Postscript: On the tiled house——

The tiled house is based on the growth and life of those born in the early eighties at the beginning of the twentieth century.

1. About the origin of the names of Qin Wafan and Bai Pujia

The name Qin Wafan is indeed taken from the meaning of Qin bricks and Han tiles.

China is a rural society, from the Western Zhou Dynasty, the establishment of the feudal system, the patriarchal system and the well field system, which means that the agricultural society from the political, economic and ritual formation, and the great unification of the Qin Dynasty marks our agrarian country officially entered the feudal centralized system, the self-sufficient small peasant economy has become the economic basis of the entire feudal society, affecting all aspects of our cultural life, even today, it still has a far-reaching impact. I remember when I was a child, I went to work in the fields with the adults, it was in the 80s, and the people in the village were all hoes and oxen that had been handed down for thousands of years as published in the history books. Of course, I live in an adobe house with gray tiles and white walls. That's why I'm so emotional about tiles that I use them as the hero's name.

The name Bai Pu Jia is based on the well-known "Pu Jia Cang" in the Book of Poetry, which symbolizes the beautiful new ideals and new hopes worth pursuing.

My Fair Lady, a gentleman is easy to ask, and this is what I mean. Since she is an ideal and a hope, then of course there will be heights, novelties, and her own pursuits. Her kindness will make her pity the hero's love for her, but her persistence in self and the search for the meaning of life will make her not be tied up by love, but will still pursue her own pursuit. With her own life, she has created the spiritual home she yearns for, which is her nobility.

2. About the growth of Qin Wafan and Bai Pujia

Qin Wafan and Bai Pujia are two of the people in the early 80s, very ordinary, not born with a golden key, nor born in a particularly poor and closed area, but both were born and raised in the countryside, and grew up in small towns with the process of rural urbanization.

Their families are not wealthy, but it is enough for them to knock on the door of this new world where knowledge changes their fate, and they begin to look outward with the power of youth in their golden years, hoping to see the future, to see higher and farther places that are different from the lives of their parents.

And they have inherited the spiritual quality of self-improvement and hard work flowing from their parents, influenced by the simple thoughts of the people around them, and never thought of taking crooked ways, but with their own hands, using their learning ability in the university, step by step upward, stepping into the torrent of life, from the state of having nothing except youth, bravely assume the responsibility of life, and create a life that is meaningful to the family and society.

But they also have the limitations of the times and themselves.

In their hearts, there is inferiority, Qin Wafan because he feels that his family background is average, his talent is average, and his appearance is average, and he has been secretly in love with Bai Pujia for four years in college and has not been able to catch up bravely, but he is only hovering in the shadow of his secret love. But it is precisely because of his own understanding of his own shortcomings, because of such an inferiority complex that he wants to use bravery and talent to improve himself to make himself worthy of the goddess in his mind, and based on his own spirit of self-improvement, since the beginning of college, he has embarked on a part-time job to solve his college tuition and living expenses, reduce the burden on his family, let himself reserve talents, to pursue the future of abundant food and clothing, and a good life, thus starting his self-breakthrough and growth road.

After graduating from college, Qin Wafan, who mistakenly thought that Bai Pujia was married, fell in love with Zhao Hong at first sight after meeting Zhao Hong, and he also felt that Zhao Hong was a suitable candidate for his life partner, and soon stepped into marriage and began a sweet and spicy family life with flowers and chicken feathers. But in his heart, he never let go of Bai Pujia, let alone his responsibility for life and family, and finally found his favorite career in the rampage. After weighing left and right, and after some entanglement, he gave up his position as a teacher and started his own entrepreneurial road.

Entrepreneurship is hard, because of the support of Bai Yu, a sworn friend in the university, coupled with his honest and sincere nature, and his serious personality, he frequently meets nobles. From the boss Qin Fat, who saw him incorrectly at the beginning and later cooperated with him as a brother and brought him the initial network resources, to Zhang Lan, the vice president in charge of Haiti Group, who admired him and even fell in love, all of them helped him move forward in his career, survived every mud on the road of entrepreneurship, and finally walked towards his era.

This also means that in the vast countryside, when the older generation is dying and aging, the new generation is standing at the high point of the new era, with more advanced new ideas, new thinking, higher foresight, and more advanced new technologies, connecting the past and the next, and opening a new generation of cultural life.

They are also uncompromising and unflinching in the predicament of life, and they are brave enough to take responsibility, but what makes their generation different from their parents is that they have the ability to create a new life by a "new" word, the new concepts, new ways of thinking and new technologies given in the new era. This is the great luck of Qin Wafan and Bai Pujia living in the times, and it is also their ability to keep up with the trend of the times and grasp the wrist of fate.

Therefore, they, these young people in small towns who have grown up one after another, are the new hope rising in the vast land, and the new force that is constantly rolling and condensing. So, they should be worth leaning on.

Therefore, even if there are limitations given to them by the environment, they still move forward bravely and never set limits on themselves. On their own, they learned to be rational and cautious after the rampage of their heads and bloodshed. After entering the society, they saw the colorful light and shadow of human nature, began to self-reflect, strengthened their belief in kindness and bravery, helped each other, and overcame themselves, so as to get continuous breakthroughs in life. Such youth, such growth, and such a life, even if there are disadvantages and defects, are worthy of praise.

3. About the emotions between Qin Wafan and Bai Pujia

As soon as Qin Wafan entered the university, he fell in love with Bai Pujia at first sight, but Bai Pujia did not indulge in personal emotions, but quickly withdrew from her curiosity about emotions and focused on her own growth and future development efforts. Because of this, Qin Wafan loves Bai Pujia even more, but he doesn't dare to say more, for fear that he will not get love, but even lose his friendship.

But in love, Qin Wafan still couldn't hold back the stirring emotions in his heart after all. In many explicit hints, Bai Pujia has shown that she and him only lie in the depth of friendship, not in the connection of love. In despair, he regenerates hope. Such emotional waves have become a source of depression in his heart, and invisibly, they have become the driving force for him to move forward. Bai Pujia is the goddess he has always been in his heart, the higher goal he has been pursuing, and it has also become a source of spiritual strength and important emotional support for him when he gets in touch after graduation. Probably, life's confidante is like this. I like love, but I can't.

Therefore, in his world, the most appeared, after he graduated, not Bai Pujia, but his parents, his wife Zhao Hong, and two sons. Bai Pujia went from being a follower of his eyes in college to a spiritual resident in his married life, and also lived in his telephone line.

Bai Pujia is a girl who lives in her own ideals, so pure that she doesn't seem to eat the fireworks of the world, but her ideal pursuit is everywhere for the better of the world and intentions. She is an idealist, a teacher, a female education industry entrepreneur with a keen sense, and a new woman in the new era. A real feminist is not radically trying to be the master of men, but is the master of her own life with her own unique feminine color.

Bai Pujia, because of her kind and elegant personality, with her clear mountains and rivers from the countryside and small towns, and her strong bookish atmosphere of love for reading and learning, gently and detachedly put her inner ideals into practice and entered her own desired state of life. This kind of free choice, free yearning, and free life practice are the concentrated embodiment of her free spiritual quality. She lives like a rational person in the real world, and with her own kindness and warmth, she firmly shines on the beautiful meaning of life, and that is because she comes from that simple and simple land.

Therefore, it seems that Qin Wafan has been pursuing Bai Pujia, but in fact, Bai Pujia has been dominating the purity and beauty of this emotion, using emotional connections to make Qin Wafan constantly hold himself more in the various desires of real life, and have a steady stream of emotional support to resolve the confusion and struggles he encounters, and promote him to consciously resolve desires and self-reflection and self-improvement in every stage, from boy to man, from reality to ideal, and then from ideal to reality.

Of course, she also received a steady stream of spiritual support and encouragement from Qin Wafan. Because of their emotions, they have become an indispensable force for each other to move forward on their own life paths.

The emotions of these two people cannot be said to be love, nor is it cheating, there is no physical contact, but there is a spiritual exchange, but this kind of communication is pure thought, clean, clear, almost free of impurities, thousands of miles away, even if you want to have impurities, you can't. So it has become the most beautiful existence in the adult world.

But this can't be said to have nothing to do with love. From the very beginning, when Qin Wafan saw Bai Pujia, he had the existence of a man's sexual love for a woman. The continuation of their relationship, the transformation of emotions, at every stage, there is an indescribable bitterness and entanglement because of the existence of love, and there is a clear transformation process that emotions have to have in the reality of life.

It is a wonderful emotion, a mixture of joy and a little pain, so to speak. It is a presence worth savoring.

Fourth, about Qin Wafan and Bai Pujia's respective lives

Qin Wafan worked part-time as soon as he went to college, because of the sense of distress brought to him by family life, and also because of the quality inheritance given to him by his parents' hard work and hard work.

He worked hard to make money, hoping to achieve the match between himself and Bai Pujia through tangible wealth, but he didn't really explore Bai Pujia's inner yearning, so that every day on the balcony outside his dormitory, he secretly paid attention to Bai Pujia's activities in the opposite girl's building, but he never entered Bai Pujia's heart, and couldn't make her his lifelong partner as he wished.

And Zhao Hong's intrusion, like a ray of sunshine, ignited his heart that had been in unrequited love until he was frustrated, and began his life emotions. He has a generous personality, constantly learning to be a good husband, and then learning to be a good father, and at the same time serving as the financial source of the family, but because of the casualness in life, he has repeatedly clashed with his wife with a warm personality but high standards of life, and even to the point that they are so aggrieved that they want to divorce...... However, life has taught them to cherish and see clearly how people on the family boat should be in the same boat and never leave each other. So, in the run-in, they understand each other, compromise, reconcile, and grow up separately, moving forward hand in hand, for the happiness of family life.

Therefore, when faced with the appearance of Zhang Lan, as a mature man, he has the normal desires of a mature man, and with the help of his wife and Bai Pujia's weight in his heart, he realized the way a mature man should deal with the temptation of extramarital emotions. And his mind, capability, atmosphere, sense of responsibility and pioneering spirit made Zhang Lan deeply impressed, silently retracted, and became a high-quality partner and trustworthy person in his career. In Bai Pujia's emotional confusion, Zhang Lan is also one of the people who understands and helps him.

Bai Pujia insisted on the practice of her life ideals, and gently rejected all emotional temptations, but accidentally met and knew Qin Kexin, and unconsciously fell in love.

Qin Kexin is the nephew of the chairman of the Haitian Group, I heard that he is a rich second generation, but in fact he is a person who has also endured hardships when he followed his fathers, from the countryside to the town, and then to the city, his growth experience has buried a piece of snow deep in his heart, and he needs the warm sun to illuminate in order to unravel the painful closure of the long-term loss of his mother as a teenager.

By mistake, he unintentionally planted willows, but Qin Kexin's elders discovered the pure and clear white pampas with no lack of wisdom and enterprising. So, Bai Pujia broke into his sight like this, and he had a lot of contact with Bai Pujia at work, and unconsciously broke into Bai Pujia's attention.

After going back and forth, the two got to know each other better as they got into more contact.

Although Bai Pujia intended to dodge, she couldn't avoid it, so after Qin Kexin recognized her as the warm sunshine of the snow in his heart, he slowly pulled her into his life in an extremely imperceptible way without realizing it.

Therefore, this is not a good story of a talented and beautiful woman in the general sense, on the contrary, it is necessary to use the seemingly son of wealth to test the hardness and purity of the golden stone of Bai Pujia.

Isn't this a woman with dignity and wisdom who doesn't treat each other differently because of wealth, adheres to the principle of being a person without discrimination in the face of wealth, and doesn't give up the true feelings in her heart because of wealth, and doesn't let her true feelings deteriorate because of wealth? Isn't this the same thing as the pure emotions of the world?

It's just that for Qin Wafan, there are more regrets, in his world, it can never be Bai Pujia as the protagonist, and in Bai Pujia's world, the protagonist is never him, but this common connection in the past between them is irreplaceable by the protagonists in their respective lives, and the continuation and transformation of this emotion is also their free choice and emotional wisdom as an independent person.

5. About life in Qinfang County

Qinfang County is a small seaside county, which can be seen from Qin Pang's Qin Family Restaurant, Qin Xiaoxue's Lime Ice House and Qin Wafan's factory-style office. And Zhang Lan's favorite Qinjiang Hotel, which has the unique beauty of the seaside town. The elegant interior decoration of the Lanzhi Ya Room in Qinjiang Hotel is the embodiment of the high-end aesthetic life of Qinfang people. In the Lanzhi room, pushing the window at night, the sea breeze blowing in the face, the crumbling stars outside the window, and the low surging tide, this kind of beauty belongs to the unique gift given by nature to Qinfang.

How can people living in such an environment be poor people? Although they inevitably have to come and go for profit and benefit in their lives, they are also open-minded, with good mountains and rivers and good hearts. This is where the people of Qinfang and Qinfang lived. Qin Wafan and all his relatives and most of his friends came from here.

Bai Yu, Qin Wafan's college friend and entrepreneurial supporter, is a typical one. Although he is not as brave as Qin Wafan to challenge, he also lives and works in peace and contentment, in Qinfang, he is a middle-aged and senior in high school, and even his parents-in-law, who are wealthy, respect him at home. His life is another life worth living.

And Qin Fat, who was so fat, adjusted his diet and lifestyle because he made friends like Qin Wafan and Bai Yu, and became a healthy person, marrying a wife and having children, which is a changing trend in life in a small town. It is also a kind of impact and breaking of the old concept of life given by new cultural people like Qin Wafan and Bai Yu. The transformation of the Qinjia Hotel opened by Qin Pang with the help of Qin Wafan and Bai Yu is more of a demonstration of the positive impact of the new cultural forces on the stagnant old cultural concepts of the place. The marine advertising and marketing company founded by Qin Wafan is the implantation and touch of a new concept for all walks of life in Qinfang County.

The Haitian Group is in the real estate industry, because in the past few years, the real estate industry was a pillar industry, but because of the introduction of new industries and new forces such as Qin Wafan and Bai Pujia, it has also injected the germination of new formats into the traditional industry, and has begun to become the mother of the new industry and new cultural industry. This is probably due to some of the assumptions I had when I made the choice of industry.

Finally, although the tiled house was torn down to build a high-rise building, its meaning of sheltering from the wind and rain and the generations remained unchanged. The warmth born in the tiled house will not dissipate, but continue to connect with the soul through the inheritance of the ancestors, like a seed in the wind and rain, it will not dry up and wither, but will become more fragrant.

At this point, above Wafan, farewell to it.

In the next story, we continue to look forward to and continue to meet and grow.