The ginseng doll said: "Sister, don't be like this, you are a human, I am a spirit, it is not a grade at all, your cultivation is much faster than that of us light monsters and goblins, how can I bear to use you to cultivate!" ”

Besides, now I am also powerless, even if I want to eat this little girl who can increase people's cultivation skills for a thousand years, even if I eat it, I can have many benefits and prolong life, but what ability do I have to eat her?

Xuan Chu said: "It seems that you are also a little elf in my heart, I didn't expect that I could meet such a good friend as you before I died, it is really my great fate!" ”

Ay! The world is impermanent, and there are always unforeseen things in life. I didn't expect that I could meet a good ginseng doll who thought about himself when I was dying, whether it was a human or a goblin, as long as he was a good person for himself, even if he was a goblin, even if he was a spirit?

Ginseng Doll thought to herself that this little girl is really innocent, and she has never met her, but she didn't expect her to think so much, it seems that she just thought about it. If you want to run away while he's not paying attention, or let her be a good snake demon, the idea of losing both sides shouldn't be, such a good girl, deserves to be treated better!

The ginseng doll said: "Snake demon, didn't your wife hear that she was forced by someone, so she committed suicide and died, and you still don't repent, have you forgotten what kind of monsters are those who killed your wife?" Are you still going to follow the path of those youkai? "Humph! Sounds like it's annoying enough, isn't this goblin cultivator angry at all? If that's the case, I won't be able to use him!

"Snort...... You ginseng, you, I have to dig up the eighteen generations of your ancestors and eat the alchemy, so that you can ...... again."

The ginseng doll secretly rejoiced that her plan had succeeded, and giggled: "Giggles, first of all, we have to understand that anger is very normal and happens to everyone, and most of the reasons for anger are because we are dissatisfied with the status quo, but there is nothing we can do to change the status quo, and even more so after trying to change, but there is no result, so the emotion that arises after this is anger." And about how to get angry correctly, so that this emotion does not hurt themselves, and does not cause greater harm to the people around them, timely stop loss, is a very important knowledge, the next three truths tell us how to do it. ”

"Snort, you hairy child, this immortal gives you a chance, I can't say why, look at the children and grandchildren of your family that I dug up......"

The ginseng doll smiled: "Hehe, you are so angry, what do you do first, fight for anger, don't be angry." As I have already said, the reason for being angry is nothing more than being disappointed in one's own inaction, and it is nothing more than because the current situation is not in line with one's own desires and is not in one's ideal state, so because of disappointment, the negative emotion of anger is triggered, and it is out of control. But I don't know if you have ever thought that anger will slow down the process of our pursuit of lofty goals, "Warring States Policy" has written "those who travel a hundred miles are half ninety", often you feel embarrassed and feel that you can't change the current situation, that is the most difficult time in this matter, that is, when you are about to succeed, if you choose to give up because of anger at this time, is it a little too much to lose? ……”

Xuan Chu said: "So if it is because of this reason caused by negative anger, we need to resolve it even more, at this time what we need to do is to keep a clear head, never let ourselves fall into the quagmire of anger and anger, so that it is easy to lose our minds, so that things will become worse and worse." ”

Xuan Chu thought to himself, the ginseng doll looks like it wants to delay time, so it is better to cooperate with him and gain time......

Ginseng Doll smiled: "Yes, my sister is right, at this time, you should work harder to move forward, fight for this breath, turn anger into the motivation for your own efforts to move forward, and do this thing well to be able to heal the emotional defects in your heart, so that you can become a better person, and you can also do the thing at hand perfectly." Second, get angry, don't be angry. Although the negative emotion of anger has a huge impact on us, it is also an unavoidable emotion, after all, we are born with seven emotions and six desires, so if it really comes to the point where you must be angry with the other party, please remember that it is okay to be angry, but it is not okay to be angry. ……”

"Snort, hum, otherwise when you are angry, you will be as calm as you ......"

Chu said: "This is not nonsense, how can this be nonsense!" Being angry with others is a way to vent emotions, through quarrels, or singing, etc., to release yourself or a way of entertainment, you can get rid of this negative emotion, but anger is different, anger is actually angry with yourself, and all the negative emotions are rotten in the stomach. Li Bai wrote in his poems, "Raise a knife to cut off the water and the water is more flowing, raise a glass to eliminate sorrow and sorrow", drinking to relieve one's boredom is undoubtedly a way to eliminate sorrow, but its practical effect is not great, the real way to solve this negative emotion is to communicate with others more, vent the dissatisfaction in one's heart, and can really be fundamentally solved. ”

"Humph! It's amazing to be able to recite poetry! ”

The ginseng doll smiled: "Third, be discouraged, don't be discouraged. In fact, anger and anger are not so terrible, because they have a way to solve it, anger can be solved by quarreling, and anger can be expressed by talking with family and friends, chatting to express their full resentment, but if you are deflated because of anger and anger, that is the worst consequence. The famous scholar Mencius once wrote in "Born in Sorrow and Died in Peace" that "the heavens will descend on people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skins, and empty their bodies", a person who can achieve great things must go through a lot of hardships and obstacles before succeeding, and anger, anger and frustration are very common stumbling blocks on the road to success. But if you really give up on your dreams because of these negative emotions, isn't it just following the hearts of those who don't like you? "A thousand miles of embankment collapsed in an anthill", this sentence is not just a saying, you spent 1,000 days to build a dam, but because of a small ant hole and abandoned the whole project, what a big loss. ”

Chu said: "So it's not terrible to have these negative emotions, the most important thing is how you treat them, how you can transform them into positive things, so that they can give wings to the road of your dreams, if you can understand these 3 truths, you will definitely soar in the future, and become immortals will no longer be swayed by emotions." ”