Chapter 133: Relying on others is better than relying on yourself
Chen Xianling thought that Chen Yunjing really deeply understood the consequences of this incident, and hurriedly went out to order someone to prepare a gift for apology, and asked people to go out of the house to meet Sui Yiyi, and asked Sui Yiyi to give a chance to meet and let them apologize and thank you.
And what Chen Yunjing has at this moment, only she knows.
What to thank and apologize for is not what Chen Yunjing really thinks in her heart, the only thought in her heart now is to tell Sui Yiyi that she has not done anything wrong and that her thoughts are correct.
Here, Sui Yiyi wore a high ponytail, changed into a blue narrow-sleeved robe practice uniform, and matched the lower body with slim trousers of the same color, and was practicing boxing in the courtyard.
Qi Hengchuan went out of the house because of the improvement of the drainage canal, leaving Dongming and Chunzhi to accompany Sui Yiyi to stay in the mansion to spar.
After the subordinates came to explain the meaning of Chen County's order, Sui Yiyi asked his subordinates to book a private room in the restaurant closest to the house, and asked his subordinates to inform Chen Xianling of the time and place, and did not change out of the practice clothes on his body, and took Chunzhi, Xia Ling and Dongming directly to the private room of the restaurant.
When Chen Yunjing arrived at the restaurant, Sui Yiyi and the others were already sitting in the private room, drinking tea and waiting.
Chen Yunjing came into the private room alone.
She persuaded her father that she had some questions about the women's boudoir and asked Miss Sui carefully, so it was inconvenient to talk to the man, so that her father did not have to go with her.
Chen Xianling was a little worried about his daughter's temperament, so he was only willing to agree not to enter the house together, so after sending Chen Yunjing downstairs to the restaurant, he sat in the hall of the restaurant, asked for a bowl of tea and two plates of snacks and waited quietly.
Chen Yunjing thought that after that incident, Sui Yiyi would definitely dress up and appear in front of her, and stimulate herself, but when she entered the house, she saw Sui Yiyi's extremely simple dress, with high braids and a deep-colored robe, which did not reflect her love for beauty as a woman at all.
On the other hand, the two maids behind Sui Yiyi are dressed with more feminine tenderness than Sui Yiyi.
However, although Chen Yunjing was a little surprised in her heart, she still had to make it clear what she wanted to say.
"Miss Sui, I still remember that something unpleasant happened with you the day before yesterday, so I made an appointment with you today, and I want to make something clear to you."
"Miss Chen, please sit down, sit down and speak slowly." Sui Yiyi put down the teacup and raised her hand to signal Dongming, "Go and serve tea to Miss Chen." ”
"I don't know why Miss Sui pleaded for me that day," Chen Yunjing sat down in the guest seat, trying her best to maintain her etiquette.
"Maybe it's because my father mentioned my background and made you feel pitiful about me, or maybe you don't take a powerless person like me in your eyes at all, but I still have to make it clear to you what I should say."
"I don't think I should thank you for interceding on my behalf, because I don't feel like my words are wrong. As a woman, she should take care of her family in the boudoir, and she shouldn't show her face. But you follow the man closely, and you also go out to the army for disaster relief and meddle in military affairs, which is really against the morality of women! ”
Sui Yiyi drank tea quietly, listening to Chen Yunjing tell her own thoughts sentence by sentence.
This is probably the common idea of women in this era.
"So I came here today not to apologize or thank you, but to tell you that I am not wrong, it is you who are wrong!" Chen Yunjing saw that Sui Yiyi didn't speak, thinking that she realized the problem, and her tone became more and more firm.
"I never said that your idea is wrong," Sui Yiyi casually put down the teacup, folded her hands on her laps, and sat upright, "It's not you who are wrong, it's this era." ”
"It is the atmosphere of this era and the bad habits of this society that have created the public's stereotype of women, believing that women should be raised in the boudoir, and only then can they meet everyone's expectations."
"What's more, I feel that giving birth to a daughter is to contribute to my family, and through marriage, trading, I have a solid foundation for my family, and I don't take women's freedom of survival into account."
Sui Yiyi held her chin with one hand, and her calm eyes looked straight into Chen Yunjing's heart, "You grew up in this kind of social atmosphere, and your thoughts will inevitably be kidnapped by social atmosphere, and you feel that it is right for women to do this, and it is inevitable that you will feel that it is wrong when you see that others have different ways of living." ”
Sui Yiyi's words were sonorous and powerful, and Chen Yunjing's hands on her knees couldn't help but tremble slightly, and the originally firm thoughts in her heart gradually collapsed with Sui Yiyi's words.
Not to mention Chen Yunjing, even the spring branches and summer seasons behind Sui Yiyi were shaken by the words of their eldest lady.
"But have you ever thought about why you have to live by a man because you are a woman? Can't a woman have her own thoughts, her own spiritual freedom? What you can get from a man in this life can only be a man's, and the outside world won't think it's your own ability. ”
"But if you can rely on your own strength and ability to achieve success, then it will always be your own, and you will not be forced to change because of the status and power of men, and you can firmly control your life in your own hands, that is true freedom."
Chen Yunjing was stunned, the original thoughts in her heart no longer existed at this moment, and her mouth repeatedly recalled the words "her own life" and "true freedom".
Sui Yiyi looked at Chen Yunjing's performance and had a bottom in her heart.
Chen Yunjing was determined and looked at Sui Yiyi, "So you didn't rely on other people, but on yourself to get to where you are now?" ”
Sui Yiyi smiled and said: "I am different from you, my family background determines that I was born without having to rely on anyone to live. ”
Looking at Chen Yunjing's puzzled eyes, Sui Yiyi didn't feel strange. On this trip, she and Qi Hengchuan both traveled with hidden identities, except for Xu Zhiyuan who knew Qi Hengchuan's identity, most of them were still kept in the dark.
Sui Yiyi said calmly: "I am Sui Yiyi, the daughter of the lonely general of the dynasty." ”
As soon as Chen Yunjing heard Sui Yiyi tell her identity, her eyes suddenly widened, and she felt a burst of fear that she was blind...... Did you actually offend the daughter of the lonely general of the dynasty?
"You may think that my family background is huge, so naturally I don't have to think about a lot of practical factors. But before I met you, I wasn't carefree. ”
"My original family is more complex and larger than you can imagine, and I have experienced a lot and paid a lot, all the way to uphold the firm idea in my heart, not relying on others, relying on my own true ability, in order to get all the way to the present."
Afraid that Chen Yunjing would not believe it, Sui Yiyi selectively recounted some of his deeds in the capital, and told Chen Yunjing the story of how to use his own experience, innovative ideas and means to successfully operate the industry.