Chapter 320: Marriage Discussion
Ji Yu is an assertionist, Widow Xie can't resist her, in addition to taking care of everything for her, what else can she do?
is a recruit, she is also a bride, the bride should be beautiful that day, and she can't still worry about it inside and out.
The eldest brother and sister also offered to help her.
In fact, the doubts in their stomachs are no less than those of Widow Xie, and they can't figure out why Ji Yu fell in love with the homeless man if they want to break their heads.
But she insisted that she had taken a fancy to it, and others couldn't persuade her, so she could only sigh that Ji Yu's vision was too strange.
What's more, Ji Xiu'e and Kang Pozi are still staring at each other.
In such a short period of time, it is indeed impossible to find a school-age man for Ji Yu who is not taboo and willing to be involved in the rumors.
Vagabond...... Scary is scary, it's better than Huang Junping with Ji Xiu'e standing behind him.
As the saying goes, there are no clouds in the sky and no rain, and there is no matchmaker on the ground. In other words, both men and women must go through a matchmaker to get married.
A matchmaker can take the initiative to take the job and match two people who are strangers, or they can be entrusted by others to be loyal to others, threading the needle for men and women who have long been intended.
Although the candidates for Ji Yu's side have been decided, there is no need for a matchmaker to take a look, but there must always be an explanation to the outside world.
You can't say that it's Ji Yu's own fancy......
It is unlucky for a widow to be a matchmaker, so Widow Xie wants Ji Xuelan to go back and talk to the Yang family and let her be the matchmaker.
Ji Xuelan came back not long after she went back, and her face was not very good-looking.
Widow Xie asked her what was wrong? Is there something inconvenient about Yang's.
There is nothing inconvenient about the Yang family, that is, after hearing who is going to be rich, he refuses to be this matchmaker, for fear that others will laugh at Ji Yu at the same time, and even laugh at her.
However, how could Ji Xuelan say this?
The Yang family is Ji Yu's eldest uncle, and Ji Yu benefits their family, so the Yang family should not refuse.
Ji Xuelan was so talkative that she even had a big fight with her, but the Yang family was crying when she was in a hurry...... Ji Xuelan felt sorry for Ji Yu.
There is no way, I can only say that Yang has been unwell recently, and she has never seen a big scene, so she is afraid that she will not do well.
Others don't know, but Ji Mingfang is clear in his heart, where is Yang's identity uncomfortable, and he clearly doesn't want to come out like this.
He was so angry that he turned around and was about to go home to find Yang.
How could Ji Yu not see the doorway, and shouted to stop him, saying that he would have something to do later, so he stopped him.
When it was almost noon, it was estimated that the few shops selling spicy soup in the town should come back, and Widow Xie went to Aunt Wang's house.
Aunt Wang's shock when she learned that Ji Yu was going to get married was needless to mention, but she agreed to be the matchmaker without much hesitation.
I heard that the big day was the day after tomorrow, so in such a hurry, I knew that Widow Xie couldn't handle it alone, so I decided to stop my business for two days, eat lunch, and called Feng Liu's sister-in-law to go over to help Ji Yu.
Feng Liu's sister-in-law said something when she passed by Xu Er's house, and the aunt Gao, who lived at the same door, also knew.
Aunt Gao was idle and had nothing to do, and the second sister-in-law Xu also decided not to set up a stall in the town for the time being.
Widow Xie was worried about the lack of manpower, but now she has enough.
The staff gathered in the front yard hall and sat down to discuss the specific process.
The countryside is not as good as the big families, and they don't pay much attention to the big pomp and circumstance of the three books and six rituals, and the etiquette and customs that can be simplified have been simplified.
But some of them can't be simplified, such as changing posts and eight characters.
That is, the matchmaker will send the man's birthday to the woman, and then bring the woman's birthday to the man.
together, the marriage continues; If you don't agree, the marriage will not be discussed, so stop there.
Ji Yu insisted that there was no need to meet, and Widow Xie had no choice, so she told the "matchmaker" Aunt Wang that the eight characters had already been combined, and a match made in heaven was particularly suitable, and this step could be skipped.
After changing the post and combining the eight characters, the matchmaker will choose a good day to take the man to "celebrate", that is, to give the woman a generous gift.
Due to differences in customs, there is no certain rule for etiquette, and it depends on personal intentions.
A few chickens and ducks, a few jars of wine, in addition to candy snacks, cloth rulers and so on.
Those who are from better families are not without a whole head of cattle and gold and silver jewelry. In some places, it is necessary to make a pair of shoes and socks for the woman's parents.
Needless to say, Widow Xie also knew that it would not work.
The homeless man is a bachelor, a bachelor in every sense, eating and living are Ji Yu's, what does he give to Ji Yu?
Ji Yu said again at this time, the gifts are all gifts from the active party of the marriage to the passive party, and it is said that she should prepare gifts for the homeless, after all, it is the homeless man who marries her, and she is not married to the homeless.
Widow Xie thought about it, it seemed like this.
But she is a girl's family, and she gives gifts to men, and it doesn't sound good to say it after all. Besides, the homeless man has got Ji Yu in his hands, and he has taken such a big advantage, what kind of gift do you need?
Skip it.
As for the selection date, what Ji Yu said to Ji Xiu'e yesterday was that after three days, aside from today, there are still two days left, and everyone persuaded her to postpone the day again.
A lifelong event, only once in a lifetime, even if you can't learn from those rich people, you should be ready to prepare, so panicked, isn't it too aggrieved?
At least choose a good day and an auspicious day, which is related to whether the two of them can have a smooth life in the future.
Ji Yu knew that everything was fake, and she didn't want to waste more time on a fake marriage, so she didn't intend to delay.
Widow Xie panicked, "You haven't embroidered your wedding dress, and you have wedding shoes." ”
In the tradition of Kanbei, when the bride gets married, the wedding dress and wedding shoes must be made by herself.
Ji Yu smiled dryly, "If I let me do it myself, I'm afraid I won't be able to get married in this life." ”
Widow Xie's "......" makes sense.
Aunt Wang said that they would do it, and they would do it overnight, and they were afraid that they couldn't embroider anything, and there was not enough time.
Aunt Gao interjected, "What should I do over there, his wedding clothes ......"
It's too late to make two sets, and you have to sew dragon and phoenix quilts.
Ji Yu waved her hand very arrogantly, "Buy!" Clothes, shoes, what to buy. ”
The homeless are willing to cooperate with the family, and they can't treat others badly.
Everyone sighed again, not knowing what Ji Yu was trying to do.
After the wedding date is set, it is necessary to finalize which relatives and friends to invite.
Where does Ji Yu have any relatives and friends? She lives in such a remote way that she doesn't even have a door.
Not to mention the vagabond.
Fortunately, Ji Yu doesn't care whether she is bleak or not, and plans to set up a few tables of banquets, please ask these people to help.
Widow Xie proposed, why don't you invite some villagers to come and cheer you on?
Ji Yu shook her head and said that when the day came, even if she invited someone, it was estimated that few would dare to leave something to eat.
Widow Xie thought about the homeless man's face and stopped talking.
When the decision was set, everyone began to work separately.
The first thing I did was to go to the town to buy clothes, ingredients, and miscellaneous things.
Ji Yu also thought that she would be in charge of the banquet that day, but she was unanimously vetoed.
It is better to spend a few dollars to invite the master of the red and white case from the neighboring village, and there is no reason to let the bride go into battle in person.
Widow Xie let Ji Yu rest for the past two days, and Ji Yu was forced to be the shopkeeper.
But it's not really a shake-off, there is one thing that she still needs to solve - the household registration problem of the homeless.
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