Qin Wafan, who was sitting next to Zhao Hong, had a focused look, a serious expression, and a thoughtful pen on paper, all of which exuded a charming brilliance in her eyes.

She couldn't help but look at the boy in front of her who was about to enter the palace of marriage with her, remembering that when she and him went on a date in a café for the first time, the two were talking, and he suddenly took out an A4 paper full of words very seriously, and pleaded with her very seriously:

"Zhao Hong, knowing you is the greatest miracle in my life, in order to show respect and cherishment for this miracle, please allow me to formally introduce myself to you:

I, Qin Wafan, male, was admitted to the 2001 Physics Department of Bincheng Normal University in 2001 and obtained a bachelor's degree in June 2005.

Motto: Perfecting others is equal to achieving oneself.

During my college years, many of my classmates from elementary and middle school got married and had children, and they worked as small jobs in the surrounding area to live in a small town to support their families. I, a black boy who grows like a grain of sand on the beach, because of the university, I have to avoid the monochrome life that can be seen at a glance in this tropical monsoon climate, so that I began to smell salted fish, like the fog that fills the sea in the morning waiting for the sun to rise, and there is more room for imagination in my life.

As a person, after studying in college for four years, I feel that I have been added to my soul with a few more bone scaffolds, which seems to be different from the people around me.

But what is the difference, at first glance, it doesn't seem to be much different from the people around me.

Now, please move your nose a little, smell the bookish anger that has not faded on me, look at my half-rimmed glasses, smilingly clipped to the bridge of my nose, do you feel that I am distinguished from the perennial sweat and the pores of the people around me who have come out to work and do business in their teens?

If you look a little more closely, you will still find the eyes hidden under my stubby eyelashes, and for a moment, there may be a trace of sharpness beyond age, like a lightning bolt, swift and sharp, which is rare among the people around you, right?

If you can take a closer look, especially to touch my slender eyes, you will not help but marvel, how sharp, the whole pair of eyes, there is clearly a smile in the cordial, heart-warming, unguarded! Such a smile, do you feel like a warm day, even if the tyrant is entrenched like the scorching sun on his head, he can be isolated in an instant, as soon as he meets the smile I gave you, the warmth in my heart is born from this, and the harmony is just right, an increase is hot, and a decrease is cold?

Of course, if you really read countless people or are extremely intelligent, you may also have the opportunity to find that in my gentle smile, in the corners of my eyes at both ends, there is from time to time a kind of refinement that seems to be able to perceive the world's mind, not to the point of cunning, but enough to see what others think of us. Therefore, even if the good mind is revealed, if the person is not afraid of embarrassment and embarrassment, and even if it is revealed, I will definitely use his way to let him understand what it means to reach out and not hit the smiling person. Do you think that such a me is worth having for your whole life?

Okay, please don't look at me anymore, the more you look at it, the more you will find a truth: ordinary people are not tolerant of products, the more products are more ordinary, and the more products make the other party different!

Could this be too much of a subjective consciousness? Does it mislead other people's opinions and make you think that I am not only narcissistic but also romantic? Although, there may not be anyone who can clearly point out what the hell he is in love.

According to the meaning of "the other is the grave of the self", it is better not to dig our own grave, in short, we will all be buried by the decay of cells one day, so why bother to disappear in the eyes of others without assertiveness in such a hurry? Therefore, love, please love deeply, don't hesitate, don't care about the eyes and thoughts of others, respect your love for me, I love your thoughts, just live in our warm heart room.

However, then again, in the world of running around in this life, old age, sickness and death, it depends on our joint efforts to have some harvest, which family can not summarize a completely ordinary life in one sentence?

Isn't that true for everyone, for every family? At first glance, there is a mortal in the crowd of living beings, and a social cell in the bustling city, but if there is a bosom lover next to you who takes a closer look, and there is a bosom lover at home who asks for warmth and warmth, you will involuntarily discover the good qualities that you have not even been aware of, and become a different person in the eyes of your beloved.

I, in fact, like you and him, am just one of the advanced life forms that evolved from the ancient ape walking upright to the present, and is recognized as a human being, and is just a drop in the ocean among all living beings today. The difference is that I still love you, more than anyone else around you.

I'm special in your eyes because you found a unique idea that I love you, but is there anything else special? Your specialness, I will spend my life slowly savoring. As for what else I have worth savoring for the rest of your life, this question will also take my life to answer.

As for what I am special in the eyes of others, it is that everyone somehow is crooked, and they notice me as an ordinary person, and inadvertently put a little more thought, so at a certain moment, I am curious, thinking that under my ordinary appearance, is it possible to see something similar to themselves, but different and intriguing?

However, it is difficult to answer this question, I can only say that people always have difficulties when they want a help, support, hope, my Qin Wafan-style help will be valuable, can bring hope, in the hearts of people who have not experienced things or are experiencing things, I can let them find a little bit of my Qin Wafan-style meaning of existence.

However, what needs to be vaccinated in advance is that at this time, after all, I am still a young man, please allow me to still have a half-understanding of many of my own characteristics, and I am stumbling on the track of life on the road with intuition and experience, trying to find a direction that I may not even know myself.

Of course, I can't do my duty like a security guard standing at the gate every day to scorch your soul with such life questions as "where do you come from and where are you going", I just want to figure out one thing instinctively, like all ordinary people from ancient times to the present: what should life be like? How to live better? What can I do and what can I do to have a better life?

I think my life, from now on, is our life, my life with yours, with our children, with our parents. Is this kind of life also what you want? ”

When Qin Wafan finished reading this manuscript to her at that time, she had already burst into tears. Whether it was an affectionate confession written by himself or somewhere he got it to make her happy, she accepted it. But her intuition told her that what she met was a good young man with hidden talents, and sure enough, it was exactly what she loved. She was overjoyed.

At this moment, he who was sitting in front of her and wasting a pen to discuss it was not himself who he gave her that day? Isn't he just fulfilling the "I love you" he confessed to her in various ways that day and the life he wants to give her?

Her heart was surging again, her eyes were moist, he was the towering tree rooted in her heart from now on, and he was working with her to become the common support of their lives and families.