Chapter 152: Husband and wife
Lu Guoqiang took out his cigarette pouch and went to the door to smoke, obviously not wanting to talk about this. Yang Xiuying sighed and sat on the wooden bench in the room, with a sad face.
Although she didn't like to see this sister very much, after all, it was a family, Lu Qingqing was still very concerned, "Mom, what's wrong?" My dad is not at home, you tell us, is the eldest sister being bullied again? ”
"Alas!" Yang Xiuying said: "I went with your father, and I also saw that you were smiling, she and the two children were not doing well, and the Sun family loved to ignore us when they saw us." You know your dad's temper, but he wasn't happy at the time.
Especially when they call your eldest sister in front of us, how can your father stand it. I argued with them for a few words, but Yiyi, this girl is not sensible, she is almost thirty years old, she doesn't know the severity, she doesn't have the same heart with us, and she helps the Sun family talk.
Your dad didn't care about her as soon as he was angry, and came back with me, I didn't feel good in my heart, we wanted to support her, she didn't fight for it herself, how could I do it! ”
Lu Qingqing understands that this is Lu Yiyi's biggest shortcoming, she can't distinguish between inside and outside, and she takes the husband who was rude to her as the sky, and the in-law's family as her destiny for a lifetime.
But this is also the result of the times, the older generation of people have such a conservative view of marriage, as long as they can bear it, they don't want to divorce. Maybe it's for the sake of the children, maybe it's for fame, in short, not for their own well-being.
It cannot be said that this view is wrong, but it is absolutely incorrect. In fact, no matter what era it is, it varies from person to person, some people live well, and some people live poorly.
Lu Qingqing does not approve of Lu Yiyi, a woman who is obedient to her, and she does not approve of the casual attitude of the girls of her original era, get married today, divorce tomorrow, the lives of both of them are problems, and the husband will have children at every turn.
For love, for marriage, you should have a cautious attitude, if you can't decide, it's better to live alone.
Hearing Yang Xiuying tell what happened, Lu Qingqing snorted: "It's not that I look down on my eldest sister, I saw it last time she went home, how could it be so easy to put it on others?"
Sun Yong came, said a few words without saltiness, she went home with someone, sooner or later she will still suffer, you look at it, if she doesn't leave the Sun family, she won't be happy. ”
Bai Yan nodded, "What Qingqing said is right, I see, Yiyi sometimes doesn't have the courage to do things like Qingqing, although you are not optimistic about Qingqing and Qiao Yu, I think the two of them will definitely have a good life!" ”
"Alas, no one can see through the things of this world." Yang Xiuying muttered.
Lu Qingqing pondered for a moment, "Mom, you wait, it won't be long before the eldest sister has to come back." There are two times when he beats people, and Sun Yong and his family are used to treating the eldest sister like this.
When she comes back, if she can't do without Sun Yong, we won't help her. Don't be thankless at that time, if someone breaks their legs or two people, we will become bad people. ”
The relationship between husband and wife is like this, and when it is good, it is better than anyone else's. Once you fall out, it's the same as the enemy. But there is still a possibility that this enemy will be reunited.
This is what others often say: persuade and do not persuade to divide. When the two quarrel, the third party will persuade them to separate, and when the two reconcile in the future, they will blame this person.
Even if they can't reconcile, the party who doesn't want to give up will hate this middleman. Disputes and even criminal cases arising from this kind of thing are also endless.
Therefore, Lu Qingqing has a cognition, don't easily care about the affairs of other people's husbands and wives.