"This is very realistic, we haven't seen it, let's just say that we used to be the family in the village, the old man is lying in bed, sick, the grandchildren come to take turns to deliver food, and the son and daughter-in-law are difficult to stand by the bedside for a while, it's not that they don't want to, it's that the young people have no choice, they have to make money to support their families, or where else do they have food to eat in bed?"

Mother Qin lowered her head and continued to smile while adjusting the needle and thread as she compared.

Mother Zhao bowed her head and was silent. She is a strong person, if she is also in the hospital bed one day, I am afraid that she will also have a burden and cause trouble to her daughter, but if you go to the nursing home, and you are afraid of embarrassing your daughter and son-in-law, then the nursing home is full of five-guarantee households, lonely and widowed old people, and her daughter is probably unwilling, so she has to increase the pressure on their young juniors.

"Oh, Mom, do you mean that I'm transparent? Qin Wafan and I can't mix up anyway and say that we can't support you old people, besides, it's a big deal that we have a mouthful of food, so we will share it for you to eat, you are all more comfortable than me now, just worry about this and worry about that, is it necessary? ”

Zhao Hong finally couldn't help it on the side and interjected.

"You said it lightly, your son doesn't have to be raised? If you look at the present, which child can't wait to start preparing for the future just after birth, and start learning all kinds of things before going to school, that family still has to pay for the old ones. ”

Mother Zhao glanced at her daughter with a smile and said.

"Yes, then we are upstairs, the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law quarrel into a pot of porridge every day, either shouting or screaming, mother-in-law and father-in-law feel that they have helped their son and daughter-in-law a lot, and the son and daughter-in-law have been working outside for a busy day and come back, knowing that the child is watching TV with the old man at home, he is very dissatisfied, saying that the old man is not interested in his grandson, and he said that he is not even willing to take out a change to buy candy for his grandson.

Mother Qin poked the ceiling with a long bamboo needle for knitting a sweater.

"Yes, today's children are expensive, unlike ours, where did they come from so many requirements, not short of food and drink, can provide him with school, it's good, how many people's children have gone to work to support their families after junior high school and high school, isn't it the same?"

Zhao's mother also smiled.

"It's not okay now, you have to pay attention to the method of taking care of children, and you can say that other experts have said at every turn, how to do it, how to do it, how to do it, oops, rules and regulations, young people can learn and understand but don't have time to learn, and the old people can't let go if they don't learn, and they don't know if they have children or pay off their debts!"

Mother Qin also laughed.

"Hahaha, however, the sons and daughters of our two families are all good children, not mixed, obedient, filial, sensible, and very hard-working, able to grow faces, and satisfied."

Zhao's mother looked at her daughter and smiled. Zhao Hong simply ignored them, and took care of herself and inserted the cut apple pieces with a toothpick, and handed one to her mother-in-law and one to her mother. Mother Zhao smiled and took the apple handed over by her daughter, did not put it in her mouth, but habitually put it on her daughter's lips, watched her daughter eat it, and then took the apple pieces handed by her daughter and put them in her mouth, and added a sentence to her daughter's arrogant face before putting the apple pieces in her mouth:

"I don't like to praise you! You kid, we just have nothing to talk about, and you're still careful. ”

"Hmph, let's talk, just don't take it to heart."

Zhao Hong pouted. But in her heart, she also began to think about the issue of raising children in the topic discussed between her mother-in-law and her mother.

"Oh, Honghong, in the future, your children, we can help you during the full moon, but the main thing is that you and your husband and wife have to spend more effort to bear it, you are both college students and teachers, we are not as good as you, besides, don't you all say that the education of the next generation is not as good as the education of parents? We'll help you do some housework or something, and the children don't dare to take it! ”

Mother Qin saw that since she had talked about this topic, she simply said it clearly. Originally, she also wanted to find a time to talk to her son and daughter-in-law about this matter, but later found that the division of labor between the two was quite clear, the son was outside the house, mainly in charge of the outside work, and the daughter-in-law was in charge of the family, so she knew that it was okay to talk to the daughter-in-law about taking the child first.

It just so happened that my own mother-in-law was also there, so I said it.

There is a paradigm in the local area for the maintenance of the elderly and the upbringing of the young in a family.

Most of the villages and towns are brought by parents-in-law, and half of the counties are mainly parents-in-law, and some are divided and cooperated with parents-in-law, and a small part is mainly brought by mothers in parents.

Qin's mother talked to her two sons when they were in college, the affairs of the grandchildren, the sons are the main, the two of them are old, but they don't interfere too much, she will definitely help during confinement, but in the future, it depends on the situation to help.

The two sons also agree with their parents' views, before Qin Wafan got married, Qin's mother and Qin's father also talked about it, and mentioned their views to their sons, and now, after talking to their daughter-in-law, it should be announced clearly.

"Yes, I will also come over when you are in confinement, the child will grow up, but you two have to worry about it yourself, let us take care of it every now and then, and in the long run, you have to do it yourself."

Mother Zhao coincidentally stood on the same front as Mother Qin. She understood what Qin's mother said and agreed. Let the children worry about their own affairs, and they will have to have some space to live for themselves in this life.

"Mom, what you said, Honghong and I both understand, it can be summed up in one sentence, we give birth to us and we raise, you help us in the confinement, right?"

I don't know when, Qin Wafan, who finished cleaning up the dishes and chopsticks, stood next to the armrest of the sofa next to his wife Zhao Hong, smiling calmly.

"Also, don't worry, Qin Wafan and I have discussed it, we will take the children, and we will work hard to make money to support the family, in the future, you can put your mind at ease and live a comfortable life, and we will definitely be responsible for all our parents to the end."

Of course, there is also a Qin Jiang, which is self-explanatory. But Zhao Hong, as the eldest sister-in-law, can say this on behalf of her younger brother and future brother-in-law, with Qin Wafan and her personality, even if Qin Jiang doesn't care about the family, she and Qin Wafan will be responsible for these two old people, not to mention, Qin Jiang is not the kind of person who ignores his parents.

"Well, don't worry, if we can't even raise our own children, we can't even take care of you, then what's the matter? Is that still worth your daily education? Isn't it, Grandma? ”

After Qin Wafan finished speaking, he winked and smiled at his mother, full of confidence. For the future, although he can't even afford a motorcycle of 2,000 yuan now, he is full of confidence: not only has a very beautiful vision, but also has specific plans at different stages. In this regard, he and his wife Zhao Hong are absolutely of the same heart and mind.

"Yes, we all believe that you and Honghong can make life as good as possible!"

Mother Qin smiled and affirmed her son's words, and Mother Zhao also laughed.

Children are generous, have ideas and abilities, and have filial piety, the old people are naturally comfortable, and there are fewer family conflicts. Read the latest chapter of "The Claw Book House on the Tile House" for free for the first time.