Chapter 121: No One Wants to Meddle in My Own Life!
"It's not a question of bride price or not! It's a matter of your attitude! It's not right for you to secretly go and register your marriage! ”
Lin Yucheng still has a pimple in his heart, and he can't accept it no matter how he thinks about it.
"Dad, it's my fault! I hid it from you and from Hyunjong. It's not that he's hiding it from you, it's that he doesn't even know. If you're angry with me, don't talk about Hyunjong. This has nothing to do with him! ”
Lin Anping, who had been crying, finally spoke, and she finally tasted the consequences of deception.
One lie wraps around another, and in the end everything is exposed.
Lin Yucheng glared at her, "If you don't say it, it's your fault for this matter!" You don't have to rush to get it to yourself! Your mother and I have always felt that you are the youngest daughter in this family, and you are also the treasure in the palm of our hands! So, for you, your mother and I have always been responsive to your needs, and you are good enough to go to college! There's a decent job too! So you don't even care about your parents! I don't even want the face of the family! ”
Lin Anping is most annoyed to hear this sentence!
The moment she heard this, she exploded, "Face, face, all you think about is your own face!" Have you thought about anything else? Say I'm your baby? I'm afraid it's your cash cow! Remember what my mom told me before? When it comes to my marriage, I can't make the decision. Said that I was born in a famous normal university, and I will also be a teacher in the future, and if I marry, I will marry a rich child, or I will have to be a promising person, a doctor, a lawyer, a policeman, a civil servant, or something. In addition to these, she also said when I was at home today, call the matchmaker Aunt Zhang over and ask her to introduce me to the object, and introduce me to a civil servant in the county, and then I will come back to the county as a teacher, and wait for the marriage, both of us and my husband will be in the county, and everyone in the village will envy our family! I have to think that we have a good aunt in our family! Ask her if she said these words! ”
Lin Yucheng looked at Gao Haoyue with an angry and helpless face, but Gao Haoyue didn't understand the meaning of her words, and took it for granted: "What's wrong!" What's wrong with that? I say this for your own good! Am I going to let you marry a good man, or will it hurt you? ”
"Whether it's for my own good, I don't know, but for your own good, I know it clearly! You asked me to marry a good family, just so that you can have a light on your face and let you have face, when did you consider my feelings?
When I brought my boyfriend from high school home, you still have to dislike people who have no future, and you must marry a good man who is rich and powerful! I don't know what it means to be a good person and what it is not to be a good person.
You don't look at other people's character, don't look at whether they are good to me, just look at what university they are admitted to, and see if they have money in their family, this is called good for me?
Have you asked me what kind of person I'm looking for? Have you ever asked where I want to live? Have you asked me when I want to get married? You're just looking for me a partner in the way you want it to be, and you're going to arrange my life!
However, you never thought that this is my life, not yours! I want to make my own decisions about my life! So, who I want to marry, I have the final say! No one wants to meddle in my own life! ”
Lin Anping spoke hoarsely, burst into tears, and said that Gao Haoyue and Lin Yucheng stayed in place.
Yes, since when did they feel that their children were also a part of themselves, so children had to live according to their ideas.
But they all forget that their children have already grown up, have independent souls, are independent individuals, and are not something they can control. They shouldn't be in control of their children.
If they knew this in advance and communicated with Anping more, would the current situation not occur?
When Lin Yucheng thought of this, he suddenly felt that he had neglected his daughter's thoughts too much.
He shouldn't have allowed his wife to talk nonsense to An Ping, let alone allowed his wife Gao Haoyue to treat his daughter and his daughter's boyfriend at the time like that.
He obviously knew how much impact that incident had on Lin Anping at that time, Lin Anping relied on them very much and trusted them before, but since that incident, Lin Anping has not often gone home, nor has he often talked to them.
He always thought that his daughter had grown up, but he didn't expect that it was because of that incident that his daughter no longer trusted them, and even felt that they only had control over her.
It was precisely because of that incident that Anping made such a decision today.
It was precisely because she was afraid that their parents would oppose their marriage again and control her life, so she would resist and register her marriage with Zhou Xianzhong without telling them.
No one can complain about such a result, they can only blame them for being parents, and they are too persecuting their daughters.
Lin Anping said that even today, his wife Gao Haoyue still wants to find a matchmaker to introduce her to her, whether she wants to or not......
Lin Yucheng loves Lin Anping the most, so when Lin Anping said such words, Lin Yucheng's really sad heart hurt.
His eyes were red, and he didn't say a word, just sighed.
Gao Haoyue didn't expect that it had been so many years, and Lin Anping still remembered it in his heart, and he never forgot the previous incident.
She really didn't look down on the poor boy at that time, he had no money, no power, and no future.
If Lin Anping really gets along with him, he doesn't know what hardships he will have to endure when he marries him in the future.
It was the pearl of their palms that they had worked so hard to raise, and she was reluctant to marry a poor boy like this.
She wants Lin Anping to marry a rich or promising one, at least Lin Anping will not suffer after marriage.
Although she also wants the Lin family to have a bright face, she wants Lin Anping to live a better life, she is a mother, can she still sell her daughter for her own family?
Gao Haoyue's grievances also broke out, her eyes were red directly, and tears fell out of her eyes in an instant, she pointed to Lin Anping's forehead, and said in a crying voice: "You have no conscience when you say this!" Didn't think about your feelings though! But what's the point of those feelings, do your feelings make you taste good, or do they make you spicy?
What I think for you is practical, but I am afraid that you will not have a good time after getting married, so I want you to marry a good man! Marry a rich man! What's wrong with marrying a rich guy?
If you marry a rich man, you will be a rich wife when you marry you, at least you won't have to suffer when the time comes, right?
Could it be that I'm thinking about this for myself? There is light on my face, and I can't use it to eat or drink, and it's not you who enjoys it! You have no conscience! You're saying this as if I'm going to sell you! I wronged me! ”
Gao Haoyue cried as she spoke.
While crying, he wiped the tears on his face with his hands.
When Lin Anping saw her crying, she couldn't hold back her tears, but she was still unconvinced, "You said it was for my good!" Did you ask me if I would like to? Have you ever asked me what kind of life I want to live? I'd rather live an ordinary life with someone I like! I don't want to eat fragrant and drink spicy food, and marry someone I don't like! You just don't understand! ”
Gao Haoyue listened to her words, the more she listened, the more angry she became, she raised her hand and wiped a handful of tears, "You are not married, what do you know!" All that you're thinking about right now is useless! Without money, you can only suffer and suffer when you get married! We raised you so big, did we let you marry someone else's family to suffer hardships and sin, and be a mother to someone else's family? Do you just think about yourself in the present, do you want to live in the future? What parent wants to see their children have a bad day? We just wanted you to have a better life in the future, and now it's our fault! ”
Lin Anping felt that it didn't make sense to her, so he just shut up and stopped talking. It's just that her chest is heaving so much, and there's no way not to be angry with her words.
Lin Anping squinted at Gao Haoyue, and his heart was even more aggrieved and angry. It's good that she doesn't say these words, but saying these words is simply her excuse for wanting to take control of her life and life!
Lin Yucheng said to Gao Haoyue helplessly: "Shut up!" It's even more ridiculous to say such things at this time! If you are ignorant, do you have to prove it to others? Afraid that others don't know that you are ignorant or what? ”