In fact, the reason why Xiao Lai did this was also out of helplessness. didn't think about it, but let herself be out of the limelight, which was really not her intention.

Some time ago, her mother cried and called her again, which made Xiao Lai very unhappy, an adult, like a child all day long, and a word that didn't listen to her provoked her, so she began to fight with people, quarreled with her sister, and really let Xiao Lai worry enough for her.

She told Xiao Lai, "Don't contact your aunt's family in the future, you actually look down on us." Xiao Lai felt that she was very naïve, "How old are you, and you still fight with people all day long, you can't stop?" If you look down on it, you look down on it, why do you have to get along with her? Do you have to compare this with her? You can't speak, you can't behave, and you lose your temper at every turn, who wants to be with you? You haven't realized your shortcomings yet, and I'm afraid I, as your child, won't forgive you for what you've done, even if I don't have anything to do with my aunt's family. ”

Before Xiao Lai finished speaking, the other party hung up the phone with a "snap", which is not a matter of one or two times. There is no way, a person's upbringing comes from parents, but what needs to be corrected is that life will teach you how to grow, but you can't rely on your parents, you still have to learn to face your own problems, no one will pay for your willfulness!

There is no way, people who are used to being brought up may not be able to get out of the shadow of their parents for the rest of their lives. Those who are so-called attached to life and live happily are probably the truths realized after experiencing the darkness of life.

This time, Xiaolai also decided not to contact the relatives anymore because of her mother's "narration", after all, she still has her own judgment. Xiao Lai has experienced the "treatment" of that family, and can only say that although they have similar blood, they can't see each other, let alone be safe.

The mother's lack of self-reliance, her penchant for relying on others, and her lack of principle in doing things make it really difficult for such a person to integrate into society. Xiao Lai sometimes thinks, "If it weren't for her beauty, high education, and a skill, my father wouldn't have taken a fancy to her." "That may be the case. If life were a palace fighting drama, she wouldn't have survived the second episode at all.

This also indirectly confirms other people's evaluation of my mother, "I like to be more serious, not sensible!" "A lot of the time, Lai doesn't want to believe it, but most of the time, it's hard to understand what she's doing. Xiao Lai is very painful, because there is such a mother, she is very faceless, but sometimes she has to care about her, because blood is thicker than water.

Since she is almost half a hundred people, she is still so stubborn, she really can't blame others. During that time, Xiao Lai didn't call her either, and only contacted her father when there was something.

In order to redeem her favor in Xiao Lai's heart, she secretly found an in-law for Xiao Lai. Fortunately, Xiao Lai didn't know, and if he knew, he would definitely be so angry that he vomited blood.

No matter how bad Xiaolai's conditions are, he won't ask others to get married. Her mother can do this kind of thing, she has taken a fancy to the neighbor's nephew, has been secretly contacting people, and has given Xiao Lai's phone number to the other party. Later, Xiao Lai also met, but it didn't mean that way, so he stopped contacting him. Unexpectedly, her mother called people again and again, forcing the man to text Xiaolai, "Don't let your mother contact me again!" ”

At this time, Xiao Lai realized that it was really her. Actually, she doesn't really care about Xiao Lai, she doesn't care about Xiao Lai's true thoughts, she just wants to manipulate Xiao Lai's life and marriage, in order to find a support for herself. Xiao Lai's voice was hoarse, and he called her and asked her, "Do you know what shame is?" Do you know what a face is? She even denied it. This made Xiao Lai really painful, and later simply blocked her.

A woman, who likes to be in the limelight all day long, loves gossip, likes to talk bad about people behind her back, always tells right and wrong, has nothing to do with her husband, stirs up restlessness, and restlessness in her neighbors, such a woman is really uneducated, brainless, and has no city, and loves to take advantage of small advantages, which is really annoying. Little Lai would rather wander around than be under the same roof with her.

It's obviously a biological mother and daughter, but it's like raising an animal, either beating or scolding, obviously I don't like Xiaolai, but I have to pretend to love Xiaolai very much, and I have to pretend to expose it in front of others every time, obviously very hypocritical, but I often deny it. Xiao Lai knew very well in his heart that he would never forgive her in this life.

When I was a child, I didn't have the ability to support myself, so I could only endure her abuse, but now it's different, Xiao Lai has grown up, has her own outlook on life, worldview, and judgment and cognitive ability of the world, she can distinguish between good and evil, true and false in this world. She has the life she wants, and she is no longer a tool for anyone, especially someone like her mother.

Accustomed to quietly wiping her wounds alone, accustomed to sitting alone in a quiet corner and thinking about things, Xiaolai has always felt lonely, because she has such a family, so she can't bring her friends to play at home.

For many times, she has been in an uncivilized and chaotic world, and she has never been able to let go of the past that saddened her. She doesn't understand a lot, why do people always love gossip? Don't understand, women always like to intrigue with each other? Don't understand, marriage will always be stormy? Don't understand, the relationship between people is so fickle? I don't understand, why do people always have love and hatred?

It wasn't until she was exposed to the subject of philosophy that she had a complete epiphany. Her outlook on life is also derived from philosophical stories. She often reads chicken soup for the soul that goes to her heart, but often she still can't really make herself happy, and then she began to study philosophical theories, she wants to know how to resolve the contradictions between people, and she wants to know how to maintain a harmony between people. She wants to find a philosophy that she can believe in, so that she can find her way in difficult situations, she wants to find the truth that can guide the future of her life, let go of vanity and greed, and let her lonely, wandering soul be watched.

The amount of hurt you have suffered, the amount of courage you have to face those pasts. Xiao Lai didn't want to do it, she wanted to forget that there was such a person who had always existed.

Her best friend, Xiao Min, was also in her mother's "broken thoughts", and the relationship between the two ended like this. Originally, Xiao Min didn't think there was anything about it, it was just a mother's excessive care for her child. But one day, Xiaomin's mother actually called Xiaolai and told her, "Don't let your mother call Xiaomin's father again." Xiao Lai realized what a stupid woman his mother was. Little Lai yelled at her hysterically, "Do you know what moderation is? I know it's my classmate's father, why do I keep calling people to tell me about it? Why should I let someone else take care of my business? What obligation does someone else have to manage me? At that moment, she was especially afraid of Xiao Lai's eyes, which were a desperate gaze.

This was the last time, and Xiao Lai rarely paid attention to her anymore. In Xiao Lai's eyes, she is a madman and a mentally retarded person, because she and Xiao Lai are not people of the same world, she is vulgar, and she is indistinguishable from wrong. Xiao Lai doesn't want to do what she asks, so she will try her best to destroy all of Xiao Lai's connections until Xiao Lai leaves in despair.

It's not a husband and wife, it's not an affair with someone, and it's not something bad, why do you always treat Xiaolai like this? When Xiao Lai went home, she couldn't stay for two hours, and she was about to start scolding, scolding Xiao Lai for being useless, and staying at home when she was so old, how could Xiao Lai respect her?

At one time, Xiao Lai wanted to run away from home very much, wanting to leave this family that made him insecure. In order to find out whether he was biological, Xiaolai also went to check some information, and the result was his biological parents.

Later, as long as it was the object she introduced, Xiao Lai was disturbed intentionally or unintentionally. Because she doesn't want her other half to have anything to do with her, let alone let her come into contact with her.

The kind of picture that can't go back to home and can't save relatives is really deeply engraved in Xiaolai's heart, making her uncomfortable like a knife. This situation always makes her sad in the silent night. She likes to put her sorrow in delicate words, like to copy beautiful poems, and like to sing those sad music. It seemed that there would be a moment for her to forget her melancholy for a while.

Because of such a character, she lost many originally beautiful things, such as friendship, for example, love. Sometimes, she will also seriously think about whether she will be affected by this person when she really starts a family, and she will have such an embarrassing side? But she didn't dare to think about it, let alone expect any contact with her in the future.

Having said that, whether your family can do things, whether you can be a person, and what does it have to do with your children? Aren't their parents still living together? What right do we have to deal with them? What can we do for such a loved one?

She just doesn't like that she's so lazy, she just doesn't show her love, everything is her own problem, why should we pay for her incompetence?

What we can do is to let ourselves care for such family members without regrets, let their more lonely hearts get a touch of human comfort, let them realize how stupid their past behavior was, and let them change those bad characters in time.

As the saying goes, no one is perfect, and knowing mistakes can be changed, and there is great goodness. The God of the Western world once said that he is more willing to accept a person who knows his mistakes and can change them than those who have no fault, not to mention that there is no so-called God in this world.

How to correctly open the relationship model between parents and children is also the first lesson for everyone to establish their own interpersonal relationships.

Youth is young, and the shadow is thin.

Wasted years, silent reefs.

When will the bird return to its nest?

People have no life, so what's so difficult?