010 Self-knowledge of warmth and coldness
Su's mother simply stayed at her daughter's house, and when she came to see Su Yao safely, Su's mother warmly left her at home for dinner.
"Auntie, no need, I have to go back to school in a while to prepare exam papers for the students." An Ran declined, she really didn't like this kind of occasion, half-baked people greeted each other at the dinner table, laughed at each other stiffly, and had a stomachache after a meal.
"Oh oh, it's almost the final exams, right, the students are going on vacation, you can take a break." Su's mother was full of smiles, she liked An Ran very much, turned to look at Su Yao, and didn't get angry, "Look at people, you graduated from college and went to graduate school and then stayed in school, girls, how good it is to be a teacher, stable, two holidays a year, good welfare, and there are not so many messy things in the school, which is like you, drink and drink every day, and life is a mess." ”
Su Yao didn't speak, silence was the most effective way to deal with it at this time, otherwise if she quarreled again and again, she would be the unlucky one in the end.
"By the way, how are you doing, how are the children, don't you think your aunt is talkative, while you are young, you still have to hurry up and find one, your conditions are good, and it is not difficult to find one, you and Su Yao together, the sisters are companions, go back and I'll go to the People's Park to take a stroll and see if there is a suitable one, by the way, are there any single colleagues around you, introduce them to Yaoyao, Yaoyao, are there any divorced and widowed among your customers, and think about An Ran."
"Mom, I'm hungry......"
"Okay, okay, Anran, you sit down first, and Auntie will cook." Su Mu turned around and went into the kitchen, and the living room was quiet.
Su Yao looked resentful and complained, "Don't mind, my mother is like this, she thought she was here to send charcoal in the snow, but in fact, it made matters worse." ”
"Don't say that, she cares about you too." An Ran said lightly, she has been accustomed to the "kindness" of the people around her for so many years, although sometimes kindness is not necessarily useful, "Okay, it's okay if you're fine, I still have something to do at school, so I'll leave first." ”
"I'll send you." got up and shouted to the kitchen, "Mom, it's safe to go." ”
Su Mu came out of it and said while wiping her hands with her apron, "Why are you leaving and not staying to eat?" ”
"No, Auntie, another day, I'll try your craft another day."
The smile on her face was still enthusiastic, and Su's mother nagged, "I will come often if I have nothing to do in the future, bring the children with me, and tell my aunt in advance what you want to eat." ”
When the door closed, Su Yao sighed, "Mom, can you pay attention to what you say, poke into people's hearts every sentence, what sisters are companions, should you be a group buy, can you still find a partner together?" ”
Glaring at her, Su Mu reached out and poked her head hard, "I don't know how you became a director, is the boss of your company blind, he would take a fancy to you, and let me pay attention to what I say, I think you can't communicate." ”
In Su's mother's opinion, these young people are just too unenthusiastic, which is why the feelings between friends are so weak.
"Who am I saying so much for, not for you, besides, aren't you and An Ran good friends, good friends should help each other, she died a man, you should help her more, what's wrong with staying for a meal."
Seeing that she didn't grasp the point at all, Su Yao looked helpless, "People don't need it, she is a university teacher, what do you want to eat." ”
"Is it a matter of eating? What's wrong with the university teacher, the university teacher is widowed, and it's going to be a dwarf, let me tell you, don't blame my mother for her cold mouth, my mother is a person who has come over, this woman lives a lot harder than men in the world, no matter how good she is, she has become a widow, and her life is not good, do you know how many widows are in front of the door, these days are so long, you still have to find someone, what, really be a chaste martyr, keep it for a lifetime, I tell you, don't mention to me those women who are independent, this world, everyone is afraid of bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, and they are not afraid of moving their mouths, You are still afraid of quarrels, you are afraid that some people will bully you without a man, if you really fight, in the face of absolute power, any skill is fart! ”
"Look at your friend Jiang Jing, even if her husband doesn't come back all the year round, he has left her a driver and a maid and money, at least someone will support her, what about you, if you encounter something, do you want your father and me to give you a head?"
Su Yao had a headache when he heard this, got up and put on a coat, "Mom, I suddenly remembered, I made an appointment with the psychiatrist, I'll eat when I come back, you just leave some for me." ”
"You kid, what time do you have an appointment, do you want to be in such a hurry?"
"It's hard for that doctor to make an appointment, two thousand yuan an hour, you said that if I am a few minutes late, how can I pay this money, I will die, okay, okay, I will leave."
Su Mu couldn't calculate how much it was a minute, but she felt that the price was staggering, and she muttered, "The psychiatrist is not bad, so profitable." ”
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An Ran got into the car, it didn't start for a long time, she took out the photo under the visor and looked at it for a long time, smiled wryly, and then drove away.
When Nian Nian was one year old, her husband was in a car accident, and it has been three years since then.
In the past three years, countless people have persuaded her to find another one, but she is unmoved, everyone thinks she is in love, but in fact, she has just lost interest in the besieged city of marriage.
Life is like drinking water, she knows her warmth and coldness, others pity her and sympathize with her, but she herself feels very good.
If you have a house, a car, a child, and money, what do you need a man for?
She and her husband are college classmates, and they can be regarded as having a relationship foundation, but they are married because they are suitable for each other, not how vigorous their love is. After marriage, firewood, rice, oil, salt, and trivial matters have worn out people's enthusiasm for life little by little, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problems, economic problems, everything and every day are challenging people's patience.
Before they have succeeded in running-in, others are gone.
It's also strange to say, when she was here, she couldn't wait to find someone to complain about him every day, but when he left, the memories left behind were all good.
He is not as capable as her, but he is solid-eyed, single-minded to her, and he doesn't have those flowery things, that is, he is stupid and filial, and he can't figure out anything about his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. But it's not a big problem, because in the end, I still rely on her and try to let my mother know what the sense of boundaries of young people is.
So An Ran often thinks that if she changes someone, she may not be able to adapt to her bad temper. And if we repeat these experiences, will the results be better? If it's not good or almost, what's the point of tossing and turning.
As soon as the car stopped, the squad leader ran over, the little girl's face was pale, and her words were not good, "Teacher An, go and have a look, He Tingjing is going to jump off the building, and he is on the roof of the teaching building, and no one can persuade him to come down...."