"But what can you do alone? I have to cook and clean up the house, and I have to take care of my dad. I see you and want to farm your own land when you go back, is this okay? "Li Zaifen is gone, she still doesn't know about her own mother, she must be ready to do this.

The old lady stopped talking, and not every old man in the village did this. After a lifetime of hard work in farming to support the children, when you are old, you have to find a way to help the children in the family take care of the next generation, which one can be idle and idle to support the elderly.

She doesn't feel bitter.

The old man spoke calmly, and the doctor's sudden words just now calmed the old man.

He didn't expect that he would fall so hard that he would lie on the bed and never move again.

But what can I do if I have any complaints in my heart? Can it be sent? This is his grandson, so it is difficult for him to blame his grandson for making him paralyzed on the bed.

This little grandson didn't mean it, although he said that his attitude was not good, but after all, it was their family's flesh and blood, and it was so small.

From some complaints and resentment just now, to now hearing my daughter's words and my daughter-in-law's words! He was also guilty in his heart, he only cared about his own discomfort, but he didn't want to think about his family, at this time he was actually more uncomfortable than him.

Besides, this result is not unclear in his heart, it has been a few days, and the doctor has said that there will definitely be sequelae from the day he woke up, but no one knows what the specific sequelae will look like.

Although he woke up in the past few days, he actually gradually felt something in his heart, because he didn't feel any sensation in his legs.

Although the hand can move, the head can also move.

But after the numbing passed, he could already wipe his face with a towel by himself, the problem was that he could sit up, but his legs still couldn't move.

How much he had a faint guess in his heart, but today the doctor gave him the final answer.

I guess it's not what I expected.

"Okay, don't talk about it, your mother and I should go back to our hometown. How you should live and how you live. ”

I'd rather drag down my daughter-in-law than drag my children.

"Dad, why do you think so, why are you a drag? You and my mom are our parents, we have worked hard to raise us since childhood, and now is the time for us to repay you. Taking care of you and my mother is what I willingly do, and I don't want to be dragged down.

I am your child, if you want to say this, it is not too foreign, how can any parents say this to their children, for fear of dragging down their children. ”

Lee Jae-fen doesn't do it.

Lee Jaeping sneered, he didn't dare to take care of everything like his eldest sister, if he said that, what if his parents really wanted to live with him?

Lee Jae-ok was so anxious that he burst into tears.

"Grandpa, parents, uncles, aunts, in fact, I understand what grandpa thinks, all of you listen to me, if what I say is wrong, then this idea can be overturned, but I always have to tell you my opinion.

On the one hand, grandpa doesn't want to drag down the children, and on the other hand, he lives in the children's home, after all, it is better to live in his own home, and he feels a little bit like looking at other people's faces.

Mom, don't be in a hurry to speak. Although you treat your grandfather very well, you have to remember that no matter how good it is, it is not your own home, and your grandfather will feel a little uncomfortable living there.

To put it bluntly, grandpa lives in his own home, he can do whatever he wants, he doesn't want to move, he lies down for a while when he is tired, and he can do whatever he wants.

If you don't want to eat, you can make it up, but if you live in our house, you will feel a little guilty, and you have to help us work and help us take care of our family.

At that time, did you think your grandfather would live comfortably? ”

Li Zaifen stopped talking, she suddenly remembered the days when her parents lived in her house, and she had to rush to work and help.

Indeed, the two old men were not at all as free as they were in their home.

I couldn't help but be silent.

"Since that's the case, it's okay for grandpa to go back to his hometown to live."

"But your grandfather is like this, how can your grandma take care of it alone? I don't worry about this, in case your grandmother's body collapses too. Doesn't that still have to be taken care of by us? Li Zaifen spoke, this is not a refutation, it is her own thought of the seriousness of the problem, her mother's health is not too good, and she takes care of her paralyzed father alone, so it is easy for her mother to be tired.

"If you want to take care of your grandfather, you don't necessarily have to take care of it yourself, I think about it, everyone is very busy, and there are a lot of things to do, and grandpa doesn't want to drag everyone down, and he is more comfortable and happy in his own home.

The most important thing is that Mom, you didn't think about it, grandpa and grandpa have lived in the village all their lives, and all the people they are familiar with are from the village, and now they suddenly followed us to the provincial capital, and the people around are strangers, and they don't even have relatives and friends who want to say something from their hearts.

Is that really good for them?

If you want to be really good to them and take care of Grandma's body, what you said is indeed right, Grandma's health is not good, and it is indeed very difficult to take care of Grandpa alone, if this is the case, then simply, Mom, Uncle, and Aunt will spread the money to hire a nanny for Grandpa.

Grandma herself knows best what kind of people in the village are and what their nature is, and it is not a good thing to hire someone she thinks can talk about and be honest to help her take care of her grandfather, others have also made money, and grandma also has someone to help her share.

On weekdays, I also have people I am familiar with, and I can accompany them to talk, but in fact, this is not better.

When everyone is free, they will go back to see their grandparents, so that they will not delay everyone's lives, and grandpa and grandpa themselves will be at ease. ”

Reassuring words made Li Zaifen begin to think deeply about whether he was too obsessed with his filial piety, but he didn't take into account his parents' wishes at all.

What's best for your parents?

Chen Meiyun was not happy when she heard this, she had just finished paying the medical expenses, and she was going to pay for the pension in the future, is this still over? What do they do with that little wage?

"My niece is really good at talking, of course there is no problem for your family to have money to hire a nanny, but we are just two ordinary teachers, and with this salary earned, it is even a problem to support our own family, how can we have so much money to hire a nanny for the elderly?

I really stand and talk, my back doesn't hurt, and I don't think about others. ”

"Auntie, your words are bad, it's just that you squeeze out a little salary from your salary, and you are a little nervous. Compared with honoring the elderly, what is it to be a little nervous? Isn't my uncle my grandfather's biological son?

Filial piety to the elderly, everyone is responsible, if you think you can't afford the nanny money, of course, the rich is the money, of course the money is the effort, if you feel that you have been wronged by the money, then let the uncle directly contribute, and there is no problem with taking care of your grandpa to your home. ”

Thinking about taking advantage of everywhere, peace of mind is not used to this kind of person.

is not filial to the old man, and he is still arrogant, why do you want to let her mother pay for it alone, this aunt is also used to being taken care of by her mother in all matters and small affairs in the family, but don't think about it in the future.