Chapter 182: Mental or Physical, Who Is More Painful?
With a smile on his eyebrows, the whole person seemed to be bathed in the breeze, and he was beautiful.
All of a sudden, I felt as if someone had clicked on my acupoint, and I couldn't say anything, I just looked at him stupidly and laughed.
I really want to, I really want to, I can see him laugh like this for the rest of my life, I really want to be able to protect him for the rest of my life.
He took both my hand and the chocolate and shook it with a smile: "Let's go." ”
I was a little stunned and casually asked, "Where are you going?" ”
He replied solemnly: "Go training." ”
Oh yes. We're going to train together tonight. I nodded, and instantly looked forward to it: "So what are we training for tonight?" ”
Jiang Yueze was concise and to the point, and spit out two words coolly: "Solve the problem." ”
Solve the problem, solve the problem. What a professional look.
followed Jiang Yueze to the training room, and found that Li Zhaoqi and the others had arrived, and there was a senior who I didn't know who was also sitting and reading the debate materials.
Who is he? I was puzzled, but I still walked to Li Zhaoqi and sat down next to him without squinting.
Li Zhaoqi and Xing Sisi watched me sit down, and they couldn't wait to bite my ears with me: "Alas, have you seen that senior?" ”
I nodded, "I see." ”
"Want to know who it is?"
I continued to nod my head in agreement: "Yes." ”
Xing Sisi smiled now: "He's the ......"
"Alright." Without waiting for Xing Sisi to get to the point, the senior who made us all curious looked at Jiang Yueze and smiled at each other under the gaze of all of us, walked to the podium, wrote his name, and interrupted Xing Sisi's words.
"Now that we're all here, let's get straight to the point."
"My name is Li Bowei, and I am your debate coach, and I am responsible for the daily training of your debate tournament."
"As for this senior of yours, I think you should also know the reason why he came, so I don't need to say more, right?"
After saying that, the other four looked at me in unison. Only Jiang Yueze is still sitting in his place freely, and he doesn't care about himself.
I rolled my eyes and began to understand their implications.
No way? Jiang Yueze turned out to be not our debate coach?
So what is he doing here?
Why didn't he tell me? Still serious about having dinner with my teammates?
Is it because of me?
When the coach arrived, he continued to say like no one else: "In the future, we will help you train together to solve problems and strive to achieve good results for our team." ”
I looked at our real "debate coach" in a daze, and then at Jiang Yueze, who was sitting in the first row, and applauded absentmindedly.
Xing Sisi smiled at me and teased me with his mouth: Are you excited, surprised?
I replied to her with a professional smirk: excited, surprised.
Li Zhaoqi quietly bit my ear with me: "Tut-tut, our team is really big enough, and we are really flattered to have two heavyweight coaches." ”
I nodded approvingly, "Indeed, we really have big faces." ”
Li Zhaoqi was choked, and replied without changing his face: "It's not us who have a big face, but you." Senior Brother Jiang is not here for us. ”
This, this statement is so damn irrefutable. I thought in flattery, and the corners of my mouth couldn't help but go up wildly.
Li Zhaoqi saw my expression, stabbed my elbow quietly, and laughed gossipy.
Looking at Xing Sisi again, Kang Juan and Zhao Yu also looked at me with squinted eyes and teasing me.
I tried to keep a straight face and listen carefully to the coach's solution.
"This debate is quite interesting. Can't get up or can't sleep, which is more painful? ”
The coach wrote the debate on the blackboard and looked at us curiously.
Xing Si thought about it and was very entangled: "I think it's all painful, there is no way to choose one of the two." ”
Li Zhaoqi also nodded: "I think too." Because for me, whether it's being able to sleep or get up, it's crazy. ”
Kang Juan nodded thoughtfully: "So we can say that not being able to sleep and not being able to get up are subjective feelings, which vary from person to person." ”
Zhao Yu nodded and agreed: "So this subject should be set at the same level, and it should also explain why it is more painful." ”
I nodded, thinking that everyone had said it well: "But in my personal experience, not being able to sleep is the most painful thing for me." Because not being able to get up and not being able to sleep are both states that last for a period of time, but not being able to sleep is still a little longer than not being able to get up, which is more uncomfortable. ”
The coach smiled and nodded approvingly: "Everyone is right, it's all on point." But it's not comprehensive, it's not systematic. "Classic
"Then let's study the topic of this debate."
"Which word do you think is the subject of our debate?"
Xing Sisi and I glanced at each other and said tentatively, "What's more?" ”
Kang Juan and Zhao Yu also nodded, agreeing with my opinion.
The coach smiled, circled the word "more" very seriously, and expressed his appreciation: "That's right, it's this word." ”
"So the first thing we need to make clear is that both the inability to get up and the inability to sleep are painful, and we must fully agree with this and cannot deny it."
"On that basis, let's make a comparison."
We all took notes and nodded earnestly.
"In addition to more, what other word do we want to define in particular?"
I carefully studied the debate on the blackboard and said uncertainly, "Is it pain?" ”
"Yes, that's right!" The coach snapped his fingers excitedly and nodded at me appreciatively: "It's just pain." ”
Information clerk Lee Siu-ki immediately unified the definition of pain: "A broad and complex human feeling, which means anything that makes people feel uncomfortable, unhappy, or other negative emotions in an experiential way, and it is usually associated with injury or the threat of harm that will make you harm." The feeling of pain that arises from physical injury is often referred to as pain. ”
The coach nodded and went on to explain, "This is the most popular explanation. But in this debate, it cannot be defined in this way. What do you say? ”
My gaze immediately shifted from the coach's face to Jiang Yueze, and their gaze also moved to mine.
I tried not to pay attention to their eyes, and quietly waited for Jiang Yueze's answer.
After a few seconds of silence, Jiang Yueze redefined the pain of this debate: "The so-called pain refers to the state of physical and psychological discomfort. ”
We all nodded in understanding, and the corners of my mouth couldn't help but go up.
Seeing this, Li Zhaoqi and Xing Sisi took the opportunity to joke with me: "Yo yo yo, what are you happy about?" ”
"That's it, with a spring heart rippling and starry eyes, it's really numb."
I ignored them and continued to listen to the coach.
"Then the next step is to clarify the definition of not being able to get up and not being able to sleep."
Li Zhaoqi immediately followed the coach's train of thought and seriously defined it: "Unable to sleep refers to the phenomenon that the subjective desire to fall asleep, but the brain cannot enter the state of sleep." Not being able to get up is when you subjectively want to be awake, but your brain is still asleep or semi-asleep. The two are opposite, contradictory states. ”
The coach nodded appreciatively and continued to cue us: "For these two definitions, what do you think should be the starting point?" ”
Kang Juan was the first to answer: "It can be explained from the psychological pressure caused by not being able to sleep." ”
Zhao Yu added: "Damage to the body and work." ”
Xing Sisi nodded, and shook his head again: "It's not enough." And there is no comparison. ”
I was immediately inspired, and replied earnestly, "I can explain that the consequences of not being able to sleep are more serious than the consequences of not being able to sleep." ”
The coach smiled appreciatively at me: "Not bad. Both arguments can be argued. ”
"If you think about it, if there are two arguments that can be argued, there are some shortcomings."
Xing Si thought for a while and asked, "Then we might as well think about it from a different angle, which argument will be used as the main force to attack us if we can't get up?" ”
I thought about it carefully and felt that there were no new ideas, so I couldn't help but look at Xing Sisi.
Xing Sisi frowned and thought about it, and finally shook his head at me with a frown.
The coach smiled and looked at Jiang Yueze with inquiring eyes.
We also turned our eyes to Jiang Yueze with anticipation and help.
Jiang Yueze did not shirk it, and said neatly: "The mental and physical damage." ”
Mentally and physically, I carefully tasted and tasted, tasted and tasted, and suddenly realized.
From the mental and physical aspects, from the perspective of not being able to get up and not being able to sleep, you can know who is more miserable.
Li Zhaoqi immediately found the information and read it aloud:
"Not being able to get up can cause serious discomfort to the body.
Physical pain depends on how intensely the body feels discomfort. When you can't sleep, you can at least empty yourself, your body can be in a relaxed state, after a period of tossing and turning, you will still fall asleep, and everyone knows the pain of not being able to get up in the morning, you don't want to do anything, you just want to sleep; The eyes can't be opened, the mind is not clear, the limbs are not flexible, the whole person is in a state of groginess, this physical pain has spread to the whole body, and it is not comparable to not being able to sleep.
The mental pain caused by not being able to get up is incalculable.
Mental anguish comes from the gap between one's own expectations and reality, that is, one's actions do not keep up with one's ideals. Not being able to sleep is a faint worry, and not being able to get up is a reality when worry becomes a reality, and it is naturally more painful. Imagine Sunday night, thinking of Monday's full class and a bunch of tasks and homework, and not being able to sleep at this time because I am worried that I will not be able to get up tomorrow and will not be able to make good use of the time. But there will still be a little bit of luck in our hearts, and everything will not reach the next day after all. But I can't get up the next day, the previous worries have become reality, the gap between expectations and reality is naked in front of me, obviously I want to make good use of my time, I obviously want to start the day's struggle efficiently, but I can't get up and directly destroy all the previous expectations for today, the time I slept can't be recovered, but what I want to do is still there, this hopeless mental pain is far greater than the kind of hope that I can't sleep.
The ultimate consequences of not being able to get up are even more serious.
In fact, we will occasionally not be able to sleep, and it will not take long to forget the original distress, but not being able to get up is a problem that has been plaguing most of us, even if we have shouted countless slogans in our hearts, although we have set an alarm clock every night, and written a plan, but we can't get up again and again to disrupt our plans, and the expected efficiency has failed again and again, both sleeping in the early morning and sleeping in pain. ”