Chapter 401: The clouds are dissipated
So you should cooperate, you shouldn't blame the child all the time.
This kid is bitter, you won't understand.
This child is not like your personality, this child is very introverted.
So what is growing in this child's heart, only this child knows, but I also know a little bit.
I know that this child has not yet been able to let go of his mother.
There is no need to let go of your own mother, just keep remembering.
It's just that this child's mind is too meticulous, and his mind is too heavy, and many things are not said and suppressed in his heart.
In the future, remember to communicate more with your son and talk to your child often.
Don't think that if you don't talk to your son, don't let your child be very independent because you don't communicate with your child, but you're mistaken.
No matter how old your child is, you should do parent-child activities with your son.
Maybe Professor Yun Aaorou from the Faculty of Arts is right, you should indeed interact more with your son.
Do you understand what that Professor Yun means?
I get it, because I'm also an educator.
You should communicate more with your son, sometimes your son will create such a personality, and many times it will be related to you.
But it is not excluded that I inherited this temper of my sister-in-law back then, but your sister-in-law is also like this, she doesn't greet anyone, and she seems to have opinions about anyone.
It's a face every day.
But it's just a human personality.
The son is nothing more than the inherited mother's genes, so you have to be a little patient.
You can't be as impulsive as you are today, you can't kick your son out.
There will be a shadow in this child's heart, if you drive your son out, can your son continue to stay at home?
When will you come back to this house next?
How can the child ever come back?
You have to know how strong the child's self-esteem is, so you can't talk to the child like that.
How can you drive a family member out?
You can't live with your family.
Hua Yingzhi sent several WeChat messages, saying, this president is wrong, saying, this president is wrong, saying, this child is right, these presidents are a little surprised.
Isn't the professor supposed to be angry at this time?
Isn't the professor supposed to be critical of this kid all the time?
Isn't the professor supposed to say this kid?
But at this time, the professor still replied to the child, since the professor defended the child, was it really me who did something wrong?
Is it really my failure as a father?
So the president didn't send WeChat again, but just thought of himself, maybe he really did something wrong, maybe the professor was right, he shouldn't drive this child out in a fit of anger, and he shouldn't yell at the child like this.
But what else can you do in this situation when you don't respect your father here and here?
Ji Xiaoyun listened to the professor's words, maybe he really realized that he was wrong, or maybe he really thought that he shouldn't go out with this case.
So the president immediately got up from the bed, although he was weak, although he had a headache, he still rushed out of the door, rushed to the living room, and then looked around and found that there was no one in the living room.
What's wrong?
Are they all gone?
Or did you go back to your room?
The president shouted loudly in the living room, calling his father's name and his son's name.
Then the father did not come out, and the son did not come out, but just a nanny came out.
The nanny came to the living room and walked in front of the president, not daring to speak.
The president looked at the nanny, and then the other party said, "Auntie, where are the old lady and my son?" ”
Did the two of them go out together?
Did the two of them take anything when they went out?
Didn't the two of them feel like half-price when they went out?
The president's meaning was very obvious, the aunt was stunned for a moment, then looked around, and finally said: "President, I'm sorry, I can't stop the old lady." ”
I can't stop the eldest young master.
You also know that I am soft-spoken, I don't dare to look back at what the old lady said, and I don't dare to talk back about what the eldest young master said.
You know the personality of the eldest young master. Once I have a relationship with the two of them, I don't think I can keep my job.
You also know the personality of the old lady, and you also know that the boss is also a bit of a temper, unlike you.
Auntie's meaning is obvious, these two people are old and young, both of them have moved out, and they have taken away the things that should be taken away.
Because I found that the things that belonged to the old lady in this living room, and the things that already belonged to the eldest grandson, were all gone.
Of course, the things that belong to the old lady in this living room are just an old lady's coat and the old lady's crutches, both of which are missing.
Judging from this sign, does the old lady really want to move out with her son?
The president was thinking about it, and when he thought of this, he found that his head hurt even more.
It was the president who immediately sat down and sat on the sofa, then leaned on the sofa and pressed his temples with both hands, and found that the person was really dizzy and couldn't even stand.
The president didn't know what was wrong with him.
When the nanny saw the president like this, she found that the president looked weak, she found that the president looked unhappy, and she found that the president pressed her head, and the nanny seemed to see something.
Seeing that something was wrong with the president, the nanny walked in a few steps, stood in front of the president and asked, "President, do you have a headache?" ”
I know a little bit of a way, let me try, right?
After saying that, the nanny left, went over, walked around the sofa, stood behind the sofa, and reached out and pressed the president's temple.
Massaging the president's head very skillfully.
After the president was pressed by the nanny, he felt much clearer and felt that his blood vessels were unblocked.
Auntie, while pressing her head with the president, said something, Auntie seemed to be a little afraid to speak, but there were some things she still wanted to say.
The aunt didn't say a word to the president: "President, in my opinion, the relationship between you and the eldest young master shouldn't be like this." ”
Do you know?
The eldest young master is actually a very good child.
I also have a son myself, and my son is also the age of the eldest young master.
In fact, the more you confront this child, the more this child will dislike you.
That is, you should not be so tough in front of your son.
You must know that you can be tough at work, you can be tough with business partners, you can be tough with your opponents, you can be tough on the outside, but you can never be tough in front of your son or your family.
You can't do it like this, you can't do it hard.
After all, family is family, especially in a place like home, you can't be forced.
Instead, it should be a little distracted, a little gentle and considerate.
The old lady is very serious outside, and she is also very strict at work, but you see how the old lady treats the eldest young master?
The old man is very amiable to take this eldest young master.
Let's see how the eldest young master treats the old lady?
Even if the eldest young master wants to leave this house, he will take the old lady away.
Do you think such filial piety came from the same person?
But you can also be so filial to the old lady, but he is like this to you.
Whose fault do you think it's for?
When the aunt said this, she was afraid that her words would be too late, and she said too much of herself, which made the president unhappy once.
After all, the president is usually very good to himself, and the president is very good to the employees, but the president treats his son the worst.
My aunt was afraid of losing her job because she was happy to work here. son, and my son is studying in a business school, if it weren't for the relationship with the president, he wouldn't have stayed for long.
And the president was very good to the nanny's son Wan Anjie and gave these scholarships to his son.
So there is a sense of gratitude for this nanny.
But when the president knew that the nanny also had a son, he exerted a great favor on the nanny and helped the nanny's son.
This is the success of the president.
But a successful person is naturally flawed, and a successful person also has failures.
This failure is that there seems to be a problem in getting along with your own children.
Perhaps the president gave a lot of hope to his son, so he would make a mess of the relationship with the child and offend his son.
And today's conflict with his son is almost fierce, today he actually said this or went out, how can such an arrogant son continue to stay in this house?
How could such an arrogant son be kicked out by his father and come back?
So the nanny was really a little worried, the nanny, but they all heard it clearly, but the nanny didn't dare to come out, and the nanny didn't dare to say more.
At the beginning, that is, just now, when the old lady sat quietly and listened to the quarrel between father and son, there was actually another person who was also listening quietly.
It's just that this person is hiding in the kitchen, silent, and has been lying on the door and listening to the people outside arguing.
The nanny heard it clearly, and some of the words that the president said to the eldest young master made the nanny want to stand up and speak, and wanted to tell the president not to continue, especially when she heard that the president was going to drive Ji Mingwei out, the nanny suddenly wanted to open the door and rush out to tell the president not to say this.
But the words have already been spoken, and the eldest young master is already angry, and the president was also angry at that time.
The nanny really didn't dare to get involved in this kind of housework.
And now, the president's anger has cooled down, it seems that the president has begun to wake up, and it seems that the president is no longer angry, so the nanny is willing to speak.
The nanny is looking at the president's good to herself, and her son, who used to take care of her son so much in the business school, so she told the president some truths.
Tell this president how to treat his children, maybe now learn how to treat his own children should have a turnaround.
As long as the child finds out that his father really loves him, he may move back home one day.
This family must have old people and children, it can be considered perfect, after all, it is a home.
How can a family without even a child be a family?
Ji Xiaoyun heard what her aunt said, and suddenly felt a little insightful. Although this aunt has no culture, this aunt is also from the countryside, and this aunt doesn't understand any reason, but it seems that it is relatively easy to say it.
Indeed, if it is said that learning to get along with his son well, then what an enviable thing it should be?
If you can be as compatible with your son as this nanny, and be so harmonious with your children as this nanny, then how good this relationship should be with your son!
When the president thinks of the nanny and the nanny's son, and the harmonious relationship between the nanny and the son, he feels very gratified.
Sure enough, what does he do, he should first deal with the relationship between his family.