The time of the university is free, and there are some problems with the course design of the university. Compared to the high school, only half of the study time is used, and the rest of the time, students mostly spend it on entertainment and consumption. After graduating from college, they are unemployed, and many students end up without solid professional knowledge and cannot find good jobs.

At the end of this semester, Xiao Lai finally understood that "studies are the most important", but she did not distinguish the contradiction between the priority and priority of "gold certificate and continuing to take the postgraduate examination", which led to her preparing for the certificate in a limited time, thus ignoring the long-term development.

In her first year, she barely passed all her homework.

It's really not a good thing for her to spend a long time reminiscing about the past. Fortunately, she gradually realized, "People should look forward in order to go far."

In the second semester of the sophomore year, the courses are becoming more and more specialized, and the content of the exams is becoming more and more upgraded. Xiao Lai began to reduce the excessive "attention" on the emotional aspect and started the struggle mode. She met several "like-minded" classmates, and worked day and night in the study room, occasionally shopping, as a way for herself to temporarily relieve stress.

In Xiao Lai's immature outlook on life, she believes that "the environment can transform a person and make a person better", so she is particularly susceptible to the environment, influenced and influenced by family, friendship and love. The origin of Xiao Lai's "inspirational" originated from her high school best friend.

My best friend is a very planned person. She can always let Xiaolai do something for her, the so-called "capable people employ people", probably people like best friends.

From high school to junior college, to college promotion, to preparing for graduate school entrance examination, girlfriends are using "external forces" to make themselves strong along the way. Every day, I will talk to Xiao Lai on the phone and send a message. As long as it is something that her best friend begs, Xiaolai will help her handle it as soon as possible.

"There's a guy who's been pursuing me, calling and texting every day." Girlfriends often tell her about their feelings, and Xiaolai is always envious.

"What kind of person is that person?" Lai always pays attention to something practical.

"He wanted to kill himself last night because I rejected him." The girlfriend said with some affection and sadness.

"This person is terrible, how can he do such a childish thing." Xiao Lai persuaded.

"I'm a little worried, but I want to know what's going on with him now? Is it lying to me? The girlfriend expressed her inner trouble.

She continued, "Xiao Lai, he has a particularly good female classmate named Cui Min, you must know him. ”

"I know her better." Xiao Lai was actually a little impatient, because she received a call from her girlfriend that she was carrying an exam question, but she had to stop.

"I have her contact information here, can you help me ask Cui Min about that boy's past love history?" The best friend finally told her true thoughts.

Lai agreed to help her ask, because she really didn't have time to worry about these things anymore. She wants to concentrate on tomorrow's subjects, but for her best friend, nothing is as important as her business. Xiao Lai didn't care about the interests involved, she only cared about her friends' gains and losses and moods.

Soon, Xiao Lai helped her find out, but her best friend complained about Xiao Lai because of this matter.

Xiao Lai asked the most stable and mature circle, and he told Xiao Lai that "from the perspective of a boy, the other party has no sense of responsibility when he chooses to commit suicide and courtship."

Cui Min told her that "the other party is too extreme and a little irresponsible." When Xiao Lai told her best friend these truths, she didn't think that the friendship between the two would end, because she publicly complained that Xiao Lai was "impersonal and too indifferent".

Xiao Lai has never contacted her since this incident, thinking that "it is not a person all the way, and the Tao is not the same". She began to fight for her studies and her future, and she didn't dare to be sad, not because she lost a best friend, but because she had a spirit that made her work harder, and she had the courage to pursue the truth. She no longer agrees with her best friend's values, she begins to find her own values and judgment standards, and this process is to keep learning and working hard.

From the successful passing of the computer level 1 and level 2 certificates, to the top-notch English level 4, all the way down, Xiao Lai successfully influenced her classmates, and also became the direction of their learning, where she took the exam, there will be a lot of "followers", in fact, this really makes Xiao Lai full of confidence.

Hang on

There is no harm without contrast. Xiao Lai's performance in an English 6 test was abnormal, and her score was far behind that of her friends, which made her very stressed. Because these days, she's preparing for a tour guide certificate.

It took half a year for Xiaolai to insist on learning encyclopedia knowledge and tour guide policies and regulations, which made her have more reserves for content other than her major. Although he hasn't passed the sixth level, he will still have a chance, so Xiao Lai will be busier in the next time.