"If you use care as an excuse, can you forgive any mistakes you make? As a husband, I have to tolerate her unconditionally, be considerate of her, and forgive her? What about my grievances? Who understands my grievances? ”

When Zhou Xianzhong said this, his emotions became excited.

The last thing he was happy to hear was that Lin Anping didn't mean to.

It doesn't matter whether it was intentional or not, whether it cared about him or not. The important thing is that Lin Anping has not yet realized his mistake, and he wants to fool this matter in a daze.

Xia didn't expect Zhou Xianzhong to be so resolute this time, she opened her mouth slightly, and she was a little speechless.

She thought for a moment, and then opened her mouth again and said, "I'm not saying that she's not wrong about this. She's wrong. I just don't want to see you guys continue to be cold like this. Life has to go on, and life has to go on. Could it be that you and Anping have been in such a cold war and have never been reconciled? ”

Zhou Xianzhong closed his mouth tightly and didn't speak, and even Xia Xia couldn't guess what he was thinking.

"Xianzhong, don't say anything else, just say Xiaolin, your son Xiaolin is more than two years old, and now is the time for him to look at his eyes. You don't know how observant children are nowadays. Your long-term emotional discord will also affect Xiaolin's physical and mental health. Don't you want him to grow up healthy in an environment where the family is harmonious and his parents love each other? ”

Zhou Xianzhong glanced at her, looking hesitant and depressed.

Summer didn't want to force him like this, but he couldn't let Zhou Xianzhong continue to fight like this.

"If you are still dissatisfied with Anping, you husband and wife should find a place, avoid Xiao Lin, say everything in your heart, and explain everything clearly. Apologize for what should be apologized, and reconcile with each other. Husband and wife can't just have a cold war for the rest of their lives, right? ”

Zhou Xianzhong lowered his eyes, and he couldn't see the look on his face clearly in the summer, so he only heard him muttering: "It's very good." When have you ever seen Anping admit his mistakes? It's better not to see, not to speak, everyone is clean......"

"That's the angry talk! If you have a reconciled heart, I'll talk about peace first. Wait for me to convince her, you can talk about it again! As long as you have the idea of reconciliation, you ask me to help you with anything, I will try to help you! ”

After Xia swore that she had finished speaking, Zhou Xianzhong raised her eyes and glanced at her, stood up, and looked a little arrogant: "You can do whatever you want." There's something else going on in my shop, so I'll go first. ”

When Summer saw him go out without looking back, he knew that he had agreed.

As long as he has the idea of reconciliation, there is room for reversal in this matter.

Moreover, this matter is indeed Lin Anping went too far, and it is not an unfair request for Lin Anping to apologize.

Summer also got up and went home.

After returning home, Konishi hadn't woken up from his nap.

In the summer, he called Lin Anping.

Lin Anping was watching her son Xiaolin fall asleep, she was a little drowsy on the side, when she heard the phone ringing in the living room.

She walked out of the room with some difficulty, sat down on the couch and picked up the phone.

"Hello?"

Summer heard the phone answer, and then spoke: "It's me, Summer." ”

"Well, what's wrong?" Lin Anping said as he crossed his legs and rubbed his eyes.

"I just went to find Hyunjong. I talked to him about you too. He's still angry......"

As soon as Lin Anping heard Xia say this, he immediately came to his senses, "What is there to be angry about?" Now the one who is being cold-warned is me! I haven't said anything, but he's crying miserably right now! ”

Xia listened to the state that the two of them were not convinced by anyone, and she was a little helpless: "Then do you want to reconcile with him?" I just told him that you have to be reconciled. If you don't have the idea of reconciliation, I'll persuade you two in vain today, and I shouldn't be this peacemaker! ”

Saying that he also wanted to hang up the phone in the summer, Lin Anping hurriedly said: "Oh, don't worry!" I just complained a little. Reconcile, I definitely want to reconcile! What did you talk to him about? What did he say? ”

Xia listened to Lin Anping no longer being willful, and then said: "What else can I say, I just listened to what happened in his mouth again." The two of you say the same thing, but you say it from your point of view, and he says it from his point of view, and both of you think that the other person is at fault and that you are not wrong. This is not an uncommon thing, it is originally everyone has their own reason. Who can beat anyone?

It's just that from my side, as a bystander, I think Anping is too much for you than Xianzhong. ”

"Why, you've started speaking for him too?"

Lin Anping was a little unhappy.

"What does it mean to speak for him? Anping, don't think too much about this matter from your own point of view. Think about it for a moment. If you are Hyun Jong and you buy him a gift, Hyun Jong finds a men's watch in the shopping bag, he doesn't tell you anything, he goes to investigate you, and then he also fights with the male clerk in the store that sells the gift. How do you feel about your heart? Do you have a feeling that Hyunjong doesn't trust you at all? Does this emotion make you feel aggrieved? Does it make you feel betrayed and ashamed? Do you think he's thinking too much to think of to do this? ”

Lin Anping on the other end of the phone stopped talking.

"Now, Hyunjong feels like that. Actually, to be honest, I quite understand Hyun-jong's thoughts. After all, men are all about face. Whether you're hiding it from him, investigating him, or fighting in front of him and everyone else in the mall, it's all disappointing, angry, and humiliating. He's the most face-saving, have you forgotten? This kind of thing is equivalent to you saying in front of everyone that he is not loyal to you, and then you make a big fuss and embarrass everyone. But you forget, he was the first to be embarrassed. Because he's your husband......"

"But even if that's the case, it won't ignore me for so long, right? He thinks I'm doing something wrong, so he just told me no? Do you have to be a cold war? ”

Lin Anping sniffled aggrievedly again, his eyes were red, his eyes were full of tears, and he was about to fall in the next moment.

"I heard you talked that night. The two of them didn't talk about going together at all, you didn't accept him, he didn't obey you, and the two of them quarreled so much that Xiaolin woke up. He told you that you don't recognize your mistakes. I just gave up communication and went to the guest room to sleep. After that, the two of you start a cold war. Haven't you found out yet? Hyun Jong: He's waiting for you to apologize to him. He feels like you've never realized your mistakes. So even more angry. He is angry with you for making your own decisions, angry at you for being self-righteous, angry at you for not trusting him, and not caring afterwards. Anping, think about it, is it the same way that our mother does things? Whether it's right or wrong, she feels right. There was never a time when I did something wrong. Even if you are wrong, do not admit that you are wrong. Just hold on and say you're right! I don't care about other people's feelings. It seems that everyone has to revolve around her, consider her emotions, and listen to her ...... in everything."

After Xia said such words, Lin Anping suddenly seemed to have been beaten by someone, and he was stunned for a moment.

Before, Zhou Xianzhong also talked about her, saying that she was like her mother, and she was directly annoyed.

What Lin Anping wanted to get rid of most before was her mother's control over her and her influence on her.

Because her mother was self-righteous and cared about her and was good to her, she controlled her, making her lose her freedom to fall in love and her first love.

She originally thought that she was out of her mother's control when she married Zhou Xianzhong, and she would not be influenced by her mother.

But when she said this this summer, she suddenly realized that what she did in this matter really had the shadow of her mother.

Maybe unconsciously, maybe subconsciously with the urge to do so.

In the name of caring, she hid from Zhou Xianzhong and asked him to take her to the counter to investigate, and because of impulsiveness and anger, she had a seizure on the spot.

She had never thought of such a thing before, let alone done it.

But this time, she did it by magic, which really surprised her when she thought about it.

Summer doesn't say, she really doesn't realize it......

"Summer...... So what should I do......"

Lin Anping's tears fell down, crying a little helplessly.