Chapter 498: The Big Problem
Tossing and turning at night, it is still an endless job to do at dawn.
Because it is a small year, it is necessary to sacrifice the stove and clean it up.
But with Guan Shan this year, she doesn't have to worry about this.
Ji Mingfang came to accompany Dabao as usual, and sometimes brought the eldest girl, the second and the third girl,
I still remember that when the eldest girl and the second girl first came to Dafeng Village, she was thin and timid, and she always habitually looked at people's faces when she spoke and did things, even in front of her grandparents and grandmothers. At a young age, he rushed to do everything, for fear of being disliked, and then driven away, which was sensible and distressing.
After surviving the difficult days when the family first separated, until the family began to have a stable income, my grandmother rarely complained anymore, and my grandmother and uncle always loved her. After nearly a year of stable life, they can be fed and clothed every day, and they no longer have to be beaten and scolded, and these two children finally began to show their innocence at this age.
Hu Ximei also often brings Xiao An Xiaohua over.
There are many children, and the yard is full of laughter and play, which is very lively.
Ji Yu looked at them and couldn't help but think that the impact of the original family on the children was really indelible.
Don't look at the eldest girl and the second girl, but everything left by the Sun family has actually been there.
They are more observant than the average child, and are extremely unconfident and insecure.
These are difficult to make up for no matter how good your life and love you will be.
Maybe over time, the wound will scar, but the scar will always remain.
Isn't it the same with Dabao?
Even though the eldest girl and the second girl have left a shadow in the violent family, Ji Xuelan's maternal love is clearly perceived by them.
In contrast, Dabao gives her the feeling that she has never formed a proper attachment relationship with anyone.
Attachment refers to a special emotional bond between the caregiver and the child.
To put it simply, Dabao has never experienced family affection, so he has not even formed the most basic sense of security.
Ji Yu has no way of knowing how he spent the first five years of his life with his grandfather.
Supposedly, this should not be the situation in front of you.
In ordinary families, even if children are beaten and scolded, their love and attachment to their parents are still instinctive.
But Dabao has no such instinct for his grandfather at all.
That's why Ji Yu who appeared in her life by mistake has an almost paranoid monopoly, just like the feeling that a child doesn't allow his mother to be snatched away, no one can.
They may even feel jealous because their only relative has a close relationship with someone else......
Ji Yu really has a headache.
She thought that it would be enough to give Dabao enough love, but who knew that these were far from enough.
Children's growth is really a big problem.
The next few days were almost all around the New Year.
On the twenty-fifth day, Ji Mingfang and Dabao cut window flowers in the West House, and Ji Yu sat cross-legged on the East House kang to cut blessings.
Guan Shan couldn't do this, so he simply cut paper and wrote the couplet.
Outside the window, snow began to fall again.
Ji Yu estimated that it was almost cut, twisted her neck, and looked at Guan Shan, who was writing and writing by the desk.
It wasn't until the last couplet was written that Guan Shan put down his pen and turned back.
Ji Yu didn't peek at the embarrassment of others being caught, and beckoned to him and asked him to sit on the kang to warm up.
The two sat opposite each other, with a kang table in between, and their heads turned sideways to the window covered with oiled paper.
I can hear the wind whistling outside the window, and I can imagine how the goose-feather snow falls, but unfortunately I can't see it.
Ji Yu regretted countless times, it would be nice if there was glass at this time, through the glass window, around the fireplace to enjoy the snow, drink hot tea, and chat with the people around her, what a pleasant thing.
Guan Shan is a bad character.
"Don't take Dabao's affairs to heart."
Ji Yu knew that she couldn't hide it from him.
"You guessed everything?"
Guan Shan nodded.
Ji Yu said that when he rummaged through the East Chamber and couldn't find the note, he guessed what was going on.
However, Dabao didn't see him as an eyesore for a day or two, so it was not surprising that he did such a thing. He doesn't see Dabao very pleasing to the eye, so he will increase his training and long memory in the future.
Ji Yu shook her head slightly.
"That's not the crux of the matter...... If Dabao doesn't realize what the problem is, it will become a big problem in the future...... Forget it, you don't care about it, I know it myself. But then again......"
Ji Yu took out the note from under the pillow and slapped it on the table.
Although the folds of the note are difficult to eliminate, it does not affect the words on it - out of hunting, return in three days, don't worry, don't read.
"You feel good about yourself! Who's worried about you, who's missing you? ”
Guan Shan turned his head and stared at her.
"You."
This determined look, this determined tone.
Ji Yu choked at first, and then laughed angrily.
She supported herself with one hand, leaned forward, and approached Guan Shan: "What about you?" Did you miss me for those three days? ”
The two stared at each other for a while, and sure enough, Guan Shan turned his gaze away first.
But it's not the avoidance that Ji Yu imagined.
Looking away, he snorted.
The corners of Ji Yu's mouth turned up, she couldn't help but laugh, and made a look of not hearing clearly, stretched out a finger and poked his elbow.
"What does that mean, let's make it clear."
Guan Shan didn't do what she wanted, just grabbed the hand she was making trouble and shook it.
"Don't make a fuss."
Ji Yu really didn't make any more trouble, and let him hold his hand.
Looking at someone's serious face and faintly red ears is a little more interesting than admiring the snow.
Twenty-six, kill pigs and sheep, and prepare for the New Year's meat.
Twenty-seven, catch up with the last episode, and make up for the missing New Year's goods.
There was nothing to do with her family in the past two days, so Ji Yu made time to make up lessons for Hu Ximei.
Compared with the easy one-on-one on her side, Guan Shan is amazing, and he is about to start teaching.
The cause of the incident was the fox meat and mink meat that had been sent out before.
What the women saw was that Ji Yu had a lot of skins to wear, but what the men saw was that Guan Shan's hunting skills were amazing! Even the old hunters in the past were not so capable!
In addition to envy, some people can't bear to come to the door to ask for advice.
The people in the village didn't have much contact with Guan Shan, and they all felt that he didn't look like he was easy to talk to, not to mention that hunting skills were also a livelihood, and no one would easily teach them to others.
Yuan was still a little worried, but who knew that the situation was not as expected.
Although Guan Shan is indeed not very enthusiastic, there is one thing to say about how to make bows and arrows, how to set traps, how to survey the terrain, and how to identify the whereabouts of animals.
He doesn't talk much, and he can barely move his mouth when he can do it, and even if he has to move his mouth, he can be concise and concise. So many people listen to it in a fog, but the understanding part is enough for them to benefit.
In the past, the people who came to Ji Yu's door were mainly women, and there had never been a room full of young adults like this.
Ji Yu looked at the villagers who were standing in most of the courtyard, and then looked at Guanshan who was demonstrating to them with a bow.
On the one hand, he seems to have integrated into this country life.
At the same time, he felt that maybe he was like this in the barracks, surrounded by a group of soldiers......
Ji Yu shook her head and didn't let herself think about it anymore.
There are suddenly so many people in the house, Ji Yu is okay, and when she and Hu Ximei close the door of the East House, they can't get anything in the way, and Dabao and Ji Mingfang are the same in the West House.
Only bitter A, B, C, D. As long as people came, Ji Yu could only lock them in the upside-down room, and even if they kept eating, they would often be heard howling inside.
And as their old mother, Rhubarb, because she is a purebred dog, can still maintain her free body.
Rhubarb itself may not feel much better about freedom, but probably because he is noisy and panicked, he is impatient to stay at home, goes outside for a run, and only comes back after dark.
But it only went out once, and then it didn't like to go out.
No matter how many people in the family there are, no matter how noisy it is, it will just lie on the stove.
Ji Yu didn't take it to heart until early in the morning, when she opened the door of the backyard and found a pheasant that had been bitten to death.
Looking around, there was no one, only a series of footprints that spread to the back mountain.
The next day, when I opened the door, it was a hare that had been bitten to death.
Day 3......
Ji Yu thought that the white wolf had returned to Daguan Mountain, but she didn't expect it to be in the back mountain all along.
And what's going on with all these things? Do you give a gift to your mother-in-law?
Is this to leave her family as a relative?
This is a kind of courtesy...... Why bother?
A wolf and a dog, although not considered cross-species, will not end well either.
Rhubarb may not be scum, but early enlightenment, but the white wolf is still obsessed.
Ji Yu told Guan Shan about this, and Guan Shan told her not to be nervous.
"As the old saying goes, if a wolf turns back, it is either gratitude or revenge.
Although the wolf is fierce by nature, it is also extremely spiritual, and it will give back when it receives help from humans.
Since the white wolf's trip is not seeking revenge, there is nothing to worry about, not to mention that you also helped him raise his children. ”
Ji Yu: "......"
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Chapter 498: The Big Problem