The so-called husband and servant are equivalent to slave concubines, which is a norm in Dayuan.

Many women are like this, a man is placed at home, he can not spoil him, but this configuration is a must.

If they remember, they are pampered, and if they can't, they are placed in the backyard, and they are happy.

Dong Huiying was shocked, she and Shen Qiuyang got along well, both of them were uniquely measured, and they never talked too much about each other's previous lives, but it was difficult for them to put their hearts into their hearts.

This is the first time Dong Huiying has learned that Shen Qiuyang has many husbands in her family

Shen Qiuyang was a little embarrassed. This is a very normal thing, but when Dong Huiying looked at her like this, she suddenly felt inexplicably empty-hearted. "Of course, don't think about it, I'm probably not naturally interested in it, so I've never touched those servants so far. As for the reason why I am using myself as an example, I mainly want you to understand one thing. ”

She patted Dong Huiying's shoulder and said earnestly, "Although there are many husbands, they may not love every one, maybe one of them you like very much, and you also prefer him, but the other few can't get in the way of you, even if you put it at home as an ornament, you can't waste much food, so why put too much pressure on yourself"

"What's more, Dayuan men are born submissive, they are obedient to us women, it should be said that they are loyal to their wives, whether they love or not, as long as they marry, they will follow them for the rest of their lives, unless something happens during this period, causing their wives to go before them."

Dong Huiying frowned fiercely, "If you like it and like it, you will naturally be very good to him, but other people, who are not liked or favored, have wasted their lives because of a woman who is not in them, isn't this even more pitiful?"

"It's the state of the world, those men haven't been grieving for themselves, but you're starting to feel sorry for them, and it's the first time I've known someone like you. However, "But probably only such a person can match a man like Engong and the Liang family."

Dong Huiying still has a bitter gourd face, what should she say in order to make these people understand

Just as Shen Qiuyang thought that her thoughts were strange, she also thought that Shen Qiuyang and the three views of the other women of this Dayuan were very bizarre.

Two worlds, different cultures, different customs, this kind of ideological generation gap is really difficult to fill.

"Sister Qiu, there is one thing. You probably don't know that although the Liang family calls me the head of the wife, our marriage certificate has not been registered as a supervisor. The reason why I don't dare to accept it is because I don't have the confidence to be able to bear their whole lives, to be able to have a bowl of water, and to be able to be equally good for each of them. Besides, my heart is too small to accommodate too many people. ”

Shen Qiuyang's eyebrows were tied in a dead knot, "Your thinking is wrong, with all due respect, I can see that this brother has affection for you, if a person loves too humblely, even if he knows that the other party does not like him, as long as he can hear her and see her, it is enough." And you want to leave with Brother Liang, your behavior is too irresponsible. Even if the marriage certificate is invalid, what can I do?"

"You probably think that the divorce letter and the divorce will be gone, so that they can remarry in the future, and maybe they will meet a woman who is better for them. But how can you know that love is not easy, many people, in their lives, true love is so much. If you leave, it will be an eternal regret in the hearts of those who love you, a scar that will never heal, and your behavior is just an escape. ”