"There is no way to change the original family, and the final outcome is just up to them." Shenyin lowered his eyebrows, and he was not very sympathetic to the ending of some people, and he would not sympathize.

If you want to change everything, there are thousands of ways, but in the end you live a sluggish life, it can only mean that you are not working hard enough.

The Xiao Su that the driver said just now is not alive and well.

The reading question asked by Shenyin on Weibo today also extends to the idea of patriarchy in society.

Under her Weibo, there are more than a million comments.

@为你我瘦了二十斤:

My grandparents too. Because I was a girl, I didn't want to see me since I was a child, and if there was anything delicious, I would only secretly hide it for my brother to eat. It's useless to say that it's useless to give birth to a girl's fart

@萌晓:

I was just five months pregnant, my husband's grandmother asked me to see men and women, I deliberately said that from the symptoms I felt that it was a girl, and I did not plan to have a second child, she sighed and said that the family property would have to be given to others in the future, and the problem was that her so-called family property was a few broken houses in the countryside.

@公主在哪:

Our family is patriarchal, and at the dinner table I said to my brother, 'You have to study hard, your sister will marry sooner or later, and your father and I don't expect her.' I have remembered this sentence for a few years, and now I am relieved, even if the whole world can not love you, you must love yourself.

@足以五脏:

The most chilling thing was when I was hospitalized with injuries caused by domestic violence by my ex-fiancé, and I was lying in the hospital bed with several broken ribs. My mother went to see me and asked me to confess my mistake to my fiancé, saying that my brother was still waiting for the bride price from their family to buy a house and marry a wife.

@我是阿七七:

My aunt is a bit patriarchal, I heard that when I gave birth to my cousin, I found out that it was a girl, and it seems that I almost exchanged a boy with her maternal relatives to raise her, and then gave birth to a cousin, and it is said that I paid a lot of money in fines at that time!

@我心迷了路:

My cousin has been yelled at by her aunt since she was a child, and she scolds her at every turn, and I remember that my cousin lived in my house when she was in junior high school, and she had low self-esteem and didn't dare to say what she thought. Every time I had a parent-teacher meeting, my aunt said that I was not free to let my parents go, and when I called when the living expenses were not enough every month, I would be scolded, and sometimes my parents would subsidize my cousin by themselves!

@一个兵哥哥:

My cousin is also stubborn, so she won't go to school anymore. My aunt asked her to go out to work, and then my grandparents and my parents said that the child was small, and no one accepted her to work without a degree, and finally let my cousin study secondary school for three years! When my cousin got married, my aunt asked for a bride price of 300,000 yuan, but she was unwilling to marry, and her family persuaded her not to give a dowry, and the child would not be a good person in her in-law's family in the future! In the end, I gave 10,000 yuan, and my cousin went out crying at the time!

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Although it is the 21st century, some people's ideas seem to be stuck in the past.

Obviously, men and women are their own offspring, but they have to be treated differently.

When you give birth to a daughter, you scoff at it, and when you give birth to a son, you are happy, as if there is an inheritance to the throne in the family.

treats his son in every way, very good, but treats his daughter without a good face.

As a result, when he was old, he was still taken care of by his daughter's side.

And they always like to say: the palms of the hands and the backs of the hands are full of meat.

But they forgot that the flesh in the palm of the hand was much thicker than the back of the hand.

In a patriarchal family, every time the parents are unfair to their daughters, they are like a sharp knife, stabbing into the girl's heart, and the ensuing hurt and pain are not for a while, but for a lifetime.

Every comment at the bottom was read very carefully, and she didn't reply, but posted another Weibo.

Shenyin V: If you can't change your original family and the patriarchal thinking around you, then you should try to live a better second half of your life, don't back down, and be brave enough to say 'no'-

'No, I don't. ’

No, I don't agree with that.