Chapter 50 What is the right topic to talk about at the dinner table?
Qiuzi's mother hesitated to look at Zhou Zhou and Xu Weinan, then looked back at her daughter who was lying quietly on the bed, nodded, she gently closed the door with her backhand, and followed Zhou Zhou to the corridor.
"Come on, I can't go too far."
On the weekend, I have been silently observing Akiko's mother's actions, and I feel that she is not as indifferent as Akiko recounts, only caring about her own career and not caring about her daughter at all.
"Hello, my name is Weekend, and I am a licensed psychological counselor. A few days ago, Akiko came to me for a consultation. Today, I called her, and the phone has not been answered. I was worried about her, so I checked the news and found here. "The weekend was told in the simplest terms.
Akiko's mother, although her eyes were still red, looked at the weekend with sharp eyes: "You mean, Akiko is sick?" ”
The tone and posture seemed to be slandering her daughter on the weekend, and she wanted to reason with the weekend.
As soon as the voice fell, as if he suddenly thought of something, the whole person softened like a leaky balloon: "No wonder, I'm going to commit suicide." ”
"Akiko is just a little depressed." Weekend explained.
But why should she be depressed? Since she was a child, although the conditions at home are not the best, there must be an upper-middle level in her circle of classmates' friends, and her father and I have been working hard to let her go to the best school, make motivated friends, learn the best major, and graduate into the best law firm......"
Since I found out that Akiko had an accident in the morning, I called the police and sent the child to the hospital for rescue...... Until Akiko is out of danger and sent back to the ward, Akiko's mother has been thinking about this problem.
Why do children commit suicide?
Why?
It turned out that it was because she was depressed? Who lives in this world without being depressed? Why is she so weak?
"Isn't it just for that gossipy, talkative man? Her dad and I disagreed, and she wanted to threaten us with this in protest. Akiko's mother came up with another reason for herself.
Weekends are a moment of speechlessness. This is certainly a catalyst, but it should not be the most fundamental reason.
"Mrs. Liang, my junior sister is just very concerned about Qiuzi, so she came to visit. Now that Akiko is resting, we won't bother. Xu Weinan was standing two meters away, and then walked over.
Akiko's mother glanced at him, and a few medical staff had just walked past him, and they were very respectful of him, knowing that although he was young, he was already a doctor with a certain prestige.
"Thank you Miss Zhou for your concern, and let her contact you when Qiuzi is better." Akiko's mother also regained her composure, after all, Akiko's matter is not to blame on other girls.
Moreover, the lively and beautiful girl who looks like this on the weekend is actually the daughter she has always wanted, but I don't know why Akiko has grown into a submissive, timid and timid look, not like herself at all, nor like her father.
On the weekend, he walked to the door of the ward again, looked at Qiuzi lying on the hospital bed, and then said goodbye to Qiuzi's mother and left with Xu Weinan.
"Brother Wei Nan, just now, you wanted to tell me that now is not a good time to talk?" Knowing Xu Weinan's personality on the weekend, if it wasn't necessary, he would definitely not come over to interrupt the conversation.
"Yes, from the time she found out that her daughter had an accident until now, Mrs. Liang must have been asking herself why her daughter committed suicide? Is it a dereliction of duty to be a mother yourself? What she needs now is someone who can empathize with her and tell her that she is a good mother and that it is not her responsibility for her daughter to commit suicide. Xu Weinan calmly analyzed.
"Now, she doesn't need someone to tell her that she's not a good mother."
"It's fine that you want to help them, but don't rush it. When Akiko recovers, when they all calm down, it will be more appropriate to talk. ”
Zhou Zhou nodded: "Thank you, Brother Wei Nan, I'm in a hurry." ”
Then look at the time, "It's almost time to get off work, is it okay for Brother Wei Nan to come to my house for dinner today?" I'd like to ask you a few more questions. ”
Xu Weinan thought for a while, "Then you come to my office and sit for a while, and then we will go together." ”
"Okay, I'll tell Alice to make beer duck. Mom went to participate in the International Intelligent Robot Development Conference, I and Dad at home, you went Dad must be very happy, and someone listened to him talk about the past and the present. ”
On the way, I took the time to ask a few psychological questions on the weekend, and Xu Weinan also took the opportunity to tell the weekend about some of the problems he observed in the hospital today.
"Finally, as a counselor, it is very important to be able to empathize with the client, because if you empathize with her, she will trust you and open her heart to you."
"But at the same time, you have to be calm, objective, not emotional, not personal bias, so that you can help customers analyze the problem and analyze the reasons behind the problem."
Weekend thought about it, raised his head and asked, "Do you mean my attitude in the hospital just now?" ”
Xu Weinan nodded, "Because Qiuzi is your customer, and you have already heard Qiuzi's story, you will make a judgment in advance - Qiuzi's parents are the cause of Qiuzi's depression." ”
"If you talk to Akiko's mother with such thoughts, it is easy to fall into the misunderstanding of communication."
Weekend thought about it seriously and nodded in acknowledgement: "I have such thoughts. I've always felt that Akiko is so pitiful. ”
"It's good that you realize that, and pay attention to it later. In addition, as a counselor, you can help analyze the problem, and you can help the client deal with the trauma together, get out of the trauma, and grow, but try to avoid giving direct advice to the client......"
The two walked to the door of the house while talking, and called out as they pushed the door in on the weekend: "Dad, look who is coming to see you!" ”
saw that in addition to his father, there were two other people in the living room, Jin Zhe and Fang Yi.
Jin Zhe doesn't care, it is common sense for his father to invite him to dinner, how can this Fang Yi be at his own house? I couldn't help but glare at him suspiciously.
Mi Yi felt the meaning of that gaze - foodie, why did you come to my house?
He was about to be proud-your own father invited me here, but when he saw the figure coming in behind him on the weekend, Xu Weinan, couldn't help but sit upright.
Recently, for some reason, I can meet this Dr. Xu everywhere.
Is it a temple where should I go to incense?
He heard Fang Jie say that before doing anything important, it is best to go to the temple to offer incense and worship, so that it is easier to make things come true.
The other two people in the hall saw Xu Weinan but had a completely different attitude from him.
Zhou Zhenxin was obviously happy: "Wei Nan, come on, come on, the story of the night doctor you told me last time is not finished, you can tell it while eating today." ”
Then he turned to Miel and said, "I am going to write the story of a doctor in my next book, describing the real life of a doctor from different perspectives. ”
"Uncle Zhou, do you think it's appropriate to talk about intestines, diuretics, and umbilical cord prolapse at the dinner table?" Xu Weinan asked helplessly.