In fact, Tietou is in such a situation, and he blames himself, if he wants to say that the life support has come, even if he does not join, with the ability to support life and the ability to add a piece, the two of them can still escape if they join forces. At least there is a half-burnt incense given to him by the second master, and a way to break it!

Love can generally be a child, or a sign of immaturity!

There is a saying that humility makes people progress, and people who are reckless think that they can do anything and will not listen to other people's opinions at will!

Lao Tzu said, "Those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are clear." We also often say, "People are self-aware!" "Why is it that man is self-aware?

Because "not self-sufficient and reckless" has to pay a price.

The result of "not measuring one's own strength and being reckless" will ruin wealth and hurt one's body at the least, and at worst ruin one's family and lose one's life.

Since the result of "recklessness" is so unbearable, when can it not be "reckless"?

Master Nan Huaijin said: "There are three basic mistakes that people cannot make: one is to be thin in virtue and respectful, the second is to be wise and small, and the third is to be small and responsible!" Nan Huaijin's "three basic mistakes" are not exactly the three things that should not be done?

Be a man, don't be "reckless" in these three times

When "virtue is thin", don't be reckless. "Dignity"!

When you are "small", don't be reckless. "Seek greatness"!

When the power is small, don't be reckless. "Heavy responsibility"!

If the above 3 can succeed or not, it is easy to cause disaster; If you don't get it, it's going to be fatal.

When "virtue is thin", don't be able to "respect" what you say: if a person's virtue is not enough, don't try to stay in a more noble position.

Why?

If you are not virtuous enough, you will not be able to convince the people; If you can't convince the people, you will be bombarded by the people sooner or later. Rather than stepping down in disgrace, it's better not to sit in this position in the first place. As said in "The Romance of the Gods", "Destiny is impermanent, and only the virtuous live in it." ”

Historically, the fall of feudal emperors was mostly caused by "thin morality".

For example, King Yin, Xia Wei, Emperor Yang of Sui, and so on.

Historically, the vast majority of ministers who were virtuous and ungrateful were difficult to fall behind in a good death.

You can get a position because you are "only on top", but your superiors will also take you down at any time in order to appease the "wrath of the people".

In real life, if you want to be a small leader, a small leader, you have to cultivate your own virtues in advance. If you have enough virtues, you may be able to do what you want in future elections, and you will be able to sit firmly in your position.

If you only slap your boss, your superiors may kick you away at any time to appease the anger of the public.

How do you cultivate your own "virtues"?

Remember these few words, the public is selfless; The world is for the public; Serve; Hardship comes first, pleasure comes last. If you don't sacrifice your dedication, you don't expect to be above everyone.

When "wisdom is small", don't be able to "seek big" It means that if a person's wisdom is not enough, don't be greedy for big success.

Why?

If you don't have enough resourcefulness, you can't see the complexity of interpersonal relationships, you can't see the direction of things, and you can't make a decision. If you don't know people, how can you seek people? If you don't know something, how can you make a profit? I don't know how to decide, how can I decide? If you have to bite the bullet and "seek big", you will definitely lose all your money.

In "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", there is a story of "Jiang Gan stealing books".

Jiang Gan wanted to make a great contribution in front of Cao Cao, so Mao recommended himself to persuade Zhou Yu to surrender, but instead fell into Zhou Yu's counter-plot. Because of this incident, Jiang Gan became a laughing stock for the ages. Jiang Gan's behavior is a typical example of "being wise and seeking big".

In real life, there are many people who also make the mistake of "being smart and planning big".

For example, if you are not familiar with a certain industry, you will rashly enter this industry without in-depth understanding and without the guidance of a master. The result can be imagined, at least lose money, time, and energy, and at worst the wife is separated and the family is destroyed.

A few years ago, someone jumped off a building in a certain communications market. The situation is like this, at that time, the supply of a certain fruit mobile phone was insufficient, and many people were willing to queue up and increase the price to buy it.

This person saw the so-called business opportunities, and hoarded a batch of mobile phones a year ago, planning to make a fortune after the year. Who knows, after the year, a certain fruit mobile phone is supplied in large quantities; And the mobile phone that this person hoarded may be higher than the market price at this time when it is collected. It is certain that this person lost money, and somehow, he jumped off the building. This is also a typical kind of "wisdom is small and seeks big".

If you feel that your IQ is average and the status quo satisfies you, choosing to live in peace and stability is also an excellent philosophy of life. If you feel that your IQ is average and the status quo makes you unhappy, a little ambition is also a must.

If you are ambitious and want to "seek greatness", you must do your homework in advance, know how to persist and be flexible in the process, and know how to comfort yourself afterwards. Don't do things that you can't afford to lose.

When "strength is small", don't be able to "take responsibility" to talk about a person's small strength or poor health, don't do those things that hurt the body.

Why? The strength is small, and you have to do the hard work, can the body withstand it? If you are not in good health, you have to do hard work, can you not get sick? "Zuo Biography" has a saying, "If you can, you will advance, otherwise you will retreat, and you will do what you can." ”

In history, there is a "story of King Wu of Qin lifting the crown". King Wu of Qin was tall and strong, Kong Wu was competitive, and the favored retainers around him were all strong men.

Once he won the championship with the strong man Meng Yue. Meng Yue was fine after lifting, but King Qin Wu broke his kneecap when he lifted the tripod, and died soon after. When King Wu of Qin died, he was only 23 years old. Isn't this just "small force but heavy responsibility"?

More than 30 years ago, many men in the countryside gradually went out to engage in side jobs, and their family circumstances gradually improved. An uncle of mine also wanted to go to the big city to pan for gold when he saw that others were making money. It just so happened that he was a good cook, so he went to a restaurant in the city. I heard that the salary for him is quite high.

Who would have thought that within a few days, his body would be transported back. As for the cause of death, it was probably a sudden cardiovascular and cerebrovascular disease. Isn't this also the result of "small force but heavy responsibility"?

When choosing a career, try to choose those that you can afford physically and mentally. If you are small, try not to choose those strenuous jobs; If you are irritable, try not to choose those tedious things; If you are in poor health, try not to choose occupations that affect your health. Don't always say, "People can do it, so can I!" "What others can do, you really may not be able to.

Therefore, if you are able to do what you can, isn't that exactly what the iron head is?

is a small child, who can't see the situation clearly, can't recognize the opportunity, and only relies on his enthusiasm, so far he harms others and himself!

Who did it hurt?

Huiyang, borrowed Huiyang's luck for three years! But is it really just three years of luck?

Ay! Therefore, no matter how old or young you are, even if you are a child of seven or eight years old, when you make a mistake, parents actually have a great responsibility. But I don't think seven or eight-year-olds are just ignorant!

Yesterday I saw a video, saying that in a certain community, a few children parked a certain Leopard car in the underground garage, and they were scarred, and even worse, there was a child wearing a pulley and climbed onto the roof of someone's car.

And judging from the video, they are all elementary school students.

These are nothing, and in the end, the owner negotiated with the parents, and the four parents actually said that they would accompany a thousand yuan!

I want to ask this person who said a thousand yuan, are you educating your children, or are you educating your 1.3 billion compatriots to study like you?

Couldn't a schoolboy even recognize the obvious mistake of at least climbing onto the roof of someone's car? Or is it that parents usually educate that you are not yet an adult, so you can make mistakes casually?

Well, I really don't want to go on here.

A child who goes to elementary school doesn't know what is right or wrong! I don't know what common sense is! So, I can only summarize one sentence. Spare the bear child!

Ahem, I was excited for a while, and I digressed when I said that I could do it, but why wasn't this the case with the iron head?

With the early death of his father, and without the guidance of the correct system, Tietou had to face the pressure of family poverty.

And the people around him, Xiaoxiao is everywhere, and in that era, the blood impulse was so common.

At this time, the iron head listened to the rustling sound behind him, and looked at the death worms rushing in front of him, but he actually knew that he was surrounded.

But since he is impulsive, he will have the corresponding enthusiasm and the courage to face death.

Looking at the death worm that rushed over, the iron head glared angrily, raised the brown cryptospider leg in his hand, and rushed towards the death worm.

A split second later.

"Bell!"

The sound of a golden beep echoed through the cave, and the hand that held the brown spider's leg was also shaken.

Looking back at the death worm that rushed over his head, there was no scar on his body at all, let alone scars, and there were no marks!

At this moment, Iron Head suddenly remembered something in his mind.

What's up?

This happened last year when he was on summer vacation!

Aunt Li and his daughter in the next village originally worked in a factory in the town, but later responded to the call and went to the sea to become self-employed.

The young man was beautiful with Aunt Li and his daughter, and he was immediately fascinated by her, and then every few days, the young man would come over to help.

chased Aunt Li and his daughter for half a year, and the two officially became friends.

During the visit to friends, the young man ran the business, in fact, he took the goods from the south and brought them to the north to sell.

At that time, freight transportation was actually very underdeveloped, and many things in coastal areas were basically cabbage prices.

Take cigarettes as an example, a box of Chinese cigarettes may be four yuan in some places, and in remote areas, where the economy is not very good, it may be three yuan.

At that time, one dollar was enough for half a month's expenses of a poor family, and if you carried a box in one place, you could make hundreds of nets.

At that time, even 10,000 households knew what it was, a few hundred yuan, that was an astronomical amount, a large unity of ten yuan, and the poor family had never even seen it!

So Aunt Li and his daughter were moved, not to mention the small store, borrowed a circle of money, took the borrowed hundreds of yuan, and confidently started a running business with his boyfriend.

How much can you say, how much can you do!

On this trip, Aunt Li and his daughter disappeared for more than two years as if they had evaporated from the world, and the family never gave up looking for them. Just when her family thought she was dead and wanted to make a well-dressed mound for her, someone suddenly ran to her house and told Aunt Li that she had seen her daughter in the town!

When Aunt Li heard the news, she was excited in her heart. This isn't nonsense, who isn't excited?

But Aunt Li wasn't happy for long, and the person who came to report said that her daughter didn't seem to be normal, and under Aunt Li's questioning, the person was really hard to say, so she took Aunt Li and ran directly to the town.

Along the way, Aunt Li was nervous in her heart, and she didn't know what the person who reported the news meant by being abnormal!

It was with this apprehension that after seeing her daughter, she finally understood!

Looking at my daughter at this time, where can I say that I am beautiful! This is a female beggar, and a beggar of nerves.

Aunt Li's daughter squatted in a corner of the street, and when Aunt Li ran to her daughter tremblingly, she saw Aunt Li crying suddenly.

As soon as Aunt Li walked to his daughter's side, his daughter suddenly screamed, then held her head with both hands, and shouted at Aunt Li at the same time.

"Ghost!"