There is a person who is naturally murderous, and if he is indulged, he will endanger the country." If you try to persuade him to do good, you will harm yourself. That person usually only sees the faults of others, but not his own. What should be done about such people? ”

Lu Boyu said: "To deal with this kind of person, you must be good at coincidence and don't provoke him." He is like a baby, and you pretend to be a baby. He's turning things upside down, and you're pretending to be upside down. Make him feel like you're on the same side as him, and then try to guide him around. ”

Yan Hui was puzzled: "Why should you be so kind to him in advance?" ”

Yu Boyu said, "Haven't you seen a praying mantis? Angered by it, it raised its arms to block the wheels, thinking that it had great strength. If you exaggerate your talents to offend him, it will be as dangerous as using a mantis arm as a car! "Persuading people to do good, using the wrong methods, often leads to crises.

It's dangerous to use your own strengths to overwhelm others! ”

Just this, it is definitely for Chang Rong to hear, there is no one else except him, on this issue, it is absolutely the kind that says nothing, in fact, he still holds the place he is good at, and then goes to compete with the kind of layman who is there!

It's that Duan Chaonuan thinks that in this matter, Chang Rong knows what is going on, but the problem is that he didn't treat everyone equally at all!

In the final analysis, Duan Chaonuan felt that he still divided human beings from others too clearly, but in Duan Chaonuan's eyes, in fact, it didn't have to be so clear, just need to treat everyone equally!

But is this non-discriminatory, is it really that simple, can it be treated equally?

"Once upon a time there was a man who loved horses.

He took care of his horses, using bamboo baskets to collect horse manure and huge sea clams to fill horse urine. One day, he went to swatt blood-sucking flies on horseback......

As soon as the horse was frightened, he kicked the horse keeper to death.

If you like someone, that person may not necessarily understand your love. ”

This Chang Rong is to say, to warn Duan Chaonuan not to be like this, to look at problems with his own preferences, to look at others, even if you like her, you love her, you understand him, but he does not necessarily understand what you understand!

"There was a man in the country of Lu who had his toe cut off, named Shushan Wutoe.

One day, he walked on his heels to see Confucius.

Confucius saw him and said, "In the past, you didn't love yourself, so you were cut off by the government. Even if you come to see me today, it's too late. ”

Shushan Wutoe was very angry: "Although my toes are gone, there are still more important things on my body than toes, I came to see you to protect those more precious things!" ”

Confucius immediately came to his senses: "I'm really sorry! Come in and guide my disciples. ”

Shushan had no toes but stopped talking and walked away.

Shushan Wutoe is a virtuous person, so Confucius no longer dares to slack off on him. Then the mutilation of the body, of course, can't determine whether it is a wasted person. ”

Duan Chaonuan didn't look at Chang Rong again, but simply told this thing and her opinions about her in a storytelling tone.

Although Tang Lang is not human, she is not a human trait!

What are the characteristics of a human being?

Selfish, greedy, lazy, gloomy, self-defeating.

These are all opposites, and the positive is beautiful, kind, brave, and love-hate. 520

Zigong asked Confucius, "Why does the teacher wander in all directions and accept the bondage of etiquette?" ”

Confucius said, "If you want to travel outside the square for a while, you can also do it!" ”

Zigong asked, "Is there any way?" ”

Confucius said, "Water is comfortable in the life of a fish." People's lives are comfortable. Fish are free in the rivers and lakes, forgetting that they are in the water. In nature, as long as people are happy and self-sufficient in the Tao, they forget the existence of the Tao.

The human heart is filled with all kinds of knowledge, and it is separated into small houses by knowledge, so it is not comfortable, so we must open up knowledge and transcend knowledge. ”

This story is still told by Duan Chaonuan, and on this issue, Duan Chaonuan still feels that the problem lies in the fact that this person does not treat everyone equally, and it is clearly a very simple problem, but he has to involve any racial issues.

"Ziyu and Zisang are good friends.

Once it rained for dozens of days, Ziyu brought his wallet to see Zisang.

Ziyu saw Zisang sighing alone: "Father! Mother! Oh, my God! O man! ……”

Ziyu asked, "What's wrong with you?" ”

Zisang said, "I'm sick. I've been thinking about it these days...... Who made me so poor? Is it a parent? Is it heaven and earth? My parents have no selfishness towards me, and heaven and earth have no selfishness towards me, so my poverty must be fate! ”

What people can't choose is called fate. You were born a prince? Beggar? This is something that cannot be decided by man. People must live in peace and be friends with the Word. ”

Chang Rong also continued to express his own views on his own story, on this issue, it is nothing more than such a question, not a question of who is right and wrong, but this question has been doomed since birth.

"Duke Huan once studied in the hall, and Lunbian was making wheels in the front hall.

Lun Bian was fascinated by Huan Gong's reading, and asked curiously, "May I ask what book you are reading?" ”

Huan Gong said: "I read the scriptures of the saints. ”

Lun Bian asked, "Is the sage who wrote the book still there?" ”

Huan Gong said: "Died early! ”

Lun Bian then said, "Then the books you read are just the dross of the ancients. ”

Huan Gong was very angry: "What did you say? Tell me a reason, and if you talk nonsense, I'll put you to death!" ”

Lun Bian said: "The king, please stop ...... anger"

"I'm a wheel-maker, so let me use the wheel-making analogy."

"When making wheels, the knife is fast, so it saves effort, but the wheel is not round, and the knife is slow, it takes effort, but the wheel is round. The best technique for making wheels is that the knife is not fast or slow, and it is handy! ”

"But I can't pass on this skill to my son. So I'm seventy years old now, and I'm still making wheels. ”

"In this way, isn't it obvious that the great avenue obtained by the ancient saints cannot be passed down? So aren't the books you read the dross of the ancients? ……”

Craftsmen can only teach you the rules of the square circle, and cannot pass on the attainments of cultivation to you. The master who teaches boxing and sword can only pass on the moves to you, not his kung fu to you. People who read books often think that the words in books are very valuable, but in fact, the meaning beyond the words is precious, and those who can endorse books may not necessarily read, which is the truth. ”

Duan Chaonuan's last story is clearly saying that Chang Rong is pedantic and stubborn, and he doesn't know how to be flexible.