Chapter 226: Love Can't Be Eaten
When I got home, Han Momo didn't eat dinner, saying that he had no appetite, so he went to bed in the bedroom early.
She couldn't think of a reason to come out even when she was lying down.
Anyway, there is no motivation to get married, and it is stressful to think that Bai Xiao was waiting for him at the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau the next day.
After all, I grew up in a single-parent family, and I have always believed that the emotional life of husband and wife is not the most important pursuit in life.
I am also very confused about what I want, it seems to be to realize my dream in 4D, it seems to be to travel the world, or it may be to simply live my life freely.
In short, it's not about looking for a golden beetle son-in-law and a wife with unlimited scenery.
Wouldn't it be too boring to guard a man honestly and without leaving home now?
This seems to be very unequal to Bai Xiao's strong desire to be with him - he even feels a little sorry for his dedication.
When I first met him, he relied on and trusted himself very much.
But at that time, I just treated him as a child, a child who didn't grow up to be stupid and didn't need to be taken care of.
In the underworld, I was touched by him and felt that he had grown up and matured, and could walk side by side with him.
But if you go on side by side, do you have to get married right away?
Bai Xiao's concept in this regard is still a little too traditional.
How old he is, he should travel the world, and he should meet more people, including women.
Thinking of this, Han Momo sighed-
Am I in the midst of blessings and do not know blessings?
Isn't what many girls are looking forward to is a single-minded rich and handsome like Bai Xiao?
"Dodo." There was a knock on the door, interrupting her ramblings.
She opened the door and saw Qin Yongye standing at the door, his eyes full of care.
"Are you feeling sick somewhere?" He asked.
"No, it's just a little tired." She yawned listlessly.
"Then you rest, I'm sorry, but I bothered you."
Qin Yongye saw that she had something on her mind, and she wanted to know what was going on, and she wanted to help her come up with ideas, but she always felt that she had been rejecting herself, and she didn't dare to ask more.
"No, I didn't bother. That ......" she stammered, wanting to call him "Mr. Qin", but she felt too angry, and she really couldn't shout out the words of calling him "Dad", "That, let's talk in the study, are you free?" ”
In fact, I still urgently need someone to guide me.
"Of course." Qin Yongye smiled kindly, "As long as it's your business, no matter how busy I am, I'm free." ”
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In the study, on the mahogany carved writing desk, Yunmeng's yellowed photo more than 20 years ago is quietly inlaid in a delicate frame.
Han Momo's eyes kept staring at her infatuatedly.
She is indeed very beautiful and impeccable.
Even now, her dress and temperament do not feel outdated, and she is definitely a delicate woman with very high self-requirements.
It's no wonder that the three masters of software will like her.
Beauty has always been a scarce and magical resource.
"What is it about my mom that appeals to you?" Han Momo asked Qin Yongye.
"Beautiful, beautiful from the inside out." Qin Yongye's voice was long and long, as if he was telling an ancient legend.
"Aren't there fewer beautiful women you've met?"
"Her beauty is different, unforgettable, full of sunshine, a smile can shine on people's hearts, and the heart is warm. Her voice is more beautiful, with her empathy, which can melt people's ears. Qin Yongye's eyes seemed to be passing through the passage of time, trying to meet the people of the past.
"Do a lot of people like her?"
"Of course, she's a lover of the masses."
Han Momo couldn't help but laugh: "Then she should be a movie star." ”
"No, she is too condescending to be a movie star, she is a student bully, and she is both talented and beautiful, but she doesn't like to be a teacher."
Is it, why did such an excellent woman die so hastily without a wonderful life?
Did she choose the wrong object of love so that she had nothing to love?
If she hadn't given herself to a man so early, wouldn't her life have been completely different?
Thinking like this, Han Momo broke off the idea of early marriage more and more.
After all, I'm only 23 years old, and if I go to graduate school, I haven't graduated yet.
"Isn't she flawed?" She asked Qin Yongye.
"I don't see it, maybe it's because I haven't been with her for a long time, how can people have no shortcomings?"
"Then don't you feel particularly sorry that you didn't marry her?"
Qin Yongye was silent.
Is silence a tacit acquiescence that he doesn't regret it? Han Momo then concluded: "Then do you think that the wife you marry later is more suitable for you?" ”
"Love and marriage are two different things. Marriage doesn't necessarily need love. Qin Yongye's tone became very stiff, as if he was talking about the Bible.
"Why?"
"Love can't be eaten." Qin Yongye's tone became even more indifferent.
"But some people say that as long as you are with your beloved, it doesn't matter if you lose everything else. Isn't that stupid? Han Momo asked this question from Bai Xiao's point of view,
Bai Xiao repeatedly said to himself that as long as he could be with him, even if he lived in the underground world, he would be willing.
Is this love for him?
"It's just an ethereal dream of a talented and beautiful woman. When you are poor, you will feel that money and social status are more important. It brings you vanity far more than the passion that love brings. That kind of passion doesn't last long at all, and it will eventually turn into chicken ribs in the face of reality. Qin Yongye replied indifferently.
Han Momo's pupils focused, why did he listen to Qin Yongye's words today, which was completely different from what he had confessed before?
Could it be that he was lying to himself before?
Could it be that he is actually very satisfied with his marriage and does not regret abandoning his mother?
In fact, the reason why Qin Yongye said this was to put aside his own emotions and stand in the perspective of a bystander, using reason and experience to persuade Han Momo.
He hopes that when his daughter thinks about marriage, she will consider more practical interests rather than being subject to emotions.
Maybe parents will become so snobbish when they plan marriage for their children, because no one wants their children to suffer, at least not to suffer losses like they did when they were young.
Or maybe it was the appearance of Xiaofang that changed his concept.
Fang is an emotionless robot, but it can meet all his needs: beauty, skin-to-skin intimacy.
Including the pleasure of enslaving women, which is rooted in the bones of men, can also be obtained from it.
It would never disobey him, and Yunmeng would have a little temper.
The most valuable thing is that it will not give him any psychological burden, will not entangle, and will not be greedily demanded.
What lover can do this?
The deeper the relationship, the more you want to dominate, and you can't tolerate others to share, so you will impose more and more restraints on your loved ones, and finally tie each other out of breath.
A little less love and more rationality between lovers can give each other more freedom and tolerance.
Therefore, marriage, from the perspective of a combination of advantages, can make each other go to the next level, is more meaningful.
Qin Yongye's purpose in saying the above words was to hope that when Han Momo chose between Ming Pai and Bai Xiao, he would be less emotional and more reasonable.
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