Chapter 431
When Sister Tian heard this, she shook her head again and again: "Mother, what you said is not right!" ”
"Isn't that right?" Wei Fu wondered.
She thought about it carefully, but she didn't see anything wrong.
After all, from her own heart as a mother, if Sister Tian gets married one day, even if Sister Tian'er's husband is carefully selected by her and Jiang Heng, even if she sees with her own eyes that the other party is good to Sister Tian'er, I am afraid that it will not be possible for her to completely dispel her doubts.
The daughter born by oneself can't always be watched under one's nose, and can only hand her over to another person, how can a mother not worry?
Comparing his heart to his heart, Wei Fu felt that he had such a mentality, and he wanted to come to Shen Jun's parents the same.
But now it seems......
Does Sister Sweet have other opinions?
Although she didn't understand how a little girl like Sister Tian could understand the heart of a mother, Wei Fu still made a gesture of listening to her ears and wanted to hear what Sister Tian said.
Sister Tian winked at Wei Fu at this time, and said with a coquettish smile: "Mother, sister-in-law's parents will worry about her, that is because they are afraid that she will not have a good time in our house, but after sister-in-law returned to the door today, her parents saw that she looked so good, and then listened to her talk about how your mother treated her these days, they know that you are a good mother-in-law, and you will definitely treat your sister-in-law well in the future, so naturally they will not worry anymore!" ”
After saying that, he still hugged Wei Fu's arm and shook it vigorously.
turned such a big turn, but it was to pat Weifu's ass.
Wei Fu was amused by the little girl, and scratched the tip of the little girl's nose affectionately, "You girl, you know how to make your mother happy." ”
Sister Tian snorted softly: "Mother, you can't misinterpret what I mean like this, what I said is true, where is there anything to make you happy." ”
Although there is also a part of the psychology that wants to make Weifu happy, Sister Tian really thinks so.
Shen Jun has only been married into the Jiang family for two or three days, but even so, Wei Fu's tolerance of Shen Jun is also seen by Sister Tian'er.
Thinking of this, Sister Tian leaned on Wei Fu and said seriously: "Mother, sister-in-law met a mother-in-law like you, this is her luck." ”
Sister Tian is not married yet, but she also knows that whether a married woman can live a good life depends largely on what kind of mother-in-law she has.
Sister Tian didn't hate Shen Jun, and she didn't dislike Shen Jun's temperament, but she still felt that if she hadn't met a tolerant and generous mother-in-law like Wei Fu, she was afraid that she would have a very difficult time after getting married.
Wei Fu originally just wanted to have a few casual jokes with Sister Tian'er, but now after hearing Sister Tian say this, and then understanding the meaning of her words, she planned to have an in-depth exchange with Sister Tian'er.
"Sister Tian'er, do you think your sister-in-law can live well in the Jiang family because I am willing to tolerate her?" "Or, do you think that after a woman gets married, whether her mother-in-law gets along well or not determines whether her life is good or not?" ”
Sister Tian thought about it carefully when she heard this, she really thought so, so she nodded.
Wei Fu shook her head with a smile: "This idea can't be said to be wrong, but whether a married woman can live well, in addition to her mother-in-law, also depends on the situation of her mother's family, as well as her husband's attitude towards her, and more importantly, it depends on herself." ”
Sister Tian looked at Wei Fu with some confusion.
Wei Fu continued: "If the mother's family is powerful, for the sake of the mother's family, no matter how tricky the mother-in-law is, she will not embarrass this daughter-in-law, if she can get the protection of her husband, even if the mother-in-law is dissatisfied with her daughter-in-law, thinking about her son's attitude, she always has to consider one or two when making trouble, that is, there is no these, if the woman herself has enough city and means, even if the mother-in-law is difficult and the husband is ruthless, relying only on herself, it is enough to live a good life......"
There are many such women in the back house of the high gate in the capital.
Looking at Sister Tian'er's curious appearance, Wei Fu thought for a while and gave her some examples: "Mrs. Tai of Uncle Ningyuan's Mansion, have you seen it?" ”
Sister Tian thought about it carefully, and then nodded affirmatively.
The Song family, the wife of Ningyuan Bo's Mansion, is now over the age of six, and she generally doesn't go out easily, so the juniors like Sister Tian don't have many opportunities to meet her, but occasionally there are some more important occasions, and the Song family will still come forward.
Sister Tian met the Song family at the birthday banquet of the eldest princess of Anyang on her 60th birthday last year.
In Sister Tian'er's impression, although the Song family is old, her body and bones are still extremely healthy, even if she is no longer in her prime, she can still see a calm and calm bearing after going through the world, especially when she sees their juniors, she is extremely gentle and kind, and she is one of the few people who can make Sister Tian feel good just by seeing her.
Thinking of this, Sister Tian couldn't help but be a little puzzled.
It is difficult for my mother to mention Mrs. Tai of Ning Yuanbo's Mansion at this time......
What's the problem with this lady?
Wei Fu said: "Mrs. Tai of Ning Yuanbo's Mansion is also a powerful person......
There was a hint of admiration in her voice.
Song's boudoir name is Song Zhiyi, just listening to this name, it will make people think of a gentle beauty, but in fact, Song's temperament is extremely resolute, and he has always known what he wants.
Song's maiden family was also extremely prominent in the capital at the beginning, and her father once paid official homage to the cabinet second-assistant, and it was when the Song family was the most prominent that the Song family was married to the now deceased old Ning Yuanbo.
Although the door of Ning Yuanbo's Mansion is not low, the prominence of the Song family at that time is more prominent than that of Ningyuanbo's Mansion, and I heard that it was the Song family himself who took a fancy to the old Ning Yuanbo, who was still the son of the world at that time, so that there could be this marriage.
In order to set this marriage for the two families, Ning Yuanbo's Mansion at that time almost didn't have a good student to celebrate.
From this, it can be seen how prominent the Song family was at that time.
However, the good times were short-lived.
The Song family and the old Ning Yuan uncle were thirteen years old, and the two families originally planned to wait until the Song family was seventeen years old before consummating the marriage, but they didn't expect that when the Song family was two months old and seventeen years old, the Song family's father, who had always been proud, was defeated in the battle with his political enemies, and he was extremely defeated.
But even so, they lost their pillars all of a sudden, and there were always those who took advantage of the fire to rob, so the Song family still fell at a very fast speed.
In this way, the marriage between the Song family and Lao Ning Yuanbo naturally hangs in the air.