Chapter 14 What is the purpose of marrying?

Regarding this understanding issue, Xiao Nuan felt that it was necessary to have a good talk with her mother.

"What does my mother say a woman marries for?"

Qin replied as a matter of course, "In order to have something to rely on and live a good life!" ”

"Do you have a leaning on that?"

“......”

"Have you lived a comfortable life since you got married?"

“......”

"Why marry if I can afford to support myself? Married in the past, I have to serve men, serve my in-laws and even the chickens, ducks and pigs at home, endure hardships in the front and eat in the back, I have a good life, but why can't I find a happy marriage? ”

“......”

Qin suddenly felt that what to do if her daughter said it was very reasonable, but her daughter gave up on herself like this, and she felt that it was wrong to be an old girl for a lifetime, and she was sweating in a hurry.

Chen Xiaonuan's face was serious, "So let's go straight, what should we do, where should we go!" Others can say whatever they want, let's live our own lives for ourselves, whatever they do, do you say right? ”

Qin finally thought a little more clearly, "No, Xiao Nuan, your father is a negative man, but your mother also married him to have the two of you, if you don't get married, where will the child come from?" Can a woman be a woman if she doesn't have children? ”

Sure enough, the idea of inheritance is too deep-rooted, and Chen Xiaonuan does not intend to completely deny the idea of motherhood, "Mother is right, it is indeed good to have children." So if you can really meet a lover who is worthy of entrusting you for life, you still have to marry. ”

Qin's face turned cloudy and clear, but he listened to his daughter's words again, "However, if a man will waver in his idea of marrying your daughter because he listens to a few rumors from others, do you think such a man can marry, and can he be reliable in the future?" ”

Qin immediately shook his head, "Can't!" ”

Chen Xiaonuan bent her eyes and smiled, "Mother, a woman can live well without a man." You wait for your daughter to earn you a lot of money, recruit a good husband to come to the door, and let your children and grandchildren enjoy the blessings. From today on, my mother can do whatever she wants, go wherever she wants, and don't care what others look like, whether it should be or not. By the way, does my mother have any places she wants to go? ”

Qin's family was completely abducted by Chen Xiaonuan, and his eyes lit up and said, "I heard that the lotus flowers in Qingyu Lake bloom very well in June, and you can walk under the lotus leaves in a boat on the lake, pick lotus flowers to eat, and sleep on the boat flutteringly, I don't know if it's really ......."

Chen Xiaonuan clapped his little hand and made a decision, "Okay!" The day after tomorrow, let's go to herring lake to play! ”

"Wang!" The rhubarb with the ears is gone. The family is out, what is the matter with leaving it a dog? 、

Chen Xiaonuan smiled, "Rhubarb can also follow!" ”

"Wang, Wang!" Rhubarb closed his eyes in satisfaction and continued to take a bath.

Chen Xiaocao ran into the kitchen and asked her mother about Qingyu Lake, Qin kept telling her about the bits and pieces she had heard, and Xiaocao's eyes lit up, "Xiaocao really wants to go, Xiaocao has gone to the capital, and she hasn't been out of the village yet......"

Chen Xiaonuan also listened with a smile, she liked to swim in her previous life, and the feeling of water gliding over her body in the summer was really ...... Thinking about it, Chen Xiaonuan couldn't wait.

But according to the customs here, girls can't swim in the water, right?

Why don't you change into men's clothes? Xiao Nuan pinched her little chin and began to ponder.

Eggplant was just bought yesterday, three dollars a penny, there is no pesticide fertilizer and all kinds of messy plant ripening agents here, just add garlic and salt after steaming, and then two drops of sesame oil, it is so delicious that people swallow their tongues.

Chen Xiaonuan was very face-saving and danced the bowl cleaner than the rhubarb from drinking meat porridge......

Rhubarb drank a large pot of porridge with a little stuffing and meat residues, and lay down in the summer hole it dug by the well under the plane tree to sleep.

After waking up, Qin Shi felt more comfortable than ever. She listened and thought it was too quiet in the yard to have a few chickens, oh yes, pigs......

Thinking about it, Qin Shi laughed, and cried again after laughing, this day is really good!

After Xiao Nuan and Xiaocao woke up, the three of them went out to the carpenter Han San's fat house in the south of the village, the smell of newly sawn wood, the neatly stacked wood on the side, and the new tables, chairs, benches, and wooden basins in the middle of the courtyard were full of local lili suosuo. At a glance, he knew that this carpenter was a brain, and Chen Xiaonuan couldn't help but nodded.

Han Sanpang walked out of the house quickly, hesitating what to call the Qin family, sister-in-law, who was separated from Chen Zhuangyuan? Big sister, or big sister? ......

The Qin family was a little embarrassed when he saw him, so Chen Xiaonuan spoke directly, "Does the third fat uncle make a big wooden plate for bathing, how much is it, and how many days can it be done?" ”

"Hit, hit! If there is something good at home, I'll get it. Carpenter Han ran into the West Wing and came out with a finished bath tray, "Do you think this is successful?" ”

This tub looks like a large tea tray three times the diameter of the pot, but this is really what people here use to bathe, even in the capital post house.

How to wash? Take a small stool and sit in the bathtub and wash it with a scoop of water! The post house is a little more advanced than the home is that the small stool for bathing is different - there is a hole in the surface of the stool, and it is more comfortable to sit on this small stool like a toilet seat than to sit on a small stool with a solid board.

Xiao Nuan didn't want this, she gestured and said, "Uncle Han, I want a higher bath plate, several times higher than this, so high, and a small stool with holes in the face used in the inn." Can it be done and how much does it cost? ”

Carpenter Han looked at Qin's and kindly suggested, "You can do it, but that old Gao is useless except for wastewater, and children are easy to drown." ”

Qin didn't know what his daughter was thinking, but he still supported his daughter, "It's like what Xiao Nuan said." ”

After ordering the bathtub, the Qin family picked out a few small things that were necessary for the family, and bought a small wooden person for Xiaocao to play with, and then went to the woods in the south to collect firewood together. Han Carpenter looked at the figure of the mother and daughter and shook his head, and said in his heart that the capital would have a good day, but he came back to pick up firewood in the mountain nest, isn't there something wrong with his brain!

watched the three of them leave, followed behind and watched the lively villagers hula and broke into the three fat houses, and asked them what they were talking about just now. Carpenter Han rolled his eyes and said mysteriously, "They ordered a bath tray for bathing, so old!" ”

Grandma Qin San's mouth opened wide, "Huh? What a waste of waste water! ”

Carpenter Han put on an expression of "You don't know, I only talked about it because I have a good relationship with you", bent down and whispered, "Their mothers have been to the capital, and they will order such a high bath tray when they come back, what do you say it is for?" ”