Even if the spring return can't sit down like Mrs. Shen and Mrs. Xue, but stand behind Mrs. Shen to serve thoughtfully, she is not wearing a vegetarian - she is married in the hot filial piety, although she has to mourn for her mother for a year, but according to the current customs, but there is no need to imitate the regulations of the maid, to the ordinary home is not to see guests, she can also wear filial piety clothes, but today after all, there is a banquet at home, and Mrs. Shen needs her to be thoughtful, so she only wears a water-colored shirt and a white skirt, and the skirt is not embroidered with flowers, only a circle of cloud pattern collars on the sleeves.

The plain dress is worn on her body, but it sets off her unparalleled complexion even more.

has been named, and the spring return is rarely polite and humble.

It is said that neither dare to take credit, nor dare to recognize elegance.

"Gu Niangzi is very famous, all over Fenyang City, now no one can ignore the Niangzi's strong and unyielding temperament, to talk about this historical world, there are indeed many empty and vain official gentry portals, on the surface look high wind and bright festival, in fact, it has long been a fly camp dog, compared to those market portals, there are more shameless ghost tricks, just like Gu Niangzi's experience, but it is not just because of the corruption of the clan style, but also thanks to Gu Niangzi has this temperament, unlike those weak ladies who blindly obey, now I can keep the clouds open and see the moon, always I have heard the name, It's only today that I've met you. Fei Shi also followed everyone to look at the spring return, but it was also a thorn in her words.

In the eyes of the so-called noble ladies like Fei's, everyone should be gentle and obedient, no matter how, they can't make their reputation so loud and become the talk of the market, not to mention that even the reputation of the family is ruined, and the reputation of the family is also ruined, and the belly of rotten cotton is spread out to the world.

She repeatedly stimulated Mrs. Shen today, but the other party was like being reborn, and she refused to be angry, so that she was like a punch hitting the soft pillow, not to mention the waste of strength, and she flashed back pain, and she had to put aside the previous Fei Shi did not have this obsession to embarrass Mrs. Shen, but as the contradiction between Hu Duan and Zhao Jiangcheng intensified again and again, the communication between the female dependents added a lot of interests, and Fei did not allow the female dependents of the Zhao family to win the recognition of the Fenyang Gaomen.

The movement and communication between female dependents, although it does not determine the honor and disgrace of the family, but of course it also has an impact, just like the female dependents are respected in the social circle, and the prestige of the entire family is naturally boosted, and the utilitarian field is not all about the struggle between men, especially the high-ranking female dependents, who can marry and teach their children is their basic talent, how can they really be forbidden in the inner house, and only work on the trivialities of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar every day?

For example, children's marriage and marriage, often in a number of families to weigh the choice, the external conditions at a glance are almost the same, but also need to consider the marriage partner itself talent, and most of the cases, in fact, know very little, can not rely on the fate of several sides of its behavior to judge the advantages and disadvantages, then you need to learn from Lang Jun's beautiful mother, to see how she behaves in the world, demeanor and conduct - more communicative, no matter how you can respond, it is inevitable that the true book will be revealed, men are dedicated to the economic career, most of them can not distinguish too much effort to educate their children, The main mother needs to take on the responsibility of teaching her children more, although it is not absolute, but generally speaking, the body of the main mother can reflect the upbringing of the children, otherwise why it is necessary to consider the concubine when marrying, and why even if it is a concubine, but if it is raised by the mother-in-law, the marriage will be much easier than the children raised by the mother-in-law.

Therefore, the various banquets participated by the female dependents are actually occasions to show their temperament and cultivation, and there can be no smiling and generous words and deeds, otherwise once they fall behind, they will not be recognized by the "circle", and even be despised and excluded, which will also be detrimental to the husband's progress to a certain extent, and damage the reputation of the family.

Yaji? When there is such a person as Fei Shi among the guests, it is too far from the real elegance and elegance.

Therefore, Chungui's humility is not a hypocrisy, she seriously feels that today's banquet has nothing to do with elegance in her private heart.

Of course, I can understand what kind of intentions Fei's words of "fortunate meeting" are hidden.

"The concubine is indeed because of the world, so that he can understand that this statement is true, and I feel fortunate that the concubine is in the family after this accident, the elders of all the clans have repented, and they have decided to restrain their children in the future to correct the family style, abide by the court training of the ancestors, do not forget the etiquette of honesty, the elders of the clan can face up to the disadvantages in the door, and the nephews of the future generations can take it as a warning." Of course, Chungui will not be ironic about Fei's family background, nor will she cover up the stain on her family, she just put forward the view that handsome and heroic talents are not determined by their origins, and blocked Fei's ridicule back, as for the so-called theory that as a woman can not be in the limelight, she must swallow her anger to be educated, she is not even too lazy to argue, and she will see her wisdom.

What is the use of the recognition of pedantic people?

Mrs. Xue didn't pay much attention to the spring return, but after hearing this, she looked at her a few more times, and then tasted the tea silently.

I don't want another guest today, who also participated in the "encirclement and interception" of Mrs. Shen on Mrs. Xue's elegant gathering, the wife of Fenzhou Tongzhi Ding, but diverted the topic before Fei's mouth spoke again: "Listen to Mrs. Shen's words, the vase of flowers on today's case was arranged by Gu Niangzi herself?" I see that this bottle is thin, the more pay attention to the selection of branches, such as this bottle on my case, it is thin on the top and bottom, and the bottle on Mrs. Xue's case, but it is Yanya deviation, it seems that Gu Niangzi is well versed in pitching and pitching, sparse and oblique, each with its own attitude, there is a way of natural interest, I have nothing to do in my daily life, and I often love to ponder the art of vase flowers, and I can be regarded as one more person who can communicate in the future. ”

Chungui secretly wondered: Isn't Ding Niangzi Fei's "ally", how can she round the field for me today?

She was suspicious, but responded gently: "My father liked things, and when he was a child, he taught the concubine the art of vase flowers to cultivate nature, but the concubine was stupid and stubborn, and did not learn the essence. ”

"Gu Niangzi's ancestor heard that she was admitted to the exam, and in addition to her studies, she was willing to teach her daughter to learn such skills, but she was better than the girls of our family, and she only kept the duty of female internal training." However, there are also Fei's "allies" who see that the situation is not good, and speak out in support.

Nowadays, although the following people love vases of flowers, calligraphy and painting, they are used daily for the case to live and learn from each other, but this has almost become a man's privilege, and the female family members are idle and timely pondering this kind of thing, which is somewhat regarded as not doing business. It is precisely because of this that most of the characters who know the skills of long things are men, and they have to worship men as teachers when they are beautiful to learn, which can violate the taboo of current etiquette, so this woman has a hint that the spring return exceeds her duty.

Fei Shi was very happy to see it, and took the opportunity to add fuel and vinegar: "So we are not talented enough, and naturally we don't have the reputation of Gu Niangzi." ”

——Only those small families are keen to spread the so-called reputation of the daughter of the boudoir "both talent and appearance", in order to climb the high door and become prominent, a woman is virtuous if she is not talented, and it is the right way for a woman to keep a clumsy and safe point.

But Fei obviously forgot that Mrs. Xue knew how to play the piano music very well, and the daughter who was raised by her personally was a talented woman who was famous in Fenzhou.

And on the surface, like Fei's and others, don't they often regard it as an honor to be invited to Mrs. Xue's elegant collection? Since he prides himself on being clumsy, why bother to ridicule Mrs. Shen for not understanding elegance?

Mrs. Xue had to suspect that some of the people present admired her on the surface, but secretly they were also slandering her for admiring vanity and being immoral and impolite?

Mrs. Xue, who originally didn't like to participate in the battle of words, didn't want to remain silent at this time: "Such as flowers, trees, fragrant tea, etc., are things outside the body, hungry and cold, they can't be eaten, they can't be clothed, they are just leisure and fun, it's just fun, it's good at it, where is it talented?" It is even less worthy of boasting. There is only a little self-cultivation and pleasant strength, just as Gu Niangzi Xianzun taught, and no wonder I look at Gu Niangzi's temperament, as if he is quite similar to the little girl Sanniang, should have a heart and not regard fame and fortune, if he was born in the Wei and Jin dynasties, don't look at the boudoir, maybe he can also escape the world, and he is called a Coats ghost. ”

Unabashedly praised his daughter, Chungui seemed to have become a bypass, and Mrs. Xue was so slow and slow that she had a very good temper in Chungui.

In her opinion, false humility is far less lovely than real humility.

Chungui doesn't admit that she is false humility, she really only knows the fur of vases of flowers, who let her father although he has the heart to cultivate her taste, but life forces her to only camp and serve? Coats Ghost? That's her yearning to look up to, and she doesn't dare to do it now.

Mrs. Shen was especially excited that Mrs. Xue actually supported, and at this moment she was secretly fortunate: This daughter-in-law is really worthy of marrying, in the end, she is worthy of being from an official gentry family, and she is naturally easy to be recognized by celebrity ladies. Hehe, it proves that she is a gentleman, and she is a big loss of education and humiliation of her family.

smiled more and more happily and naturally: "As Mrs. Xue said, my eldest daughter-in-law does know a lot of interest in daily life. ”