He Zhiwen didn't intend to hide anything, he said directly, "Because he always thinks that my mother doesn't like him to have a girlfriend." He brought his girlfriend home, but my mom just cooked two dishes less, and his girlfriend said that my mom looked down on her and had to break up with him.

He never had a girlfriend again. He felt that no matter who he was with, my mom wouldn't like it.

Actually, my mom didn't have anything at all, it was his former girlfriend who was too sensitive and capable. Does my mother have to make a table full of delicacies to welcome her, so that my mother values her?

But it's also the same, what kind of person has what kind of girlfriend.

He Zhinian himself always felt that others didn't like him, and of course the girlfriend he made would have this idea after being influenced by him. ”

While listening to this, Fang Qianmi scolded He Zhiwen in his heart, how could this matter be said by his mouth, how could it all be He Zhinian's fault. It's obviously his mother's girlfriend who snubbed He Zhinian.

She whispered tentatively, "Actually, don't blame me for being too gossipy, that's right, from your description of He Zhinian, I always vaguely feel that the relationship between your mother and your brother doesn't seem to be very good." Is that the case? ”

He Zhiwen insisted that he was the one who was favored by his parents, and of course he would not hide the exclusive treatment he received at home.

"That's true," he said. But I can't blame my parents for being partial, some people are born unlikable, their parents are not close enough, and their parents are naturally not close to him. ”

Fang Qianmi was very puzzled, "What do you mean by saying that He Zhinian was born unlikable?" Could it be that something strange happened to your brother when he was born? ”

He Zhiwen actually didn't want to talk to Fang Qianmi about He Zhinian, in his heart, He Zhinian was an outsider, and he didn't even deserve the title of "brother".

But he couldn't help but like Fang Qianmi, seeing that Fang Qianmi was so interested in He Zhinian's affairs, how could he bear to hide it and not tell her those old things?

He said, "There are no strange things, but there are many bad things." I also heard from my dead grandmother that He Zhinian choked on amniotic fluid when he was born, had pneumonia, lived in an incubator, and spent almost all of my parents' savings.

Also, a hundred days ago, he was sick all the time, either bronchitis or colic, crying every day, and once had a febrile convulsive seizure, and almost went like this.

So, how can my parents like him when he gives birth to such a noisy and always sick child who has been burning money to see a doctor.

He didn't die that year, so he was lucky enough to pick up a life. But my parents naturally don't like him from the bottom of their hearts. ”

Is it for this reason that He Zhinian's mother doesn't like him? But if it's just because of these things, it won't be, right?

Fang Qianmi asked again, "But don't you think your parents' approach is a bit exaggerated?" He Zhinian was sick when he was a child, and it was not for him to be the master.

Fortunately, he grew up healthy and healthy, and now he has a successful career, kindness and filial piety, how can your parents keep snubbing him because of what happened when he was a child. That's not fair. ”

He Zhiwen really couldn't hear Fang Qianmi praising He Zhinian in front of him, he couldn't help but be annoyed, "What's so good about He Zhinian?" Back then, he caused my mother to lose two girls. Isn't it normal that my mom doesn't like him? ”

"Huh? What's going on? Does He Zhinian know it himself? ”

He Zhiwen said, "Of course he doesn't know, these things were whispered to me by my grandmother." But my grandmother wasn't close to him, so she never told him about the family.

After my grandmother died, he couldn't know about these things. ”

Fang Qianmi had a hunch, it was likely that this was the real reason why He Zhinian's parents didn't like him, so she asked anxiously, "So why did he even bother your mother to lose two girls?" ”

He Zhiwen didn't have a good air, "At that time, my mother was pregnant with a six-month-old baby, He Zhinian was naughty and mischievous, and poured oil on the kitchen floor, my mother didn't notice, so she fell in the kitchen, and then the child was gone."

Another time, it was He Zhinian who suddenly had a stomachache, and my mother took him to the doctor, only to know that he had intussusception. In this case, a tube is inserted through the rectum under X-ray irradiation, and the intussusceptible intestine is reduced by giving gas.

At that time, my mother didn't know that she was two months pregnant, and she followed her into the radiology room to accompany He Zhinian for treatment. Later, when she realized that she was pregnant, the doctor advised her to abort the baby, because the possibility of future malformations of the embryo after receiving X-ray radiation could not be ruled out.

That's why my mom lost the second girl. Think about it, if it weren't for He Zhi's age, my mother wouldn't have lost those two children, and I would have had two older sisters.

To put it seriously, He Zhinian is actually the murderer who killed my mother's daughter, so how could my mother like him. It's just that at that time, he was only two or three years old, and of course he didn't remember these things.

If he had known about these things, he would have begged my parents to forgive him with a dead face. ”

After Fang Qianmi listened, he was thoughtful.

The whole thing sounded very sad indeed, after all, both daughters were unfortunately lost. When people encounter unfortunate and sad things, they often subconsciously put the blame on others.

Therefore, He Zhinian's mother will put the responsibility for these two things on He Zhinian, which is actually normal.

On the other hand, He Zhinian, as an outsider who has been neglected and rejected by his family, of course he doesn't know these things, so he can't reconcile with his parents.

But because of these two things, he has always hated He Zhinian until now, and even hurt him to this extent, his mother is indeed too cold-blooded and ruthless.

No matter how much she hates, it is also her own son who was conceived and born in October, not just the enemy who caused her to lose her two children.

What's more, the miscarriage can't be blamed entirely on He Zhinian. He was young, and he didn't mean to be like that.

It's understandable to blame him for being naughty the first time, but the second time He Zhinian has intussusception, he really shouldn't be blamed.

In Fang Qianmi's opinion, He Zhinian's mother can blame him, but she should also let go of this resentment appropriately, after all, you can't always torture the child who is still alive with the regret of the dead child.

She fell into deep thought, she actually understood the truth, but how should she make He Zhinian's mother understand this truth too?

Just when Fang Qianmi was silent in thought, He Zhiwen also took the opportunity to keep chattering and praising himself, "I'm different." I've been very well-behaved since I was born, I don't make trouble or get sick, and my parents raise me, so I don't have to worry about it at all.

So most of the time, when my mother chats with others, she only mentions me, and never mentions He Zhinian. If you are not familiar with our family, you will think that my parents only gave birth to me. ”