Chapter 84: Reflections on Marriage
The eldest girl continued:
Uncle Sanxiu doesn't go out these days, others say that Qiao Sanxiu also regrets it in his heart, this can be done, but he has to don't, it's hard to find it again in our soon, unless he goes to the field to say, Grandma Qiao also dragged Mrs. Li and asked Mrs. Li to look for it in the distance, Uncle Sanxiu knew, but he refused, saying that except for the daughter of the Zhang family, no one wants. After hearing this, everyone understood that Uncle Qiao was still thinking about the daughter of the Zhang family in his heart, and he didn't want anyone else.
When Qiao Ruyi heard this, he couldn't help but change his opinion of Qiao Sanxiu, it turned out that Qiao Sanxiu was still infatuated.
The eldest girl said again:
Uncle Sanxiu said that he would marry the daughter of the Zhang family no matter what, so that other people's gossip would not be said, and he said that the reason why the marriage between the two families was yellow last time was that someone should break the relationship in it and deliberately say bad things about him, and this time he must prove it to others, and he is not bad.
Well, Qiao Ruyi heard this, and then he knew that the reason why Qiao Sanxiu was so persistent was to prove himself to others, and Qiao Ruyi had nothing to say.
The eldest girl sighed again and said:
Sister Ruyi, my mother also dragged Mrs. Li to find me my mother-in-law's house?
Qiao Ruyi listened, and glanced at the eldest girl with some puzzlement, the eldest girl was the same size as her, and now she is only thirteen years old, why is she in a hurry to say goodbye.
Qiao Ruyi thought of this, so he asked:
Big girl, isn't it too early for you to say kiss now?
When the eldest girl heard this, she couldn't help nodding, and then said:
Who said no, but there is no way, my family is poor, all these years are to earn a little food, can not earn an empty stomach, grandma is slowly not good, I am afraid that there is a case, the milk said to prepare in advance for the next life and send the final clothes, there is no money at home, can only think of finding me a home, good dowry
The eldest girl said these words calmly, without any fluctuations, Qiao Ruyi listened, but her heart was sullen.
If it's for someone's dowry, most of them won't find any good people.
Qiao Ruyi opened his mouth and said.
This is also what I am worried about, I am not afraid of marrying so early, the sooner I get married, the sooner I will be liberated, but what I am worried about is what kind of family I will go to, if it is like here now, I really have no hope.
There was worry in the eldest girl's tone, it seemed that she was really scared.
It's no wonder that a woman doesn't want to marry a wishful man, if she meets an unbearable man, there will be no hope in the next life, even if it is a divorce, most of them have the support of their mother's family, but in this case, the mother's family will not really think about her, so she can only suffer secretly, and the worry of the big girl is inevitable.
Qiao Ru was worried about her when she was so emotional, but she also knew that she couldn't do anything now, so she had to comfort her and said:
Big girl, you don't have to worry too much now, in case you meet a good man with ambition, these things are not easy to say, although your worries are reasonable, but when things come to an end, there will definitely be a way.
Qiao Ruyi cheered up the eldest girl.
Qiao Ruyi said this, but the eldest girl burst out laughing and said:
Sister Ruyi, I have been very worried before, but now I listen to Sister Ruyi, I feel much better, my mother and the matchmaker mentioned the dowry to a full five taels, these silver in the general dealer is difficult to come up, I think this marriage is difficult to achieve in a short time.
The eldest girl said this, her tone was much lighter.
Qiao Ruyi nodded when she heard this, and then said:
In fact, in my opinion, as long as a man is healthy and clear-headed, even if he doesn't have much foundation in the family, but he knows that he feels sorry for women and values women, he can also consider it, relying on his own hands, being rich and expensive, but eating and drinking is still possible, I am afraid that men are confused and will not hurt their own women, even if they earn a family business, they will use it on women outside, and at home, because they are forced to be coerced by their mothers, they have wronged their own women, which is the most difficult, and we women are not afraid of hardship. With his own hands to earn his own food and drink, he also has confidence in his heart. 3a Reading Network
Qiao Ruyi said what she thought in her heart.
There is nothing to be poor, and the eldest girl also continued, as long as a man has a good character, takes the right path, and lives a down-to-earth life, plus a woman who can cherish herself, even if she suffers with such a man, she is willing.
The eldest girl remembered her father and added.
It's just that such a man is indeed rare.
How can you say that it is rare, you see that Uncle Xue is not very good to Aunt Xue, Aunt Xue has not been able to have children all these years, and Uncle Xue has not hesitated to separate from his mother in order to be with Aunt Xue.
Qiao Ru was a little pessimistic about the second girl, and was busy looking for an example and said to the eldest girl.
Yes, there are still such good men.
The eldest girl also responded with a smile.
The two girls are at the same age, and they have secretly thought about this matter many times, but it is usually difficult to say it, but now that the eldest girl mentioned the beginning, the two couldn't help but talk about it. When the two of them finished speaking, their faces were hot, and now that they think about it, they know how shameless they said.
Qiao Ruyi and the eldest girl looked at each other and smiled, and they both closed their mouths and stopped talking about this topic, but the relationship between the two was invisibly much closer.
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Qiao Ruyi remembered that she hadn't seen the Xue family these days, and she hadn't seen Qiao's father and Qiao Laoniang for a while, so she planned to go to see them.
When I arrived at Qiaojiazhuang, Qiao Ruyi came to Xue's first, and as soon as I entered Xue's house, I saw Xiu'er playing alone in the yard.
Qiao Ruyi saw it, then asked with a smile:
Xiu'er, is your mother there?
At.
Xiu'er's thin voice came, seeing her like this, she was much more timid than a few days ago, Qiao Ruyi looked at her with a smile, and said:
I'm going to see your mother.
Xiu'er listened and ran quickly to the house, Qiao Ruyi saw it, smiled and followed her in.
Xiu'er said as she ran:
Mother, mother, Sister Ruyi has come to see you.
yes, oops, let Ruyi in.
Xue Shi shouted outward, and came out of the inner room from the kang again, Qiao Ru agreed, and hurriedly said:
Aunt Xue, why did you get off the kang, go in and raise it.
Qiao Ru said that the Xue family had not seen him for a few days, his body was much whiter and fatter, and his face was full of smiles, but his stomach was not very pregnant.
Xue replied with a smile:
Ruyi, how busy you are there, can you go away, you still came to see me, come in and sit.