Chapter 259: Original Sin 68
"These grievances accumulate in our hearts day by day, and we can't help but want to rebel, for example, do something that our parents don't let us do to protest."
Yun Shuangshuang looked at the classmates who were nodding and smiled lightly, "Actually, you may not really want to do what your parents don't like to do in your heart, maybe you also hate such things, but in order to protest to your parents, or to let your busy parents pay attention to you, you still did it, and then provoked the scolding of your parents to make your hearts more rebellious, slowly, the rebellion that you once pretended to be turned into a real rebellion, and the things you once deliberately did that you hated became no longer annoying and even habitually indulged in it." ”
The students at the bottom then nodded wildly, that's it, it's just to the heart, to be honest, it's not that there are rebellious children, but most children don't like to rebel at the beginning, but this kind of rebellion that expresses dissatisfaction, and then rebels and rebels become true rebellion.
Yun Shuangshuang looked at these classmates who nodded wildly, and continued to laugh, "We are very tired from studying, and we are very aggrieved by our parents and other children, but our parents are also very tired, very tired from going to work, very tired from doing business by ourselves, tired from dealing with customers and saying good things, tired from eating and drinking with us just to negotiate a business, and parents will be aggrieved and sad when we are scolded by our bosses when our work is not ideal." ”
There are many students who bow their heads and fall into deep thought, and can't help but think of their parents when they get off work, they also complained that their bosses put on small shoes, and it was difficult for customers to get them, but what were they doing at that time?
It seems that they were busy playing games at that time, feeling that they were ignored by their parents and had small conflicts with their classmates, but they didn't think about their parents' hard work and grievances.
Seeing that some children have begun to reflect on themselves, Yun Shuangshuang continued: "Our parents have been wronged and are so busy that they are tired to death, but they can only endure the tiredness and grievances themselves, because our parents are already adults, and they want to support their families, parents, and our children, and the pressure of life makes our parents can only resist all the grievances, exhaustion and hardship, because they dare not and cannot give up and persevere!" ”
"A lot of times, it's not that our parents want to ignore us, it's that they don't have time to stare at us every day, we are tired, we can complain to our parents when we are wronged, we can play rebellious with our parents to get attention, but our parents cannot. So, try to understand the exhaustion and bitterness of our parents, and you will understand what our little grievances and tribulations are! ”
"We don't want to be compared to other people's children, so we study hard and become other people's children! There are not so many geniuses in this world, there are more geniuses who are willing to work hard, ask yourself, do you think those children of other people's families who have been praised by your parents are really better than yourself? Do you really think you're stupid as they are? ”
Is it really better than yourself? Is he really inferior to them? Many students fell into contemplation for Yun Shuangshuang's sentence, some of these students had an excellent learning experience, at that time, they were also children in other people's mouths, this time may be long, or short, but because of playfulness, because of inertia, because of the pressure of studying, their grades slowly deteriorated, and then their grades began to decline.
At this moment, think about the time when those top students read and the time they read, what would happen if they used so much time to read, the conclusion is obvious, no one thinks they are stupid, and sure enough, their poor grades are not because they are geniuses, but because they are too playful?
"Today, I can give you only one opinion, work hard, each of us is an ordinary person, do not forget to draw inferences from one another, that is the person in the allusion, we want to remember the knowledge must be repeatedly studied, deepen the impression can also be kept in mind, we can't draw inferences, but we can eat through every question, so that we can also obtain a lot of knowledge."
"Work hard, work hard, that's what I learned." Yun Shuangshuang made a final summary.
Yun Shuangshuang's words fell, and there was a loud applause below, all the teachers, parents, students, and even those reporters who came to interview were clapping their hands desperately, and a few students applauded Yun Shuangshuang loudly!
In fact, Yun Shuangshuang's conversation this time had already deviated from the topic, originally talking about his own learning experience, but as soon as the topic began, in the end, Yun Shuangshuang still couldn't help but give these students a wave of psychological counseling.
In fact, these are the practical problems that Yun Shuangshuang saw after going to school during this time, although Yun Shuangshuang is busy studying the courses given by Teacher Chu every day, but with the combined mind of Yun Shuangshuang's two lives, he will never be so busy that he can't be distracted.
Although the students in the school have always been a little reluctant to take the initiative to deal with Yun Shuangshuang because Yun Shuangshuang is a top student and an unfamiliar transfer student, it does not prevent Yun Shuangshuang from secretly observing these students.
For several months, Yun Shuangshuang got along with these classmates every day, listening to classmates chatting with each other when they were fine, complaining about parents, and complaining about some unsatisfactory things, this information was enough for Yun Shuangshuang to analyze these children's mentality and problems.
This time, after Yun Shuangshuang came down from the podium, the students who didn't dare to chat with Yun Shuangshuang lost their previous restraints, showed the enthusiasm unique to young people, and chatted with Yun Shuangshuang around Yun Shuangshuang.
It's really that what Yun Shuangshuang said before was too much in line with their hearts, and the words that he said later to empathize and think about the difficulties of his parents, it was really a deafening feeling.
In fact, it's not that no one else has told them these truths, it's just that the teachers and elders who say these things are relatively rough and direct, and they are completely in the left ear and out of the right ear, and these words can't enter the heart at all under the full of resistance.
Yun Shuangshuang is different, she is the same age as them, and when she speaks, she also stands in their position, first understanding their hardships, tiredness and grievances, and then letting them think about their parents' grievances and fatigue, which makes it easy for them to accept.
After chatting with these classmates for a while, Principal Hao brought a reporter to interview Yun Shuangshuang, a beautiful woman wearing a professional suit, her hair was coiled, and she looked very capable.