Chapter 58: Be Kind to Yourself
This time it rained for three days, because it was too big to let it go for another day.
I want to go out and play but can't play, everyone is staying in the dormitory, Li Huinan sits on the window and looks at the video chats around her, very envious, there are people who play.
It's boring, there's nothing to do, there's really nothing to do except watch TV series online.
Lying on his stomach in the bed, lazily watching the TV series, he was calling his younger brother.
"Sister, where are you now?"
"I'm in Hebei."
"Didn't you go to Beijing?"
"When I first started going there, I found it not fun and came to Hebei, it's very good here, and the consumption is low."
"Sister, let me tell you something, I have a partner."
Li Huinan's mind was buzzing: "You have a partner, so fast." ”
"You're still single, aren't you?"
"Why, isn't it normal for me to be single, I gave up my youth for you to study, and you still ridicule your sister, I have no conscience."
The look on the other end of the phone was aggrieved. "Sister, I'll listen to my girlfriend's voice for you."
Li Huinan listened to the sweet voice on the phone, young and shy. "Hello sister, I'm Li He's girlfriend."
"My younger brother has been skinny since he was a child, but he is very good, if he bullies you, you tell me, I will beat him."
"Nope."
The two didn't talk for a few words, and the girl gave the phone to Li He again. "Sister, you have to take care of yourself outside, I'm going home with two people this year, you should also hurry, if you don't act quickly, I guess Dad will force you to go on a blind date, after all, you are twenty-seven, and our hometown is basically married around 24."
"You white-eyed wolf with no conscience."
"No, I'm anxious for you, I'm afraid that the people in the village will gossip, and I'm afraid that you will be lonely, I'm already working, sister, you have to be kind to yourself."
"Okay, you'll know. It's still early to go home this year, so we'll talk when I have time. Li Huinan hung up the phone, there was a hint of melancholy, she was wondering if Yang Fan was married, and she didn't see any news from him.
Rummaging through the mobile phone WeChat, WeChat has not chatted since it was added, and I have not seen the circle of friends, and all the people who have been chatting are QQ. Anyway, it's boring, just look at it.,I forgot what the screen name was when I opened it.,She didn't have a note at the time.。 There are more than 3,000 friends in total, and Li Huinan is annoyed when she looks through it, after all, WeChat is registered with another mobile phone number, and she doesn't have it. She actually wanted to know if Yang Fan was married, after all, it had been several months, but she was also afraid, in case it was, she didn't dare to look at it. There is no news, and she doesn't want to call and ask, so she wants to try whether the current mobile phone number has WeChat, and there is no search for it, Li Huinan was a little frustrated, and got QQ to try it again, and searched for it, but it was encrypted, and I couldn't see it, only the space background picture was hanging, and it was a wedding photo at a closer look, Yang Fan was wearing a suit, and the woman's long skirt was mopping the floor, in a very beautiful winery, beautiful headlights, colorful, and lavender put a big heart around them.
Is this already married, or engaged?
Li Huinan understood at this moment that she didn't hate all men, but she didn't meet someone she was willing to hold in her heart, she was a little sad, a little relieved, and a little confused. For all the abnormal behaviors of going home at that time, there seems to be an explanation at this time, whether I care or not, unconsciously, wonderfully complex contradictions. Looking at such a QQ that is equivalent to a gap, Li Huinan chose to give up adding, after all, it has passed, and others have also started a family, she just doesn't understand why Yang Fan didn't tell her about it, she knows each other anyway, and it's normal to give a gift.
After watching the TV and the update, it was not interesting, and the person fell asleep, about half past three, Li Huinan was woken up by a burst of crying, squinting his eyes and seeing that it was the team leader crying, quite sad, I don't know why I quarreled.
"Divorce, I want a divorce, I have to leave, I can't live a day." The team leader's attitude was very resolute, and he hung up after speaking, and people cried so much that it was distressing.
Li Huinan asked softly, "Sister, what's wrong?" Who bullied you? ”
"My husband cheated on me, and that woman came to my house."
"What! What kind of man is this! So blatant. ”
"Not only that, I forgave him once, but I didn't expect him to go to Xiao San again."
Li Huinan hurriedly got out of bed, she felt so sorry for this sister.
"You know what? I'm not afraid of your jokes when I say it, I want a divorce, my parents don't agree at all, if I divorce, I won't recognize my daughter, and others don't understand, my dad said that the husband and wife quarreled at the head of the bed and the end of the bed, and the husband and wife did not have an overnight feud, saying that I was divorced and angry. No one knew about my pain, he just went to my dad's and knelt down and did nothing, but my family blamed me for being stingy, saying that it is normal for men to steal fish, as long as the heart is in you, it is good. ”
Li Huinan was also very angry when he heard it, "Why! If I am a woman, I will suffer, and it is difficult to marry a daughter who is really spilled water! ”
"I don't care anymore, this marriage must be divorced, even if he kneels and begs me."
"Sister, if you are really unhappy, don't force yourself, divorced and not dead, life is still the same."
The woman sighed: "I still have children, and I have suffered from them. ”
"How old is the child?"
"More than five years old, very cute boy, in the first grade, his academic performance is average, very naughty, very naughty."
"This kind of child is generally more optimistic."
"Yes, I haven't seen how to pass by, all day long, hippie smiling face, or the gangster in the class, but I'm still worried that he won't accept it, my child I know, although the appearance is big, this child is careful."
"There's no way, the kid's father is like this, you can't settle, it's really going to be a failure in the end, the first time a man cheats, there will be a second and third time, not to mention that he has cheated twice, no matter what decision you make, I support you, because it's all after careful consideration."
The woman took Li Huinan's hand and patted it. "My marriage failed, I never thought about it, you know? I'm classmates with him.,You can say that it's a childhood sweetheart.,It's a school from elementary school to high school.,I thought we'd be in love until we grew old.,It's not after all.,Since he bought a car, it's started to change.,At that time, I just thought he liked to pretend to be cool.,Women can't be too stupid.,I just believe it too much.,Now I regret it.。 I still remember when I got married, he said to me that he would love me for the rest of my life and never turn my back. I teased him that if he disobeyed, the sky would thunder. Until now, there has been no work, so swearing thunder is a scam at all, without any sincerity. ”
"Don't be sad, you see your eyes are red, sleep well in the afternoon, don't worry, I'm distressed to see you crying."
"It's okay, I'm very adjustable."
"That's fine."
"I'll go downstairs, and my colleague will look for me."
"Go ahead, put on makeup, go out beautifully, I'll help you."
The woman nodded, and Li Huinan hurriedly took her cosmetics and finished them in five or six minutes. "Go ahead, come back early."
Sending off her roommate, Li Huinan continued to sleep a lot, as long as she couldn't sleep on her days off, she was always sleepy, and she was sleepy at work.