Nian Fu said: "Hehe, you kid looks very simple, this society is like this, and it will be like this when you enter the society in the future!" Sometimes you have to do it like this......"

Xiao Tianshu said: "Why is it that the richer a man is, the easier it is to abandon his wife? Only people like you know best! ”

Nian Fu smiled: "There are four reasons, why the richer a man is, the easier it is to abandon his wife?" ”

Xiao Tianshu said: "Why don't you tell me about it?" ”

Nian Fu said: "In our marriage, many women can't understand why, once the man who accompanied him to endure hardships, after he became rich, but abandoned himself, which also responded to the sentence that men become bad when they are rich, but this is simply because men become bad when they are rich, but men are born to be very careful, they just have a thief's heart and no thief's courage when they have no money, but they still feel confident after they have money, no matter what they do. So it's even more unscrupulous. ”

Xiao Tianshu said: "Then why do men become different in mentality after a little money? What do they think in their hearts? Are you willing to abandon the woman who suffers with you, and abandon the woman who is willing to follow you when you have nothing? In fact, the richer a man is, the easier it is to abandon his wife, let's discuss it. ”

Nian Fu said: "The first is: men want to indulge themselves after they have money, in fact, after men have money, their desire for themselves will become bigger and bigger, many things that they didn't dare to do before, they want to do it at this moment, because they feel that they have the ability and are qualified to do what they want to do, although our times have been progressing, but men have never changed the concept of a man marrying several wives in marriage, They may have always been very envious of the ancient life of having many wives, and they were unable to support themselves when they were poor, and they definitely wanted to meet their own conditions. ”

Xiao Tianshu said: "The thinking is outdated......"

Nian Fu said: "The second is that after men have money, their desires will become more and more inflated, and many men will have a bigger temper after they have money, and their desires will become more and more inflated, always thinking that they have a beautiful wife to take out to show off, so that others envy themselves, that is, they don't divorce their wives, they will also find lovers, but on the surface, women called secretaries accompany them, and they will often take such women to various parties and various occasions. Taking such a woman out makes him feel that he has a lot of face on his face, so they don't want to take the yellow-faced woman at home. The third is that after men have money, they will feel that women are becoming more and more incapable, in real life, many women will choose to teach their husbands and children at home when men's careers are getting better and better, and there is no chance to improve themselves at all, so that women will slowly become men's accessories after a long time, at this time, men will go higher and higher, and women will only fall more and more backward, so that a state of great difference in status has been formed, and women are becoming more and more like nannies. And men will be higher and higher. So at this time, all the things in the family are decided by men, and women will become less and less of their own status, so they usually don't discuss with women no matter what they do, so women can't control men. In fact, no matter when a woman is, she must have her own job, at least so that we don't have to look at men's faces, let alone be said to be yellow-faced women, no matter in any knowledge, women should be beautiful, in fact, in real life, many men will start to think crookedly after they have money, but at this time, women should find ways to control men. ”

Xiao Tianshu said: "It makes sense......"

Nian Fu said: "There is a fourth reason: that is, the environment sometimes affects a person, the old people often say that it is difficult for a person to learn well, and it is often very easy to learn badly, when a man is rich, his social circle is almost the same person as him, but when others have a lot of women outside, after a long time, they will naturally be moved, they will never think that such a thing is a shameful thing, because with them will often hear about these things and feelings, After a long time, I naturally became one of them. ”

Xiao Tianshu laughed and said: "Hahaha, it's all an excuse, no matter what, when you get married, you swear to be together in life, old age, sickness and death, it's not bad, right?" ”

Nian Fu smiled: "It's just talking about the psychology of men, and it's not me, why bother ...... seriously"

Xiao Tianshu said: "Modern people and ancient people are different, they can't keep their promises, I'll tell you a story!" An old woman borrowed half a bowl of rice before her death, and in order to keep her promise, the old woman became an old hen to lay eggs and repay for seven years after her death! What's more, if you are married and live well, you don't need to repay your promise after death! ”

Nian Fu smiled: "Oh? There's also a story like this, so tell me ......."

Xiao Tianshu said: "It is said that there is an old woman at the foot of the mountain, who suddenly wanted to drink porridge one morning, but there was no rice at home, so she borrowed half a bowl of rice to boil porridge with her neighbors, and said: "Wait for the market in a few days, I will go to the market to buy rice and return it to you when I come back." ”

The neighbor said that it was only half a bowl of rice, and it was not worth much money, so there was no need to pay it back. The old woman shook her head and said, "What you say is not right, my brother still settles the account?" If you borrow something from someone, you have to pay it back, and if you take money from someone, you have to pay back every penny......"

After the old woman drank the porridge, she was worried about still owing her neighbor half a bowl of rice, but the sky was not beautiful, it rained recently, the old woman was infected with the wind cold, and accidentally fell when she went out.

It is said that after the old woman died, she came to Nai He Bridge, and Meng Po asked her to quickly drink this bowl of Meng Po soup, forget the grievances of her previous life, and quickly reincarnate, but the old woman resolutely refused to drink it, and said: "I still owe half a bowl of rice to others in my previous life, and I haven't paid it back so far, how can I leave." After speaking, he told his story to Meng Po.

Meng Po was deeply moved, and introduced her to the Lord of Yama, the old woman prayed to the Lord of Yama to let her return to the yang for seven days, in order to complete her last wish, the Lord of Yama learned what happened, and also sighed, and said: "There are still such trustworthy people in the world, but people can't be resurrected after death, and they can't easily let people return to Yang, otherwise they will mess with my underworld." ”