522 Way Out 6
Although there is no precedent for a son to do such a thing.
But, as far as he is concerned, he has not done even more crazy things.
Lao Tzu can do this, and his son is understandable.
In short, it is understandable, after all, loving someone is not a very rational act in the first place.
He, a person from the past, understands.
People always have to work so hard once or twice to be considered a person in the true sense.
"Daddy, wait for you, bring her here."
An Chenglin nodded, and finally shook his head again, Father An couldn't figure out what this meant.
"What's the matter, did you make your daughter-in-law angry?"
He knows very well that his son, in general, doesn't like people, and when he likes people, he is very serious nine times out of ten.
"Didn't you put too much pressure on others?"
An Chenglin's temperament seems to be sometimes unkind, but for people he doesn't know well, he just maintains a good demeanor.
But when it comes to talking about what it looks like to someone you like, it's actually hard to say.
There is no case in advance, and everything is not even possible to refer to.
"Dad, it's not what you think."
An Chenglin was a little amused when he saw the obvious worry on his father's face.
It seems that parents have a common problem, that is, they are always worried about their children's marriage, which seems to be nothing wrong.
But always standing on the commanding heights, worrying, it will be very problematic for children to not handle emotional things.
Emotional matters, even if you are experienced, may not be able to fully understand the doorways and tricks in it.
This is not only a matter of the right time, place and people, but also many, many more, both openly and secretly. There is also the problem of the relationship between men and women, and the problem of personal experience.
There are quite a few questions, and being well versed in this aspect only increases the probability.
However, the question is, how can I use a general theory about the atypical woman I met.
"I said, I can't bring her here.
So, are you ready to go to our wedding? ”
Father An looked at him, and for a moment felt as if he had heard it wrong, it seemed that he had not yet heard the eight characters, how could he progress so fast?
If that's the case, then, how can he not be angry?!
That's right, how can you not be angry?
He is also a temperamental father, especially after Ann's mother left, his sense of responsibility for the family has risen to a whole new level.
After all, who else but him can pick up this kind of girder, this feeling of being alone, directly makes Father An feel very driven.
It's a subconscious feeling that I can't do without it.
This feeling brings with it a sense of responsibility that cannot be parted with and cannot be let go.
"You kid, you've really grown up, you didn't tell your father about this earlier, I just know now, you have already set up a wedding?"
"Has the engagement bebegun? Oh, it's over, right? ”
"Who are you inviting here, who could be more important than me? Without me, your engagement ceremony can go on? ”
The more Father An spoke, the more angry he became, and he slapped his thigh angrily.
"Sure enough, it's my good son, it's really capable!"
An elite is an elite, and when you are angry, even if you want to say something ugly, you can make good cultivation stabilize the situation.
Language hurts, sometimes, more than anything else.
Father Ann knows this.
An Chenglin looked at his father, his face became more and more ugly, and he almost became the bottom of the pot, at this time, just because he was stunned, he didn't react for a while.
After reacting, I felt very surprised, so I went with him to see what would happen to him.
Now it seems that although the words were not said very absolutely, the tone was very unpleasant, very unhappy.
It's rare to see him like this.
Satisfying his curiosity, he decided to let his father's anger brake in time.
"Dad, we're not engaged yet, but it doesn't matter, if you get married directly, it's better, save these formalisms."
Father An listened to this "gentle words", and his anger disappeared a little.
An Chenglin expressed his attitude, and it was very timely. If it had been a few minutes later, things would not have been so simple.
His son didn't hide this from himself, and he was quite satisfied. But this speed is still not very satisfying.
"Your third aunt's son will be married at twenty-four."
An Chenglin laughed and said: "Then I'm not your son, what does it have to do with my third aunt." ”
Pretending to be stupid, An Chenglin is not out of business.
Better patience than anyone, more grinding.
"Well, I mean, you should be engaged sooner, too."
"I know. So isn't it good to get married directly? ”
"Does she know?" 、
"I'll talk to her in an hour."
"That's not knowing. Are you sure she'll say yes?
The concept of marriage now is different from the past, girls, there are not many who are willing to get married early.
In fact, from a certain point of view, in modern society, if you don't marry a person with a very high status, you may be making a loss-making transaction.
I don't like emotional things, which involve money, but in this context, how can I not talk about money about emotional things. ”
"I know. I respect her choice, and again, I just, have a lot of confidence in myself.
Love is inclusive.
Two people, communication, can solve a lot of things, many, many things. ”
Many people think that if two people love each other, even if they don't say it, the other party can, and some people even feel that they should be able to sense their feelings.
In fact, this notion is wrong.
Many people's own parents and fathers can't understand you, let alone this, there is no one who has been with you for more than 20 years.
How can it be so easy, she is not a roundworm in your stomach.
What's more, many people don't even know about themselves.
Not to mention that you can't ask too much of another person.
"Communication is very important, you say, Dad?"
Father Ann seemed to smile, and a slight smile appeared on his slightly pale face.
Very relieved smile, he knew what An Chenglin was talking about.
Back then, it was through sincerity and communication in many ways that many difficulties were overcome.
After twists and turns, he finally returned with a beauty.
This can be said to be a vigorous revolution, a real revolution.
When I look back, I also feel that it is very difficult.
Of course, nothing is anything compared to the good things that followed.
“…… You're right. ”
A lot of things have to be communicated.
"If there is any friction in the future, you must say it well, don't be impulsive, sometimes, words are really hurtful."