As soon as the words fell, Li Zhaoqi hurriedly continued to ask other questions: "Has the president participated in a debate tournament before?" ”

The look of anticipation and the starry eyes made me can't help but think of the way I saw Zhao Zixu's eyes shining, and the stupid look I saw Jiang Yueze doing and his eyes were dull.

No way? My eyes wandered back and forth between the two of them, Li Zhaoqi shouldn't like Chen Zheng, right?

Mom, I seem to have discovered something terrible, this Chen Zheng is an ice cube, and Jiang Yueze is on par.

Li Zhaoqi actually has this guts, like him?

Ah! I silently complained in my heart that I was nosy, too one-sided with people and things, and I was speechless and rolled my eyes.

What happened to the ice? Why can't people like it, you still like Jiang Yueze, can't people like Chen Zheng?

Just when I was thinking nonsense, the senior sister in the first row turned around and said loudly: "In the next group, Fang Jinyu vs. Yao Qianqian, the title of the debate is "Life can afford it, it is more difficult to let go of it", Fang Jinyu is the positive side, Yao Qianqian is the negative side. Three minutes to prepare, and the interview will begin later. ”

I got up with a thunderous heartbeat and nodded at my senior sister: "Thank you, senior sister." ”

Which is more difficult to take or put down, this is a question worth pondering.

Yu Wanzhou and Chen Zheng were also interested, and asked me curiously: "Fang Xuemei, which of these two is more difficult for you?" ”

"Yes, Sister Flower Paper Bag, I also want to know, which one are you more obsessed with?"

"Flower paper bag sister?" Li Zhaoqi felt very novel about this title, and couldn't help but smile: "I'm also quite curious." ”

I thought about it for a moment and said softly, "You can put it down." ”

"Yes." When Yu Wanzhou heard this answer, she was not surprised or surprised: "After all, our Fang Xuemei and someone, if it weren't for the fact that they couldn't let go of their hearts, how could they have the enviable appearance they have now, right? ”

Senior Chen Zheng glanced at me playfully and nodded very cooperatively: "Ah, yes." ”

Li Zhaoqi sneered, and also coaxed: "Senior Brother Yu, you talk like this, aren't you afraid of being beaten?" ”

"Was you beaten by a junior girl?" Yu Wanzhou deliberately misinterpreted: "Is it because I am shy, or because I am telling the truth?" ”

I was a little embarrassed to be said, so I pushed my glasses to cover it up and said, "Senior, I want to make an argument, I'll talk about it later." ”

Yu Wanzhou: "Okay, you prepare well, someone said that you must be the best in the audience, so we want to cheer for you to see you selected." ”

I ignored him and tried to calm myself down and make an argument.

Is it harder to afford? What's the difficulty?

Feelings, responsibilities, choices, interests, these things that everyone cares about, is it more difficult to pick them up?

Compared to being able to let go, is letting go a relief?

From the perspective of individuals, society, and development, what is more difficult to afford than to let go?

"Okay, it's time." The senior sister sitting in the middle of the first row said loudly: "Please Fang Jinyu and Yao Qianqian to come to the stage for one-on-one defense." The argument time is one and a half minutes, the cross-examination session is 30 seconds, the free attack and defense session is one and a half minutes, and the summary statement is one minute. The best performer in the middle of the process wins early, and there is no need to move on to the next session. The unsuccessful ones await the repechage for the final match. ”

Li Zhaoqi smiled encouragingly at me and waved his small fist: "Come on." ”

I did the same thing to her: "Come on." ”

I slowly got up from my seat, let out a long breath, and prepared to walk out.

"Senior sister, wait a minute." Yu Wanzhou stopped me, with a faint smile on her face, extremely elegant and upright: "You turn around and see who's coming?" ”

I turned around when I heard the words, and my heartbeat followed higher and higher, and in anticipation, I saw the face that made my soul haunted.

He stood in the open space in the back row, slowly walked towards me, holding up the scenery of this classroom alone, with everyone's whispered discussions, every one of them was so picturesque and dreamlike.

I couldn't help but smile at him, watching him stand still in front of me, slowly exhale the word come on, only to be satisfied, refreshed to the first row, nervous with my slowly filled confidence and joy slipped away little by little.

It turned out that I hoped that he would come a little more.

Even, he is my reassuring medicine, not the reason for my nervousness.

I stood in front of the podium, came face to face with Yao Qianqian, introduced myself unhurriedly, and began to make theoretical statements:

"Honorable chairman, judges, friendly to each other.

Today we are discussing which is more difficult to afford or to put down? This debate is actually asking about life choices.

Why would I say it's harder to pick up than to put down? There are three points.

First, from a social point of view, picking up is a kind of courage to undertake. This is a spirit, a shoulder, a commitment, and a persistence. The development of human beings is a process of constantly overcoming difficulties, and at the same time, it is also a process of constantly picking up. Looking back at our development history, we can see the countless people who have shouldered the historical mission, worked hard and never gave up, for them, it is so difficult to pick up.

Second, from a personal point of view, picking up requires a variety of abilities. Without courage, you will not be able to face difficulties and pick up; Without determination, you can only hesitate in front of whether to pick it up or not; Without reason, you can't pick up what you need properly; Without struggle, you will give up halfway and will not be able to pick up. And to put down, or cowardly, or open-minded, but after all, it is too difficult to pick up and unbearable, how can it be said that it is more difficult to put down than to pick up?

Third, from the perspective of development, picking up is a process from scratch, before picking up, you do not own the things you pick up, pick up need to be based on the present known, see through the essence of things, and predict the unknown future; And after picking up, the change and development of things is visible, and many things are self-aware when they need to be put down, so it is more difficult to pick up than to put down.

The heavens will descend on the people, and the people will too. No matter how many tribulations it will take, we will eventually pick it up bravely and fight for it.

I would like to conclude my statement and thank you. ”

I bowed slowly, and there were bursts of applause from the entire Rank Sect, and my heartbeat slowly returned to normal.

I slowly looked up, and suddenly I saw Jiang Yueze, who was conspicuous in the crowd, and bent my eyes at him.

He just looked at me, his eyes focused and gentle, and nodded slowly at me, his eyes full of shredded starlight.

My heart was filled with joy because of this action.

He thinks I'm good. That's nice.

"After the positive side has finished speaking, I will now ask the opposing side to make a statement for one minute and thirty seconds."

Yao Qianqian said unhurriedly: "Thank you, chairman, for the wonderful speech of the opponent's defense friend, hello everyone."

We often say, "A person must be able to take it and put it down". In fact, it is easy to "afford" it, but it is difficult to "put it down". The so-called "let go" refers to a state of mind, that is, when encountering a thousand pounds of heavy burden, you can remove the psychological pressure and make it easy. Under normal circumstances, the main embodiment of letting go is as follows:

Can the money be put down? We do not advocate being "ascetics", and it is understandable to pursue a beautiful material culture. But do what you can and grasp it. Don't "usually just hate to gather too much, and stay until a long time when your eyes are closed". If you can put it down in this regard, it can be called a very chic "put".

Can you let go of the feelings? The most inexplicable thing in the world is the word "love". Anyone who is entangled in emotions often loses control of their reason, keeps cutting, and is chaotic. If you can let go of the emotion, it can be called a rational "release".

Can the name be put down? According to expert analysis, people with high IQ and thinking type have a relatively high rate of suffering from psychological disorders. The main reason for this is that they generally like to be competitive and attach more importance to their names, and if they can let go of their "names", they can be called detached "releases".

Can you let go of your sorrows? There are too many sad facts in real life, just like the Song Dynasty female lyricist Li Qingzhao said: "I only frown, but I am in my heart." Sorrow can be said to be a common and frequent disease that harms health. Rabindranath Tagore said: "It is better to laugh at the things of the world than to rinse the ...... with tears."

"Okay, Yao Qianqian." The senior sister interrupted: "When the time is up, please ask the party to have a one-on-one question." ”

Yao Qianqian's argument was not over, and she was about to be questioned before she had all her arguments, and she suddenly became nervous, her hands were tightly stirred together, and she looked at me with a wary face.

I smiled at her kindly, trying to suppress my aura to make myself look less aggressive: "I want to ask the other party's defense friend, you just mentioned that you can't let go of the sorrow, can you give an example?" ”

"Yes, a lot." Yao Qianqian stammered: "For example, I didn't finish my homework, I didn't do well in the exam, I didn't dare to confess when I met someone I liked, and so on." ”

"Well, that's good." I nodded and continued to set traps: "But behind all these sorrows you said, the responsibilities, efforts, feelings, etc., they represent, are all things that you want to pick up but don't pick up, right?" ”

Yao Qianqian entered the pit by herself, and now she was shocked, and hurriedly denied it: "No, how can these be regarded as not being able to pick them up, this is obviously because I care too much about the unsatisfactory state of the result and can't put it down." How can it be considered that you can't afford it? ”

"Okay, it's time." The senior sister interrupted again: "Now the opposite party will interrogate." ”

Yao Qianqian let out a breath and asked loudly, "Then may I ask, are there any people or things you can't let go?" ”

I nodded, "Yes." ”

Yao Qianqian said again: "Can you give an example?" ”

"Of course." I smiled: "I can't let go of the big homework I have to hand in tomorrow and learn how to do boxing in physical education class the day after tomorrow." ”

Yao Qianqian said again: "So you admit that not being able to let go is a continuous state that has always affected your life, right?" ”

"No," I replied with a clear mind, "it is not for me that has a continuous and lasting effect on the normalcy of my life, but only one thing that I am more concerned about." ”

Yao Qianqian was a little anxious: "Then if you don't do these things well and keep remembering them, don't you just can't let them go?" ”

"No," I continued to retort: "What I can't let go of is not the incident itself, but what I am haunted about is that I have not done a good job in the responsibility that I should have taken and my duty, not that I can't let go of the unsatisfactory result of this matter." ”

As soon as the words fell, the classroom burst into applause of approval.

"Okay, it's time." This time I heard a familiar voice, which was made by Senior Yan Bo, with a little high-pitched and appreciative voice: "This is the end of this time, there is no need to continue the following links." ”

Yao Qianqian and I thanked each other and waited for the results of the interview.

The senior sister sitting in the middle looked at the two of us and began to make a brief comment: "You two are good among the freshmen. I'll start with Fang Jinyu. The argument is complete, from the individual, the society, and the development of the three parties, from small to large, in line with the thinking of debate. ”