Chapter 488
When Qiao Ruxin heard this, she slowly stopped, and listened to Lu Jiao'er's words quietly, and Lu Jiao'er continued:
Daughter's marriage is a lifelong thing, if you can find a man who stands up to the sky, it is a woman's blessing, if you find a nest without ability, this woman has suffered for a lifetime, you think, in the future, this will start a family, have children, and serve her in-laws, how many things do you have to do, if a man does not use everything, then it is not to let women suffer, so Erniang and you said, first, you must find a man who can stand up to the sky.
Qiao Ruxin didn't say anything until Lu Jiao'er was for her good, so she nodded and said:
Erniang, I know, I must listen to you.
When Lu Jiao'er heard this, she nodded, and then she said to Qiao Ruxin:
That's right, don't follow their learning, find a good-looking one, and don't care about the others, so you get married in a hurry, you say that if you find such a man, you will have to suffer a lot in the future, and you will suffer a lot.
Lu Jiaoer said this, and then said to Qiao Ruxin:
Your father told me yesterday, I found you a family surnamed Chen, his family is a crude medicine shop, the population is simple, the man also looks very stable, not very old, but he can run a shop alone, I listen to it very well, this can be regarded as being able to stand the door, the key is that the in-laws in the family have died, there is only one little brother-in-law, when the in-laws died, the family has been divided, this Chen Dalang is assigned to the shop, this Chen Erlang is assigned to an inn, they are all able to live, and they are still a solid family.
Qiao Ruxin listened, and compared silently in her heart, this is much worse than Qiao Ruyi's marriage, Qiao Ruyi can marry a prince, but she can only marry a small shop.
Qiao Ruxin listened, chewing the handkerchief with both hands, Lu Jiao'er saw it, and said:
I think you can live a stable life, what do you think?
Qiao Ruxin didn't know what to say, so she could only lower her head, Lu Jiaoer thought that Qiao Ruxin was shy, so she smiled and said to Qiao Ruxin:
Ruxin, it's better to be like this, the master also told me, let that Chen Dalang come to our house for a meal tomorrow, you can go and take a sneak look, do you think this is good.
Qiao Ruxin listened and nodded slightly.
Although Qiao Ruxin was a little unhappy in her heart, but in the end, she couldn't push Lu Jiaoer's kindness too much, Lu Jiao'er did this for her, she just needed to go and see it tomorrow, if she was unhappy, it could be said, they would never force him to marry someone she didn't like, Qiao Ruxin made up her mind in her heart, if she was not very satisfied, she would definitely withdraw from this family affair, and she would definitely explain it to Qiao Erliang and Lu Jiaoer.
Lu Jiao'er glanced at Qiao Ruxin, and said with a smile:
That's right, I know that Ruxin you will agree, Ruxin, you are a good baby, not with other people's women, this marriage event, but not the parents are in charge, where is there their own decision, the two women in our family are their own decisions, for example, Sister Yuan, her life is not very good, Brother Qing is not a person who can do things and can not hurt people, Sister Yuan's life must be bad, besides, your sister Ruyi, although your sister is so expensive as the third princess, but the whereabouts of the three princes are now unknown, I don't know what the situation is, although I say that I am pregnant with a child, but I don't know whether I am a man or a woman, if it is a boy, it will be better, if it is a girl, it will be another layer of difference.
When Qiao Ruxin heard this, she nodded and said:
I know that my father and Erniang are both for my good, I know, and I appreciate it, tomorrow that Chen Dalang is here, I will take a look, whether it should or shouldn't, I will naturally tell you Erniang.
Good boy.
Lu Jiaoer said, you just need to take a look, you are sure to be satisfied, your father's vision will not be wrong, your father will not harm you, I believe in your father's vision.
When Lu Jiao'er heard this, she nodded slightly.
Lu Jiaoer then said: Ruxin, tomorrow's guests are coming, you dress up well, don't use too light jewelry, those golden yellow, insert two more on the head, although our family is not rich and expensive, but after all, it is also a small wealthy family, we still have to dress up, don't be underestimated
Qiao Ruxin listened, then nodded and said: I know, Erniang, don't worry, I will definitely dress up well tomorrow, but I don't have to dress up too much, after all, I look at that Chen Dalang, and I don't want Chen Dalang to come to see me, I think it's better not to go too far, besides, this also seems to be a stable daughter, not the kind of flamboyant person.
When Lu Jiao'er heard this, she also nodded and said:
There is still some truth in what you said, just according to your meaning, you can dress up a little, and you don't have to make too much publicity, so as not to let people see that our family can't marry a daughter.
Qiao Ruxin listened, nodded again and again and said:
My daughter also thinks like this, speaking of which my daughter is not very old, and she can stay at home for a few days, I think that if I can stay at home for a few years, I am also happy in my heart, but I want to stay with Erniang for a few more years
Okay, it's good if you have this heart, but the daughter's family is old and always has to get married, and you can't keep your daughter at home, which is also what parents should do.
Lu Jiaoer said this, and said to Qiao Nixin: I have some jewelry here, you see if there is anything you like, if you have a favorite, take it from me, anyway, I'm old, I don't care about dressing up, you young people, you should dress up more, I think it's better to take some jewelry from me.
Qiao Ruxin listened, and said with a smile: Erniang, what did you say, how can I get jewelry here Erniang, at the end of the year, Erniang doesn't know how much jewelry to send to me, I have a lot better, there is nothing missing, if I take jewelry from Erniang again, then I really don't know what to do.
Qiao Ruxin said, Erniang cleaned up here, Erniang kept it for herself, I have a lot of jewelry there, Erniang doesn't have to worry about me.
Since you say so, then I won't say anything, and I'll rely on you
When Lu Jiaoer said this, she said to Qiao Ruxin:
But you must remember, you must come to me tomorrow, I will take you to see that Chen Dalang, don't be reckless, in case you collide with the guests, it is not easy to open the glue.
Qiao Ruxin listened, then nodded and replied: I just listen to Erniang. Qiao Nina said this, and then asked:
Erniang, how old is that Chen Dalang and what does he look like.
Qiao Ruxin said this, her face was a little red, Lu Jiaoer smiled and said: You can rest assured, this Chen Dalang must be good-looking, I don't dare to say, how handsome that Chen Dalang is, but it must be upright, the master came home and said, this Chen Dalang is the best among the posterity seen these days, I think it must be bad, your father has always been very concerned about your marriage, you don't know, your father doesn't know how many posterity he has inspected, Now this Chen Dalang is the most in line with your father's mind, you can rest assured, it must be a good offspring, otherwise, how could your father agree with him, your father is good to you, and he will definitely think more about you.
When Qiao Ruxin heard this, she smiled secretly and said:
I know that I know, my father has always been very good to me, I know this, I think when I was in the countryside, it was very difficult, thanks to my father was able to take me over, I thought that if I didn't have my father's help, where would I be able to come to Lu Mansion and enjoy such wealth, and then let my father bother like this, for my marriage, in fact, my father really bothered for me, I am really a little sorry for my father.
Look at what this kid of yours said, Lu Jiao'er listened to it, and said to Qiao Ruxin:
Isn't your father supposed to be, who let him have a daughter like you, you better marry well, and when you get married, your father and I will breathe a sigh of relief.
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