62. Nostalgia is reluctant to chase dreams
Although this uncle and mother are brother and sister, but half-sibling, the relationship is not good or bad, in Xiao Lai's view, the people on this blind date are mainly his relatives, but it can't be for his interests, take Xiao Lai's life. Parents are also honest, controlled by others, and don't have many brains, this spreads, Xiaolai's face is really faceless.
She quickly called her mother again, told her about the stakes, and clearly told her, "Don't be used by others again, be careful to pull your own daughter on the back, remember, as long as you have a relationship with Xiaolai, you must ask her herself." β
Don't look at Xiao Lai's soft and weak appearance, she is really like a man on the inside, steady, and sometimes very naΓ―ve, but she can really sort out the big things wrong.
Mother is also a very capable person, but she doesn't distinguish between right and wrong, her brain doesn't turn, and she obeys her parents very much, so she is often subject to her brother.
This matter is over for the time being, and Xiao Lai has no time to pay attention to it. How can the life she wants be controlled by her uncle? This incident also made her reacquainted with these relatives, and it was better to contact them less if she was fine.
It was another eventful autumn, the heavy rain outside the window was still ticking, and Xiao Lai sat there, a little dazed. She received the addition of the QQ number again, and carefully checked the other party's information, it turned out to be him, Lao Sun.
This time she hesitated, she wasn't sure what the other party meant, so she just put it there, if he really had the heart, he would come. was about to look up some information on the Internet, when Xiao Lai's phone rang.
"Hey, Li Na, what's wrong? Long time no see! β
"Table, where are you now?" Li Na seems to have something, as her tablemate, the two of them are usually better.
"I'm out of town, I'm on a business trip, are you having any happy events?" Xiao Lai had already guessed that the same table was going to get married.
"I'm getting married, can you come and participate? This May Day. β
"I guess I can't go, congratulations in advance, WeChat will transfer money to you in a while."
"That's a shame, I wish you could come." The other party was a little disappointed.
"We'll get together again, by the way, is that still the same person we are marrying each other?" Xiao Lai was a little unsure.
"It's been this guy from start to finish."
"And how much does he give you?"
"According to our custom there, the starting price is 80,000."
"Then you can be a partner, where will you live after getting married? Bought a house? β
"Baoding, the company is there, and I just bought the first set with a mortgage."
"That's good, the other party is so good to you, you will definitely be very happy in the future!"
"Alas, I don't have a choice, it's okay, what about you? Is there an object now? β
"I'm still single, I'll tell you good news."
"Definitely."
"Happy newlywed!"
"Thank you!"
Speaking of this tablemate, Xiao Lai likes her very much, she is the eldest in the family, a brother and a sister, and she is very filial. Li Na, an accountant who studied in college, worked very hard, in order not to burden the family, the girl has been working and studying, getting scholarships every time, and constantly subsidizing the family, this girl really has no choice. When she was a sophomore, a friend introduced her to a boyfriend, who is now married. But the two of them are not the kind of relationship that falls in love at first sight, but they both feel that there is no more suitable candidate, so they have been dealing with each other, lukewarm, just right.
Once, when the table was arguing about breaking up on the bus, the boy said to her, "If you were someone else, no one would want you, and you would not be satisfied." "I don't know if I feel that I'm too old and it's hard to find a partner, the scene at that time, the same table actually endured it, if it were now, I would definitely not be able to bear it.
When I was about to graduate, with the help of my boyfriend, I entered a famous company at the same table to do accounting. Fortunately, she is very good and very good at things, she has worked for a long time, and she is proficient in business processes, so the company sent her to work as a manager in other places.
When she left, her boyfriend was very reluctant, thinking that she had a plan to leave her, which was the kind that had been planned for a long time. But there was no way, and under the promise of the same tablemate, her boyfriend was willing to let her leave.
As expected, after working there for three months, I unexpectedly met another man, and although my boyfriend visited her every week, he still couldn't stop getting along day and night, and accompanying her every day.
Finally, the table decided to have a showdown with her boyfriend, and the table was afraid of accidents, so he locked the doors and windows. As a result, her boyfriend took a taxi to her dormitory in the middle of the night and knocked on the door one by one to find her.
Later, I heard the news that she was going to get married. This can be regarded as a complete love marriage, and Xiao Lai is also very yearning.
A boy who can cultivate himself into a talent is really not simple, the girl still chose him in the end, which is not only a test for him, but also a test for her, in fact, in the end, love will slowly fade away from its original appearance, and it will also be defeated by reality.
No matter how good the relationship is, it needs to be well maintained and adhered to, if in the end, there is really no way to continue, two people should be honest with each other, if there is still a hope to continue, willing to change for the sake of each other, then you should try to work hard, and it should not be like changing clothes, just like changing clothes.
If you can cultivate a bad hand of cards and other people's discarded cards into a king bomb, it is also the most thrilling love we have ever seen.
But in reality, when will people who are confused be able to look at love relationships rationally? They will only give birth to hatred and more regrets for the rest of their lives.
If you say, for the sake of true love, do not hesitate to give up everything, that is called true temperament, Xiao Lai should not be counted, she will also bow her head for the sake of reality, if, in the end, you can't find the person who can meet and settle down together, she may not let her future be lonely, and she will also choose a boy with a stable temperament to marry. Of course, this is only her worst-case scenario.
Perhaps, in the end, love is a person's stay with his heart.
Looking for it, but not again.
The heart is in mind, and the self-description is not clear.
When it is interrupted, it will disturb the heart.
Nostalgia is nostalgic, and it is rare to see it in a lifetime.
It was another sunny day, and Xiao Lai received an email. A national journal is hiring editors, and it has also offered Xiao Lai. This is indeed a good development opportunity, and it is very close to home, it seems that Xiao Lai is a little moved, and he has been on a business trip for a long time, and Xiao Lai misses the cats and dogs at home.
After she consulted with the family, she hesitated to tell the leader. But there are really not many opportunities, and it is the dream of editors to be able to enter an editorial office with a number at home and abroad.
This month, the leader gave Xiaolai a salary increase, but she was a little hesitant, the working hours were not short, and the treatment still did not keep up. And the opportunity is rare, and the personnel over there have been urging Xiao Lai to go through the resignation procedures.
Xiao Lai has collected a lot of information about the unit from the Internet, and she is not sure if she will be able to pass it successfully. But the feeling of homesickness, which she feels stronger than anyone else, is increasing day by day.
Recently, she has been tentatively chatting with leaders. The company values her so much and sends her to study, even if the current salary is not high, it will definitely rise in the future. But she just wanted to go home, and she had been away from home for too long.
She tactfully told the leader, "She wants to go home!" Perhaps, the leader also understood her mood very well and asked her, "Are you coming back?" She didn't answer.
However, the leader quickly informed her, "Give me a week, I will recruit people, and then I will go through the resignation procedures for you." β
Hearing this, she was a little wet, because she also had things that she couldn't let go, and there would be times when she was sad, although they treated her very well and were very happy, but she still wanted to try a larger space.
The leader knew that she was leaving, and although he did not try to keep her, he still bought her a ticket for the return trip. Before leaving, she went to a toy store, bought a toy, handed it to Xiaowen, and asked her that she must give it to her senior brother, which is a little of her heart and gratitude.
These are the two senior brothers she has recognized since she came here. They all had children of their own, and Lai had nothing to keep for them as a souvenir, so he bought toys as a token of gratitude.