Xiao Tianshu said with a smile: "A person must learn how to control his own destiny, even if the destiny is inviolable, he must find his own path openly." No matter what, you can't tie your hands and catch it, bow your head to God, if you follow the will of God, then you are an ordinary person, if you go against the sky, you will be presented, it's that simple, if people can really tell fortunes, even if they change their fate, then everyone will calculate it, why bother to work hard, or work hard to be a man......"

  Nian Fu said: "But you don't count your fate, you never know what you want to do, you see I don't know how many days I can live now, I always feel empty in my heart, it's good to comfort myself." ……”

  Xiao Tianshu said: "That fortune telling still has the rule that you can't collect money from the dead, and you don't have empty hexagrams, if people don't charge you money when you go to fortune telling, then aren't you scared to death and why bother with those things, it's better to live a good life, and exercise the rights of a person for a day, just like Yi Chu said, no matter what the previous life was, you have to be a good person in this life......"

  Nian Fu smiled and said: "Hehe, then you say, people are billionaires, just because no one has enlightened them, do you want to be a beggar for the rest of your life?" Is it a good fate that has been delayed for a lifetime, in the end, wouldn't you regret dying or do a good calculation, for example, you are not suitable for this profession, but also with another profession, you can clearly know what you are, if you are not clear about people's life plans are not clear when you can be on the right track? Some people just can't find an industry that suits them, and they don't have a chance to get ahead in their lives......"

  Xiao Tianshu smiled: "Ah, I think differently from you, I think that if a person says that he is really a 10,000 millionaire, then he will fight out sooner or later, and get ahead, if he is really a 10,000 millionaire, if you give him his life, he thinks that he is a rich man no matter what, then he doesn't work hard, he never works hard or earns money, he thinks that God gave me such a life anyway, then I will sit and wait for the pie to fall from the sky, maybe one day the hail will be gold, A sack of money for him is enough. Did you say that would hurt him again? So it's not a fate......"

  Nian Fu smiled and said: "Hehe, it's not that I'm too lazy, what does it have to do with fortune telling, it must be that the fortune teller doesn't understand what this person's life is, how can this happen if a person's words happen, this is not a loser, the way he wants to go......"

  Xiao Tianshu said with a smile: "Hehe, it actually makes sense for you to say this, Zhu Xi of the Ming Dynasty said: "The affairs of the world are worse than laziness and selfishness." It means that throughout the past and present, the main reason for a person's failure is laziness and selfishness. ”

  Nian Fu said with a smile: "Selfish people who specialize in doing things that harm others and benefit themselves, even if they gain for a while, they will not last long." And the lazy person, even if the opportunity for success is in front of him, is not willing to reach out and do it, so he is doomed to achieve nothing. As the saying goes: "The black hair does not know how to study early, and the white head regrets studying late." "Many people are playful when they are young, and they don't know how to work hard, and as a result, they don't learn and don't know how to do it. People begin to regret when they reach middle age, but at this time, they have been left away by others, and no matter how hard they work, they can't get a decent future, and they can't even get the opportunity to work hard. ”

  Xiao Tianshu said with a smile: "Everything is because of pride," if you are humble yourself, you will be attached to it; If you are arrogant and arrogant, you will get sick. This sentence reveals a simple philosophy of life. Even if a person has a lot of merit, he can still be modest and cautious, treat people very kindly, and there are many people who are willing to get close to him. If after this person succeeds, he begins to be arrogant and arrogant, and he feels that he is great, so he looks down on others, and everyone will isolate him and move farther away from him. If no one wants to deal with him, he will gradually become deserted, and this is the beginning of decay. ”

  Nian Fu smiled and said: "If it is not a person who loses, but a family is this kind of luck, and the family is defeated, then do you say it is a feng shui problem?" Is it a matter of fate, but it doesn't have anything to do with laziness, right? ”

  Xiao Tianshu said with a smile: "Family failure is due to luxury, for the harm that luxury brings to a family, Zeng Guofan has a vivid analogy, he said: "A prosperous family is like picking up soil with a needle, and a ruined family is like a wave of sand." "A family is originally very poor, and when accumulating family business, it may take the whole family to work together, or even the efforts of several generations, in order to accumulate wealth bit by bit."

  Nian Fu said with a smile: "Their family was originally good, it wasn't like this before, it's hard to sell it so casually, I think it has something to do with luck, and it has something to do with feng shui......

  Xiao Tianshu said with a smile: "But when you are a loser, as long as the family develops the vice of arrogance and luxury, and the children in the family are all indulgent and hardworking, they will make a lot of ridiculous ruins. The most important thing for a family is to teach its children and grandchildren the family style of diligence and thrift, so that they will not be rich and arrogant, and they will be able to obtain wealth through their hard-working hands at any time, so that the family will prosper. ”

  Nian Fu said with a smile: "For us ordinary people, if there is a situation of pursuing luxury, we must be vigilant in our hearts, and we must grasp the degree of enjoyment, so as not to bring the impact of decay to the family." A person who is too lazy is a lack of self-motivation, a person who is too arrogant is a lack of vigilance, and a person who is too extravagant is a lack of diligence are all signs that will bring decay to the family. If we can always be vigilant, not only can we live better and better, but our family will also be better and better. ”

  Xiao Tianshu said with a smile: "That's right, no matter what, we live in this world, we have to rely on our own ability to make good use of our own hands to create a beautiful and peaceful tomorrow, and work hard for ourselves and our families." Once what is there? If the gods pass by, they will also be impressed by your diligence. Instead of slowly losing......"

  Nian Fu said with a smile: "People have heard that the ancestors have always wanted to go out to do something good, but why is there no good retribution, why is it that when the voice passes, can't you see that our family is a good person who appreciates the virtue?" Your ancestors have been helping your neighbors to subdue demons and eliminate demons for generations, why did it end up like this now? I can give this retribution to our family, but they all say that retribution is not happy, why don't I see it, what did we do to get such retribution? Will this god make a mistake in keeping the accounts and take the bad deeds done by others to our family, and our family will bear them......"