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promised to go to see Youhe every few days, Su Yao made fun of her and asked her if she liked it so much if she would take it away and raise it for a few days.
"Yes, as long as my cousin doesn't want to."
replied with a smile, but looked at Shen Mo who was changing diapers on the side and snorted coldly, "She really doesn't want to." ”
"......." promise is speechless, but there is deep envy in his heart, from the birth of the child to the present, breastfeeding is the work of the grandmother, changing diapers is the job of the father, bathing and touching is the work of the confinement sister-in-law, Su Yao in addition to eating and drinking, is to participate in yoga activities on time, vowing to reduce the few taels of meat on the body before the confinement is back.
"If you like to give birth to one quickly, it's over, your mother-in-law has nothing to do, your parents are also very idle, just with Youhe as a companion, the two sisters also grew up together, and they will take care of it in the future, how good." Su Mu said a word on the side, and she was piercing the heart of a promise.
Yesterday, her mother-in-law also called and said that since her cousins have given birth, let them hurry up.
She doesn't reject having children, but she really doesn't understand why parents have to interfere in this kind of thing, and there is nothing in the world that they don't care about?
Xu has always been well-behaved and filial, but now in the Lin family, he has such an idea, which is really a bit crying and laughing.
She used to listen to her cousin and An Ran's ear mention, and always felt that watching the fire from the other side had nothing to do with her, but now she realized that what they said was right.
Leaving a little lonely, he received a call from Lin Shen on the way, promising to ask him out to eat, but before he could open his mouth, a basin of cold water was poured down, "Promise, there is something at home today, my mother and uncle have dinner together, I can't go, you can go instead of me." ”
The one who introduced the two of them together was Lin Shen's uncle, who was both an elder and a matchmaker, and he couldn't refuse.
But Xu Promise wanted to ask him, why did he let him go, why couldn't he just help her think of an excuse?
"Lin Shen, have you already agreed?"
"What?" The person on the other end of the phone was a little unresponsive, and then said, "I remember you said you were off today." ”
"Do I have to help you deal with this large family when I rest? I rest because I'm tired after a week of work, you now let me go to eat with your mother every day after work, I said I'm tired you just let your mother come over, are you okay scar forgot the pain, before we stayed in the hotel, she kept calling us when you were also annoyed? The emotions that had been accumulating for days finally exploded at this moment, and he promised to tell Lin Shen that she was not the one he married back to serve the fuck.
If you want to be filial, you should go by yourself, why do you always have to fake the hands of others, and don't do to others what you don't want to do to others, doesn't he understand?
The person on the other side was silent for a long time, and just when the promise was about to collapse, Lin Shen slowly spoke, "If you don't want to go, forget it, then you can go home." ”
The phone hung up like that, without explaining or coaxing her.
She was really the one he married home to solve his troubles, not the ones who caused them.
In the end, he went hard, bought a lot of gifts, tried to squeeze out a smile when he stood at the door, and then knocked on the door.
There are a lot of three aunts and six mothers-in-law, after all, she is still the same as when she was a child, making a well-behaved gesture in front of these adults for people to observe, comment and guide, and everyone is intervening in your life with a posture of being good for you.
"Nono, I heard that your cousin gave birth, boy and girl?"
"Girl." Promise sandwiched two rice grains into her mouth, she couldn't eat the big table of already cold dishes, although it was a treat, but the host's enthusiasm was used in the parents, quickly copied the dishes and served them on the table, and began to chat, no matter when the meal was opened, so that no dish was hot when it was really eaten.
"The girl is good, the girl is caring."
As soon as the relative finished speaking, Lin Shen's mother immediately added, "Each has its own good." ”
After speaking, he was afraid that there would be pressure on the promise, so he patted her hand, "It's the same for boys and girls." ”
Promise didn't know what to say except for an awkward smile.
"Then now she has enough breast milk to eat, I have a home remedy here, I transferred it to the circle of friends before, saying that it was prescribed by the old Chinese medicine doctor in the maternity hospital, it is very powerful, do you want to take it to your cousin......"
knew that they had good intentions, but this generation of parents really believed in these health science public accounts, and promised to wave their hands, "My cousin doesn't breastfeed." ”
"Don't feed? Why? No milk? If you let her do what I want, she will definitely do. ”
The other party is still enthusiastic, as if he is doing a great good deed.
Forcing a woman to give up her figure, endure pain, and be called up at any time in the middle of the night, just to give her child a bite of breast milk that can be replaced.
Is this great?
This is generosity to others.
"No, people just don't feed it."
When Xu Yue saw that he finished saying this, the other party was stunned for a few seconds, and then replied quite puzzled, "Today's child, really, we don't know what to think." ”
Lin Shen's mother took over at this time, "You can forward the article you said to me." ”
The other party woke up like a dream, and his passion rekindled, "Okay, you wait." ”
"Eh, Nuonuo, let's not learn from your cousin, it's better for the child to eat breast milk."
She promised that she couldn't eat at all, she didn't allow her elders to speak, she didn't understand them, and she knew that many of their suggestions were pertinent and not ignorant. But she couldn't stand being told how to live and how to do everything.
She didn't like it.
I don't like it so much.
When I returned home, Lin Shen didn't come back until after taking a bath, probably because she felt guilty, Lin Shen bought the cake she liked, "Eat it for breakfast tomorrow morning, and I also bought yogurt." ”
I don't know why, the first reaction of the promise turned out to be that he had time to buy things and couldn't come back sooner?
The words came to her mouth and she still swallowed, how long had she been married, how could it have become like this.
Walked over and hugged him, feeling the man's body stiffen, he probably didn't expect her to forgive herself so easily, Lin Shen slowly circled her and patted her back, "I know my mother is a little annoying sometimes, I didn't think it through before, I thought that you two partners would be able to eat well, if you don't like it, you don't have to go every day in the future, okay?" ”
"It's not that I don't want to be with her at all, it's just.... Lin Shen, I want to live a good life with you, do you understand? ”
didn't speak, just nodded, Lin Shen didn't know what to say now, he originally thought that marrying and promising to go home would balance everything, but he didn't expect it to create another contradiction.
The two of them hugged each other and slept together, but they both knew in their hearts that there seemed to be something separated from each other, which was different from before.
Early the next morning, the couple was woken up by Lin Shen's phone call.
The man connected to the phone with his eyes closed, but he suddenly woke up after listening to what was being said.