Chapter 225: Proposal
The second grandfather smiled and nodded, "It turns out that there is such a thing, your family is still planning to marry the Zhang family." ”
"It's nothing, his mother has this idea, you also know that the Zhang family has been getting worse and worse over the years, how can I agree, his father doesn't mean it."
Old man Cui was blunt, but he didn't say another hidden word, the three of them didn't look down on Zhang Siyu of the Zhang family at all, and they acted simply.
"Well, what do you think? Tell me your opinions, too. ”
This is the moment of the final decision, and it has been said almost before, and it can be regarded as a verbal consensus.
"Let me say it first, it's rude, I can't help but say something about my daughter, Mrs. Cui intends to tell you about the Zhang family, and she has been matching you all these years.
Will my daughter be wronged when she enters your house, between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there must be daughters-in-law who are wronged a lot, and the elders can overwhelm people if they occupy the seniority.
I know that Mrs. Cui is a kind and open-minded person, and she will definitely be able to protect my family, but it is undeniable that the age gap will make their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along for decades. Cui Hao, how can you balance the relationship. ”
It was the Yang family who spoke first, and he couldn't care about anything for his daughter.
The second grandfather didn't speak, at this time the Yang family spoke the most appropriately, some things the old man was embarrassed to ask, but he didn't necessarily mind in his heart, otherwise he wouldn't have thrown bricks and jade just now.
Cui Hao lowered his head and thought about it, "What my aunt said is indeed reasonable, but I don't think I need to worry too much, because my mother's personality is actually very easy to get along with, and this is not something I shirk, it is a fact that my mother's ears are soft, but kindness is also an advantage, otherwise my grandmother will not be able to tolerate her in the first place."
As for the problem you said, it is undeniable, but my mother is not good at housekeeping, she likes piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and with this she will not care about anything else;
Secondly, there is my father, how important the clan wife is, my father will not let my mother come to me on key issues.
In the end, my mother is not a scheming person, in fact, it is very coaxing, her obsession is to carry the Zhang family, and it is me, I will do the Zhang family's affairs, and if it doesn't work, just hand it over to my father. ”
Although I don't say much, I actually think about it, and I have thought about it seriously, Mrs. Cui is really not good at scheming, and her mind is very simple, it is all on her face, and it is not difficult to guess.
She doesn't know how to take care of the house, this is a hard injury, Zilan married the Cui family, what the Cui family definitely needs is a capable sect wife, compared to this, Mrs. Cui's opinion needs to be selected.
If she is unreasonable, everyone will not help her, and Mrs. Cui can't do selfish bad things, and the remaining difficult things to do are very limited.
In the end, there is also the father and son watching, blocking the big face, there will be no big deal.
Yang pursed his lips and was not very satisfied, but he did have an answer.
"You can rest assured about this, if you are not afraid of your jokes, Brother Hao and his mother are not close, because he grew up beside me since I was a child."
It means that as long as it is not excessive, Brother Hao will definitely stand on Zilan's side, because he is not very close to his mother, and he was not raised in front of him, and the idea is right, Mrs. Cui can't hold this son.
"Okay, don't blame me, I just feel sorry for the child, and I must bring up the last one. Can Cui Hao promise not to marry a concubine, and have no children willing to succeed. If the husband and wife are separated as a last resort in the future, can you give my daughter a letter of reconciliation and divorce and let her go free. ”
Speaking of this, the Yang family paused, lowered his head and pondered for a moment, then raised his head and said, "In fact, in the past two years, many people have asked to marry my daughter, and the Lin family has also visited several times.
But why didn't she agree, not for anything else, my daughter was influenced by our Song family and couldn't tolerate the matter of taking concubines, and she was also very envious of her aunt who combed her hair.
This child has a cold and casual temperament, but he is sincere to his relatives and friends, if you can't agree, I can't marry my daughter to you.
As a mother, what I can do is to leave a way back for my daughter, and it is enough for her to live happily and comfortably. ”
As a mother, Yang doesn't mention anything else, only fights for her daughter's rights and interests, she doesn't have to think about men's affairs, her daughter has done a lot for them, and it is time for her to fight for her daughter.
Cui Hao stood up, glanced at his grandfather first, saw him smile and nodded, and then spoke, "I understand what my aunt means, I can agree to your request, I am only my wife next to me in this life, even if I can't say Lan'er, my promise is still the same, and it will never change at all." ”
"Yes, I can agree to your request, this is originally my Cui family's family rules, my Cui family can't tolerate any concubines in the second room, please believe that I am sincerely asking for my grandson to marry Lan'er, I like this child very much and want her to be my granddaughter-in-law."
He and his father are not close, and the feelings are light, I privately hope that he can find a confidant to accompany him for a lifetime, so as not to be too lonely, so that I can rest assured that I can enter the soil after a hundred years. ”
Old man Cui sighed faintly, he did not regret the decision back then, the hope of the Cui family continued in his grandson, but he still felt very sorry for his grandson.
Yang glanced at her husband and nodded slightly, she was done with what she was going to say.
"Cui Hao, I don't have any other requirements, I just hope you can be good to my daughter, that's enough."
Song Zhengtian didn't say anything about the benefits of the marriage between the two families, and so on, without saying a word.
He chose the Cui family because the Cui family is upright and the children have excellent conduct, which is the biggest guarantee for his daughter, and it has nothing to do with anything else, which is not the same thing as Zilan's consideration.
"I will, please trust me, and you can supervise me."
Cui Hao was overjoyed, breathed a long sigh of relief, his palms were sweating nervously, and he bent over to thank him excitedly.
"If you husband and wife have no objection, then settle the matter, brother."
When the second grandfather saw that they agreed, he also smiled and turned his face to look at Old Man Cui.
"Yes, in order to avoid a lot of dreams at night, I directly asked the matchmaker to propose marriage, and the marriage ceremony was done, and the marriage can be done later, and when Zhengtian comes back, it should be promoted.
Old Man Cui smiled and nodded with a pleasant smile, his face full of joy and relaxation.
"Okay, listen to the old brother, you invite the matchmaker to propose marriage, the Lin family has indeed come several times to say goodbye, I am worried that it will be bad if the Queen Mother makes an order. Settle down early, and my heart doesn't have to hang all day. ”
The second grandfather also meant this, the Lin family had been here a few times, and he wanted to marry Zilan, but he politely shirked it, seeing that the child was getting older and couldn't delay it any longer.
"Okay, I'll arrange it as soon as I get back."
Old man Cui also sighed in his heart when he heard it, if he can't do it, he has to settle down quickly, I finally chose a granddaughter-in-law who looks pleasing to the eye, and I can't let others pry it away.
Zilan's marriage was decided, and then the official media came to mention the Cui family's marriage, exchanged Geng posts to hold a marriage banquet, and officially passed the marriage ceremony, and the matter was decided.