Some parents may take extreme measures to "force" their children to leave the family, leave the "warm and comfortable environment", and live independently outside.

What's more, they directly cut off financial support, and in order to let their children "learn to be independent", they require their children not to return home as soon as they graduate until they can support themselves.

This may also be a common "common problem" for many young people today, they are unemployed as soon as they graduate, they do not have a good plan for their future, but blindly think that only by preparing for the exam can they finally find the ideal job they want. However, after graduation, I am not too young, is the major I studied the same as my ideal job? This is actually not a clear recognition of the reality, just wishful thinking to find a job that "can support the family", earn some money first, and complete their "grand cause", before they can really plan their future, which is also the "career planning" that many universities urgently need to increase, and must help students seriously think about the key factors between their current situation and the future. Because, not everyone will be like Xiao Lai, but there are many people like Xiao Lai who are constantly struggling for their studies and careers early. As long as you have a lofty goal, you will work hard "informally".

Therefore, Xiao Lai also began to re-examine whether his "decision" was correct and whether he needed to re-plan his goals. Thinking this way and deciding that choosing a major that is helpful and practical for her future work is the most important choice in her life.

Since you need to "gather" funds in order to realize your ideals, why don't you think about what you can do to achieve this "first step" quickly?

This is also the "philosophy" that Xiao Lai realized many years later: if you don't want to run a good job, but remember that you must have the "one skill" of multiple jobs, only in this way, you will not find a job because you are not able to do it when you change jobs frequently.

Not long after, Xiao Lai came to work. This month's salary has also arrived, but it is not as much as she expected, and she is a little unwilling, which is too far from her goal.

In the past few months, although Xiao Lai felt under pressure, she did not slack off on her work, but she only recruited two students, and such a result made her start to re-examine herself, is it suitable for this job? Despite the fact that Ms. Wang and Xiaohui have managed their admissions list, how to mark pending lists, and how to regularly track the clients they have contacted and the final list, Xiaolai has not been able to recruit more people. Therefore, she decided to play to her strengths and "expand" her funds as soon as possible.

After learning of Xiao Lai's intentions, the big leaders took turns to talk to her.

"Xiao Lai, if you encounter any difficulties, you can come to me directly! I'll help you out. "The leader Zhang is the founder of the academy and speaks very strongly, but he didn't expect Xiao Lai to leave.

"This job may not be suitable for me, and I have to prepare for the second round of exams." Xiao Lai said firmly.

"Xiao Lai, you have persevered for so long, and if you persist a little longer, you will definitely reap the rewards. Besides, even if this position is not suitable, then we have other positions that need talents like you. Teacher Wang also persuaded her bitterly.

"Mr. Wang, first of all, thank you very much for your training and help for a period of time, but I have worked hard for several months, and I found that no matter how hard I worked, my performance still did not show good. So, I was thinking that maybe my personality wasn't right for the job, and I decided to find something to do that would play to my strengths. Xiao Lai still insisted on her opinion and followed the established route, because she had never been obsessed with a dream, she wanted to try, even if the result was not very satisfactory, she had to try it again.

"Well, now that you've decided, you have to do it well and don't give up halfway." Teacher Wang saw that he couldn't move, so he had to give up.

"Thank you, teacher."

Before leaving, Xiaohui gave Xiaolai the address of his accommodation in the suburbs, and they agreed that the two of them would get together again in September to start reviewing.

Xiao Lai contacted her sister and several intermediaries, and decided to go back to school and start making up lessons for students. This industry has always been very popular, and Xiao Lai is very good at English.

Through the relationship between the junior sister and the butterfly, Xiaolai successfully lived in the dormitory. Now that the students are on summer vacation, there are fewer people in the dormitory. Xiao Lai got in the car and returned to the starting point with his luggage. However, she did not contact her friends, because in her opinion, at the moment of urgent "fundraising" during this time, her agreement with the fat man expired in a month, so in addition to resting, she was desperately taking on "private work", and kept running to the bookstore, in order to find excellent materials more suitable for students, she almost searched all the bookstores.

By paying a certain fee to the intermediary, Xiaolai soon received three tutors. She has to go to three places every day to teach students.

Sometimes she overslept in the morning, so she went to the door to buy a pancake and fruit, and hurried to the car. When she went to the first student's home, she was a little unfree, just two students, and the parents were in the car tire business, so they didn't care about tutoring their children's homework at all. So I hired Xiaolai to help them solve their problems at any time. Although the work is easy, but the time is limited, I have to sort out the knowledge and explain the content to them within 3 hours, and also bring them how to do the questions and skills. Actually, there is nothing difficult about it, but Xiaolai needs to design the content of the curriculum to help the children understand the text better.

As soon as the three hours arrived, Xiao Lai said goodbye to them and hurried to the bus. After all, there is only half an hour to spare, and I need to go to a training class to tutor English for a girl who is about to take the high school entrance examination.

In the car, open the review questions, memorize the lesson again, there are some that can't be remembered, or need to be explained, she re-selected the case, so the effect is very good, with a very typical example, not only can help students understand the vocabulary, but also can draw inferences.

Moreover, she is not in a hurry to teach them problem-solving skills, after all, the children have not yet reached a certain level. Every student she has tutored will learn her "essence" in the classes that are about to end, which is why other teachers have always wanted to know the "know-how" of Xiao Lai's teaching. Some teachers may not be good at speaking, and they have a bit of a "Chinese flavor"; Some teachers may be very good at explaining grammar knowledge, but she does not consider the real feelings of the children, because they do not want to listen to the class so boringly.