Chapter 226: Comparing Hearts to Hearts
"Sister-in-law, don't mess around. This is a matter between my parents and parents, what is the matter with you inserting such a lever? Could it be that my dad did such a thing, but my mother had to forgive him, that was the right thing, that's right, why? By which one? ”
Anxin is angry, her aunt is doing this, that is to force her mother to forgive her father, why? Mother was not at fault in this matter.
Even if there was a mistake, it was just a flood of sympathy at that time, for Wu Meiyu to help a poor woman with a child.
Could it be that there is such a great responsibility under compassion?
If Jian Dingguo didn't want to, could it be that who could force him to go to Wu Meiyu's bed?
In any case, it's the man's own fault, but in order to balance it out, he goes to other people's fault to share his own responsibility.
My sister-in-law's words made Anxin unhappy for the first time, her own mother had just been discharged from the hospital, and now these people are forcing her own mother to do what are they going to do? Don't you want to force your mother to death?
In her last life, her own mother died, and in this life, with the efforts of her and the Enron sisters, her mother walked out of the previous dead end, could it be that they finally worked hard, and finally watched their own mother go to a dead end?
Jian Dingying ran out of words all of a sudden, she wanted to protect her eldest brother, but if she really said this mistake, she should be forgiven like this, so that she couldn't say such words that violated her conscience.
I had to soften my attitude and said: "Don't worry, I'm not saying that your mother is wrong, but no matter how big a mistake you make, it's your father, your own father!" When you watch your father and mother divorce, are you very happy?
Look at your dad who has admitted his mistakes, and he has knelt down and admitted his mistakes, for your father, kneeling to the sky and kneeling to his parents, and now he has begun to kneel to his wife, can't he be forgiven like this? He had already cut the woman in two, and it was clean.
That's not okay, why do you have to get a divorce? Your mother, a woman, is so old with your four daughters, how do you live after the divorce? Have you ever thought that if you didn't do that, wouldn't it hurt your mother?
This man will always have some tricks, and if he makes this kind of mistake, as long as he and the woman break off cleanly, in fact, the two of them can still get by.
Your dad didn't have an outside heart and wanted to live with that woman, if that was the case, I would not persuade your mother, but your dad obviously didn't mean that. ”
"Auntie, this matter is not in anyone's hands, no one knows the pain of this matter, I just ask, if my uncle has an outside woman. Can you forgive him so easily? ”
Peace of mind and uncompromised, the only person who can think from her mother's point of view at this time is probably the only one, if it weren't for the fact that she saw how the family survived in her previous life, then she might have the same idea as her aunt and these people.
As long as the father corrects his mistake and breaks off with that woman cleanly, isn't it good for the mother and father to live like this? The family didn't need to change much.
But because she saw the future, because she knew how badly this woman would harm their family, and she knew that her father's mistake would make everyone suffer.
Then she will be very strong in supporting her mother.
No one can see this, so everyone will think that it is so easy to forgive, who can know how much damage and insult a woman will have in her heart after she wants to forgive?
Forgiveness is not just a simple word.
It is very difficult for a person to cross his own psychological factors, to cross that threshold, and truly forgive a person from the heart, especially if this man betrays his trust, and the doubt in his heart will be repeated with the superposition of later life.
That's not something you can do with a simple sentence of forgiveness.
"Your uncle, he dares, if he dares to find a woman outside, I will tear her up, take the child back to his parents' house and divorce him............ I'm not ......" Jian Dingying was furious, these words were almost not even thought, and after thinking about it, she threw them out, and when she finished speaking, she suddenly understood that she seemed to be wrong.
"Look at yourself, you can't bear it, and you want to divorce, so why do you want my mother to forgive me, is it because he is your own brother, so you think that what he does is right, and what he does is worthy of others' sympathy?
Compare your heart to your heart, and think for yourself. If you can't stand it yourself, why should you let my mother put up with it? ”
Anxin and clear words made Jian Dingying suddenly embarrassed, no wonder the eldest brother let several daughters go to college, I didn't expect that what this learned person said was really the head, and you were speechless.
"I'm not...... I just think that your father's heart is still towards your family, towards your mother, if it is not really good to your mother, your father can be so low-voiced, how can there be no problems with the life of the two of them, if something goes wrong, your mother will divorce whether she is alive or dead, what is the matter?
I'm not here for your sisters and your parents.
You haven't thought about how your mother will live with you alone? ”
Jian Dingying felt that what she said was justified.
That's what she thought on Lee Jae-fen's side.
"You don't need to plan, my mother has four daughters, and any one of them can support her anyway!" Anxin is categorical, it's not that he doesn't like his father, but in this matter, the only victim is his mother.
Father Li nodded, "Good girl, your mother didn't raise you for nothing, what you said is so right, it doesn't matter if you support your mother or not, you have your life to live and your life to live." Your mother still has us, and we parents can't ignore her.
As long as we have a bite to eat, you won't starve your mother. ”
It doesn't make sense, because this makes his daughter feel wronged here.
Li Zaiping is gone, although he hasn't been with his parents now, this is good, the family is suddenly over, and the eldest sister may even have to add a few mouths, so how can it be done? Which of my wages is just enough for my own family, and the rest of the money is subsidized by my eldest sister?
If the eldest sister divorces her eldest brother-in-law, not only will she have to repay the money she borrowed from the eldest brother-in-law, but the eldest brother-in-law will also help them on weekdays.
hurriedly said, "Dad, don't make trouble, people don't say that they would rather demolish ten temples than one marriage, although the eldest brother-in-law made a mistake, it is not that he cannot be forgiven." I don't agree with my eldest sister's divorce. It's a good life in the city, but you have to follow us to the countryside to suffer.
What's the picture? ”