Nian Fu said: "I think this sentence is right, many people you see that those people looked better when they were young, and their eyes were very innocent, and when they were a little older, they didn't know whether life stabbed him or himself, so he slowly became evil in the big dye vat of life, and the corners of his mouth were crooked......"

Xiao Tianshu said with a smile: "Hehehe, what I said is really right, otherwise the Dream of Red Mansions will say that it is Jia Baoyu, and the most hated thing is a married woman, and life forces people to become not simple......"

Nian Fu said with a smile: "Therefore, if a person looks young or not, he can not only make a fuss about his appearance, but also can see it, as long as he looks at his eyes, he can see it......"

Xiao Tianshu said: "That's right, if a person is older and can still retain a pair of pure and clear eyes, he will be as young as a child, and he can also see what kind of state of mind this person is......"

Nian Fu smiled: "How else to say, the eyes are the windows of the soul!" ”

Xiao Tianshu said: "By the way, this sentence seems to be a famous saying......

Nian Fu smiled: "The eyes are the windows of the soul. This famous quote was said by the Italian Renaissance painter Leonardo da Vinci from the perspective of figure painting. And we see that more than 1,000 years before him, Mencius in China had already made this inspiration very clear from the perspective of knowing people. ”

Xiao Tianshu said, "Oh? ”

Nian Fu said: "Mencius said: "Those who exist in people are better than their eyes." The eyes cannot hide their evil. x is in the right, then the eyes are clear; If the x is not correct, the eyes will be squinting. Listen to his words, look at his eyes, how can he be? ”

Xiao Tianshu said: "Did I really say it? ”

Nian Fu smiled and said: "The explanation is that Mencius said: "There is nothing better than observing a person's eyes." Eyes cannot hide a person's ugliness. When the heart is open, the eyes are bright; If the heart is not above board, the eyes will be dim and uncertain, and they will dodge and dodge. Therefore, when listening to a person's speech, pay attention to his eyes, where can the truth of his good and evil be hidden? ”

Xiao Tianshu said: "Nichiren's "Myofani" also said: "Whether it is a giant or a Confucian, his ambition is expressed in a one-foot face; The ambition on the face of a ruler is all contained in the eyes of an inch. So, instead of looking at his words, it is better to look at his eyes. Modern cosmetology has made people's eye sockets, eye corners, eye tips, eyelids and even eyelashes its testing ground, but there is still one thing it can't do, and that is the eyes. You can't put on makeup or hide your eyes, no matter how clever you are, a super beauty master. Observe the eyes, and see the fire. Don't listen to him talk like a river of words, you have to look him in the eye. ”

Nian Fu smiled and said: "That's exactly ......"

Xiao Tianshu said: "By the way, Mencius said that the change of eyes, where is the source of this sentence? ”

Nian Fu said: "From "Mencius" "Lilou Chapter Sentences". Mencius is a compilation of Mencius's sayings, written by Mencius and his followers, and is a classic Confucian work that records Mencius's language, political views (benevolence, the distinction between kings and tyrants, the people's foundation, the non-righteousness of the king's heart, and the people's nobility and gentleness), and political actions. Mencius followed Confucius's example and led his disciples on a journey around the world. However, he was not accepted by the countries of the time, and retired to write books with his disciples. "Mencius" has seven passages: "King Hui of Liang"; "Gongsun Chou" up and down; "Teng Wengong" up and down; "Lilou" up and down; "Ten Thousand Chapters" up and down; "Confession" up and down; "Dedication" up and down. The starting point of his doctrine is the theory of sexual goodness, proposing "benevolent government" and "royal road", and advocating the rule of virtue. During the Southern Song Dynasty, Zhu Xi called Mencius, together with the Analects, the University and the Mean, the "Four Books", and Mencius was the largest and heaviest of the four books, with more than 35,000 characters. From then until the end of the Qing Dynasty, the first of the "Four Books" has always been a compulsory content of the imperial examination. ”

Xiao Tianshu said: "It's a pity that in the eyes of lovers, people are all Xi Shi!" But there is a fortune teller who looks at the master's analysis very clearly, and can see which woman or which man, in fact, is the fox spirit of the other party, who was addicted to that kind of love atmosphere at that time, and it is impossible to distinguish the truth! ”

Nian Fu smiled and said: "Hehe, most people are unwilling, break the wealth and eliminate the disaster!" Said that if it were me, I would love to meet a vixen.,How beautiful the fox is.,Even if it's like a female ghost who is good to the male protagonist like Liaozhai.,It doesn't matter.,As long as it's good.,What's so great about being different......"

Xiao Tianshu exclaimed: "I'll go, hehe, you guy is really bold, you can even say this kind of thing, you are careful to make a prophecy, accidentally you really provoke such an outlier!" ”

Nian Fu smiled: "Hehe, don't tell me about it, just talk about it, if it really happens, maybe I'm scared, pee my pants, now I think it may be confused by TV and it, I don't think it's a big deal, for example, how good is the white snake object Xu Shan......"

Xiao Tianshu smiled: "Hehe, I still advise you not to talk nonsense, sometimes you aliens, when you hear that she deliberately went to look for you, it will be miserable, if you want to break the fortune and eliminate the disaster at that time, find me to clean up the mess for you!" ”

Nian Fu said: "When we or our friends suffer financial losses, we often use "breaking wealth to avoid disasters" to comfort. Many people think that this is just a kind of psychological comfort, similar to Ah Q's self-deception, and the purpose is only to achieve psychological balance. So is it a kind of self-psychological comfort for people to break their wealth and avoid disasters, or is it that although they have lost money, they have also avoided a disaster? ”

Xiao Tianshu said: "Indeed, the "wealth" we broke is real, it is the money we have earned with our hard work, and it is natural to be angry if it is gone; What the "calamity" of avoidance is, but it is illusory, we do not know, and we cannot predict it. And being able to treat this nothingness as the result of ruining wealth is not acceptable to everyone. But at least using the psychological hint of "breaking the fortune and avoiding disasters" will make your mood peaceful. This kind of psychological comfort is like saying that "suffering is a blessing" to those who have suffered losses; Those who have been relieved of their official positions will say that "no official is light". Although psychological comfort does not solve the problem in many cases, it can provide some temporary satisfaction. With this satisfaction, it is also good for the body and mind to rebuild strength and prepare for development. ”

Nian Fu smiled: "However, it is not just as simple as psychological comfort, otherwise it would not have been passed down to this day." You must know that behind many folk sayings, there are countless summaries and foresights of life experience. Everything in the world is not poisonous to the population. The population that can destroy even gold naturally has invincible power. Therefore, when a certain saying (a word or a sentence) is popular in society, it often takes on the nature of a proverb."