Chapter 250: Ignoring the need for family affection
"Great wisdom, go this way, go!"
"Why don't you go? Are you tired? ”
Lin Hagi pulled the rope of Great Wisdom and pulled it forward, but Great Wisdom stood still in place, still showing a look of disdain on its face, which could be called the source of emojis.
"It's all at the doorstep, there are not a few steps left, you hold on a little longer!"
Shi Yun took the ingots to Da Zhizhi and swiped the card, and after the two went to the bookstore to buy picture books for the ingots.
So, Lin Hagi planned to go home with great wisdom and a few packets of dog food that he brought first.
"Why don't you go?"
No matter how desperately Lin Hagi pulled the Great Wisdom forward, the Great Wisdom couldn't move, and even collapsed himself directly to the ground, holding a bewitching leg.
"Forget it, I'll hold you."
Lin Hagi could only resign himself to picking up his family's great wisdom that was seriously overweight.
And before the great wisdom was picked up, he glanced at Lin Hagi with an inexplicable strange look.
Walking to the door, Lin Hagi took out the key in his pocket and found that the key couldn't be inserted......
Gone wrong?
Lin Hagi subconsciously glanced at the Great Wisdom in his arms, so he couldn't forget the contemptuous look that Great Wisdom looked at him for the rest of his life......
"Wow~"
Great Wisdom: Look at it, I have words on my face???
Great Wisdom: I have given too much for this family!!
“……”
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Wu Lin Yuan.
A big tree pressed a begonia: how? My outline is good, right?
Mei Rao Ba Zong: Such a powerful heroine needs a patriarchal mother who only asks for money, an ex-boyfriend who splits her legs, and a white lotus scum girlfriend.
A big tree crushes a begonia: ......
A big tree crushes a begonia: You're too bad!
Mei Rao Ba Zong: Ba Lao is not bad, beauty is not loved.
Mr. Mei Raoba: Thank you for the compliment, keep up the good work!
A big tree crushes a begonia: ......
Mr. Mei Raoba: Slap your face quickly, don't grind and chirp, and pull this piece of foreshadowing.
A big tree presses begonias: Because the content of the professional part has not been checked clearly, I am a little cowardly, and I don't know how to write, so I want to delay the time......
Mr. Mei Raoba: Don't be cowardly, you can't make a decision, quantum mechanics; It doesn't make sense, it travels through time and space; There are not enough brain holes, parallel universes! Finally, I would like to add a sentence that is purely fictional√
Mei Rao Ba Zong: Perfect perfect √
Mei Rao Ba: By the way, did you want to open a new book last time?
A big tree presses a begonia: it doesn't open... Don't open it... I'm not scum...
Mr. Mei Raoba: It's okay, let's open it, open it, open the √ of the big book
Mei Rao Ba Zong: We don't have the ability to open up a universe, and the conditions for opening a text are still there.
Mr. Mei Raoba: That's not just a casual opening! If you want to open a few books, you can open a few √
#果然处于两种情绪下的人会对同一件事情有两种截然不同的态度#
At the beginning, Shi Yun's vinegar jar turned over in a burst of anger, and now he is lying at home leisurely and leisurely looking at what is pleasing to the eye.
A big tree presses a begonia: Do you know that the editorial department is going to organize an activity to experience the life of editors recently?
Mr. Mei Rao: I didn't get the notice.
A big tree presses a begonia: it hasn't been officially decided yet, it's just a proposal.
Mr. Mei Raoba: Then how do you know?
A big tree presses a begonia: Why am I also a god! Of course, there is some contact with the people inside!
A big tree presses a begonia: [Pride. GIF】
A big tree presses a begonia: in fact, this is a publicly-funded tourism project.
A big tree presses a begonia: So do you want to come to Zhangshi to play with me?
Mr. Mei Raoba: Zhangshi?
A big tree presses a begonia: do you know here?
Mr. Mei Raoba: I know too well......
A big tree pressed a begonia: I thought you hadn't been here?
Mr. Mei Raoba: I haven't been to your city, but I've brushed your questions.
Mei Rao Ba Zong: That's called a pervert!
Mr. Mei Raoba: Don't go! Don't go! This city has left a deep psychological shadow on me!
Mei Rao Ba Zong: Otherwise, how do you think I learned to learn, and the phone automatically jumped into my hand?
A big tree crushes a begonia: ......
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"Uncle~"
Yuan Bao ran over with a coloring book in his arms, tugging on Shi Yun's sleeve with one hand, and shouting Shi Yun with a milk voice.
"Huh?"
"Uncle, the teacher asked the parents to read this to us, is it okay for my uncle to read it to me~"
The guy tugged at Shi Yun's sleeve, held his head high, and looked straight at Shi Yun with sapphire eyes.
"Good~"
Shi Yun picked up the picture book, lay on the sofa with Yuanbao, and read it lovingly.
"There was a rabbit who fell down and cried all the time, and the mother rabbit did not pick up the rabbit who fell, nor did she wipe away the tears of the rabbit, and refused the help of other onlookers animal friends, just watched the rabbit cry pitifully, and when the rabbit was tired of crying, he could only stand up trembling with a twitch, and then the other animal friends who were watching were accusing the mother rabbit of being cold."
But then they found that the rabbit began to become independent and self-reliant, and no matter what difficulties they encountered, they could not handle it alone. That's when they learned that it was the mother rabbit's educational love for the rabbit. ”
After reading the story in the book, Shi Yun raised his eyebrows and gently lowered his voice to look at Yuanbao.
"Does Yuan Bao agree with this?"
Yuan Bao paused and shook his head.
"Yuan Bao doesn't know, but ...... Yuanbao also wants to be independent and self-reliant. ”
Shi Yun touched the guy's head.
"But what my uncle wants to tell Yuan Bao is that my uncle doesn't agree with this concept of education."
"Educational independence should not start with a rejection of embraces, but rather from an open embrace."
"When you have enough love, you will want to take the initiative to go out and explore, so that you will be independent when you go with the flow, and this independence is active independence and upward independence."
"And the independence that begins with the refusal to embrace is the independence that will carry pain no matter what achievements are achieved and what heights are reached."
"When you fall and cry, what we want to give you as a forgiveness is encouragement and comfort, to face up to your need for family affection rather than indifferently train you to stand up."
"When the child cries, we choose to be indifferent, maybe the child after this will really become independent, but they will also be psychologically distorted to a certain extent, resulting in the phenomenon of inner coldness."
"They think that there is only one way to go in this world, and they begin to deny the existence of help from others, and they reject all outside friendliness."
"It will also one-sidedly define independence as rejecting all support from the outside world and relying completely on oneself."
"Being independent and self-reliant is certainly worthy of our respect, but it does not mean that each of us has to rely on ourselves in everything."
"The meaning of the existence of relatives and lovers is to be able to rely on oneself, and overemphasizing independence is actually to a certain extent a contempt for helping others."
"Encourage independence and self-improvement, but at the same time, we should not ignore the child's need for family affection."
"Indifferent training of children can indeed get a child who does not cry or make trouble, but that is not that the child has become well-behaved. Rather, it is the calm of the baby's dead silence in despair, no longer signaling to the outside world. The baby's trust in his mother and the world is extinguished in the cradle, and his future will be full of loneliness and gloom. ”
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