Chapter 720: Choosing the Gong Clan
Lan Ting took a closer look at Yuan Feng's situation, and found that he had an aunt who was Ding Beidou's cousin-in-law, this aunt was also a lover, and did not dislike Gong's background, and was also sympathetic to Ding's encounter with Li Ji, who insisted on separating from Li Ji, because she was already widowed, so she simply invited Ding to live with her in a separate garden placed by Ding's family, and Chungui's friendship with Ding's was also a matter of appearance, so it was not strange to invite Gong to occasionally gather with Ding.
After coming and going, Chun Hui became more familiar with the Gong family.
Among women, the common topics are nothing more than the shortcomings of the parents, and there are few people who agree with the Gong family in Chungui, and it is not strange to ask about Mrs. Bao's preferences and character.
"Xiao Gu also thinks that Mrs. Bao is charming, speaking of which I am far from Mrs. Bao's temperament, I meet those who slander me in person, without saying a word, I will be powerful, so that I will not swallow it, I used to think that those people who swallow their voices are cowardly temperament, and they deserve to be looked down upon, but ah, I don't know if Mrs. Bao's posture first met my eyes, I was willing to be close to Mrs. Bao when I first met.
Mrs. Bao never thinks of herself, she never argues with those who believe in her nobility, but she never dissuades me from restraining my temperament, and says that she doesn't think there's anything wrong with being powerful, but she's lazy by nature, so she doesn't like to have pointless disputes with those people. ”
Speaking of Mrs. Bao, Gong even softened his expression, and it seemed that he did have admiration for Mrs. Bao.
"It's no wonder that Mrs. Bao is willing to entrust the marriage of her children and grandchildren to the mother, and the mother and Mrs. Bao are really friends." Chungui mentioned.
Gong sighed: "Uncle Bao doesn't learn from Bao Gong, he is generally motivated, he abandoned his studies early, and the second master of the Bao family is a concubine, although his biological mother has passed away, but he has already entered the Yue family and is a squire, and the husband and wife have never respected their mother, Bao Shilang is the eldest son of the second room, so the mother of the second room has a heart to give Bao Shilang to marry a family daughter, originally to conceal Shilang's congenital deficiency and weakness, Bao Gong was furious when he found out, saying that this is a marriage is clearly a feud, in case Shiro has a good one, Wouldn't it hurt other people's girls? That's why Mrs. Bao is in charge of this matter.
Mrs. Bao is afraid that her future granddaughter-in-law will be too soft and will be reprimanded by her mother-in-law, in case Shiro ...... The widow is already pitiful, and if he is humiliated, he will not be even more tormented, and his mood is depressed, and because of this, he suffers from illness and loses his lifespan, which is to create evil
, so not only must the woman's family be willing, but the girl must also be strong and open-minded, which is the root cause of the difficulty. ”
"Mrs. Bao is also thoughtful." Spring returns to the head.
But in my heart I don't think so.
According to Mrs. Yi, Bao Wenhan's eldest son should be born to the original match, the second son was born to another concubine, Mrs. Bao has a son and a daughter, and she was originally a concubine, but since Mrs. Bao was corrected, and now it is naturally counted as a concubine, Bao Qian's age, when Bao Wenhan passed away, he was afraid that he would not know anything, and his biological mother passed away not long after, so Bao Qian should not know that Mrs. Bao was corrected, but Bao Shu, the boss of the Bao family, should know the facts, but I heard that Bao Shu was very filial to Mrs. Bao, and Bao Wenhan told him in front, For so many years, he has never revealed it to anyone, and he respects Mrs. Bao as a biological mother.
Chungui didn't want to rashly assess whether Mrs. Bao deliberately raised Bao Shu to be unlearned, but what she could conclude was that there must be a disagreement between Mrs. Bao and the second room, Mrs. Bao insisted on marrying a strong daughter-in-law for Bao Shilang, and the plot was nothing more than using her granddaughter-in-law to restrain her daughter-in-law, the cowardly person is not necessarily not open-minded, and it is possible that she is soft on the outside and strong on the inside, Mrs. Bao's sad future granddaughter-in-law ended up depressed because of her mother-in-law's difficulties and depression is not reasonable at all, she is the main mother of Bao Mansion, can't she protect the granddaughter-in-law who was personally selected? What she needs is nothing more than a short-tempered and simple-minded tool, the second room is not in harmony with her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she pretended to be appeased, and was confronted by the second daughter-in-law, after Bao Wenhan learned about this, wouldn't he hate the second room even more?
Bao Qian is a concubine, but he has a bright future, although the official position is small but heavy, but Bao Yuan, who is born to Mrs. Bao, is more likely to be in a high position, although Bao Wenhan loves Mrs. Bao, but he is in the temple, he must take the rise and fall of the family more seriously, and it is very likely that the network resources will be used on Bao Qian, unless the father and son turn against each other.
That's what Mrs. Bao is for.
But Chungui couldn't convince Gong to believe that Mrs. Bao had such intentions at this time, but he was worried that Gong was too enthusiastic, and inadvertently and indirectly harmed a good girl's life, so he thought about it and said: "I'm young, I'm afraid that this idea of my sudden birth is a little inappropriate, but I'm really worried that the mother of the world is enthusiastic but will end up complaining, so I'll talk about my opinion, if the mother thinks it's ridiculous, then I didn't say it." ”
"Xiao Gu, you say." Gong Shi said busily.
"I think about the parents who love their daughter seriously, but they are not happy to know that Bao Shiro is frail and sick, and there is a high possibility of dying
, I can't bear to let my daughter risk being widowed in her youth, so the parents who agreed are either greedy for glory and wealth, or it is really difficult to spend the day, but the parents of Gaotang agreed, but the girl may not be willing, and she does not dare to disobey her parents' orders, and she is afraid that she will complain in her heart, and she may not be able to be of the same heart as her husband.
And the Bao family is an official eunuch, although it was once weak, Bao Gong is also a child of a family, and now he is a high power, of course, the family follows the etiquette and teaching, but the girl of the common family, since she was a child, has not been subject to these many constraints, suddenly married into the official eunuch family, it is difficult to adapt for a while, and listen to the mother, the second wife of the Bao family is not easy to get along, some are excuses to blame the daughter-in-law, and then the temperament is strong, and they dare not collide with the elder, I am afraid that the girl, it will be difficult in the future. ”
"Xiao Gu, you have a lot of sense." Gong frowned, obviously feeling that this matchmaker was becoming more and more difficult.
"So my opinion is that instead of choosing a marriage for Bao Shilang outside, it is better to choose a woman in Bao Mansion who knows her roots and is indeed affectionate and righteous to Bao Shilang, so as to ensure that people are truly willing."
"But in Bao Mansion, where is such a woman?" Gong was confused.
"Bao Shilang always has a servant girl by his side." Chun Gui said: "Bao Shilang is suffering from weakness, he will definitely not enter the office in the future, since he is white, he is not afraid of criticism if he marries a servant girl, Mrs. Bao can release the servant girl first, and then carry out the wedding, so that Bao Shilang's children will not be out of the house in the future." The maid is accustomed to serving Bao Shilang, and has become the wife of the Ming media, and she will do her best to take care of her husband, wouldn't it be more beneficial to Bao Shilang's recovery?
What's more, the maid is familiar with the rules of the master's house, and it is easier to adapt than the people outside, and she knows how to protect herself from unwarranted punishment, which is also conducive to the stability of the second room of the Bao family, and does not reduce Mrs. Bao's troubles in the future? ”
Gong's eyes lit up with his words, and he grabbed Chungui's hand and slapped it twice: "Xiao Gu's method is good, I will suggest to Mrs. Bao another day." ”
Chungui smiled slightly.
Of course, she doesn't think that the maid's life is better than the rest, but Mrs. Bao will never agree to choose a maid as a wife for her grandson, not that she feels that she has wronged Bao Shilang, but the maid in the second room, where can she easily get over?
Although Mrs. Bao didn't agree with this idea, it was not easy to strengthen Gong's difficulty, and the purpose of the spring return was just to get Gong out of the matter.