Chapter 870: Opinions
Baili Tianjiao also understands some of Bo Liang's views, but as a mother, she looks at things from a different angle, and she will be more cautious and delicate.
Now that the little potato chips are slowly starting to be sensible, if they really think so, Baili Tianjiao's heart is not very comfortable.
As a mother, how can you ignore your own children?
"I still can't put my mind at ease, I think sure I'm paying too little attention to them, that's why I make Little Potato Chips feel that we always ignore him, which is not good, what if he is a little older in the future and is no longer close to us."
Baili Tianjiao frowned, and now she has been thinking about this problem.
Bo Liang sighed, hugged Baili Tianjiao and said: "Since you have said so, then I will also tell you my opinion, I think children still can't be too used to it, little potato chips can say this, it can be seen that he actually doesn't take it too seriously, maybe he is happy that we love each other so much, and children will be independent in the future, it is better to cultivate it from now on, so as not to rely on it in the future." ”
He and Baili Tianjiao's views are completely different, and he doesn't have Baili Tianjiao's worries, he even feels that when children grow up, they will leave their parents, which is an unavoidable problem.
If you are used to your children now, not to mention that your children will not be able to be independent in the future, parents will also have a feeling of dependence and are reluctant to let their children go out.
Of course, Bo Liang felt that it was more important not to disturb the relationship between their husband and wife because of the children.
"However, they are still so young, and now they should stay with their parents and get their love every day."
Baili Tianjiao also disagrees with Bo Liang's opinion, she thinks that the child should give him a little more love, so that the child will be close to his parents, as for the question of Bo Liang's independence, she thinks that it is a matter of the child when he grows up, and it is too early to say this.
She also doesn't want her child to be able to be completely alone at such a young age, which is too distressing.
Bo Liang felt a little disapproving, independence is to be cultivated from a young age, and when he is older, he will be inseparable from his parents.
"Independence is to start cultivating from a young age, besides, we should give enough love, not too much, is to exercise his independent ability from now on, it is best to wait for him to become an adult, move out and live by himself, so that he can be independent and does not affect our love, how good."
Baili Tianjiao looked at Bo Liang with disapproval, and felt that as a father, how could he think like this, it was inevitably too much.
"You're too strict, aren't you, now that the children are so young, it will cast a shadow on them, which is not good."
Bo Liang actually not
I really want to argue with Baili Tianjiao about this issue, because the two people look at the problem from different angles.
And at that time, Xiao Potato Chips said something like that, and it may not mean anything else, but Baili Tianjiao saw it and was more hearted, so he pulled Bo Liang overnight and didn't sleep here to discuss this issue.
Seeing Baili Tianjiao's somewhat unhappy appearance, Bo Liang couldn't help but squeeze her hand with some tears and laughter.
"Do you just want to discuss with me and ask me what I think, I think that's it, as long as they grow up in a healthy environment, they can't be too spoiled for children, easy to spoil, small potato chips actually don't mean anything else, it's just that children are unscrupulous, don't think about it, if that's the case, when the children grow up and want to leave us, you have to be reluctant."
Baili Tianjiao glared at Bo Liang and said: "But your words are inevitably over, as a father, how can you be so careless about your children, I already blamed myself a little, hearing you say this, I think we should really pay more attention to them." ”
Seeing that Baili Tianjiao had been struggling with this problem, Bo Liang sighed helplessly.
"I think it's just that you think about it too much, and there's nothing at all."
"I didn't, I just ......"
Baili Tianjiao still wanted to say next time, but he was gagged by Bo Liang, and then kissed him fiercely, looking at Baili Tianjiao's somewhat flushed face, Bo Liang came to Baili Tianjiao and said: "You just listen to me, children can't be too used to it, they should cultivate their independent ability or cultivate, we can't do everything ourselves, and their road in the future is not for them to go by themselves." ”
Baili Tianjiao was a little gasping by Bo Liang, she knew that what Bo Liang said made sense, but as a mother, she was always easy to be soft-hearted, thinking of the interview when she saw Xiao Potato Chips before, and knowing that Xiao Potato Chips would think like that, Baili Tianjiao felt distressed.
"But wouldn't it be bad, they're just children, there's nothing to love a little more."
Baili Tianjiao still stubbornly insisted on his own point of view.
Bo Liang knew that there was no point in arguing any longer, it was better to make Baili Tianjiao succumb in action, so he pressed Baili Tianjiao on the bed and stared at her with burning eyes.
Baili Tianjiao looked at Bo Liang's eyes, his heart was beating hard, and he noticed the aggressiveness in Bo Liang's eyes, Baili Tianjiao turned over and wanted to escape, but as soon as he sat up, he was grabbed by Bo Liang and imprisoned by his hands and couldn't move.
"What are you doing?"
Baili Tianjiao's voice softened inexplicably.
Bo Liangdi laughed and said in a low voice: "What else can I do, of course, to revive my husband and let you know that my idea is right." ”
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It was he who underestimated Baili Tianjiao's stubbornness, and in the matter of targeting children, Baili Tianjiao inexplicably insisted on it.
Bo Liang didn't care, he always had a way to make Baili Tianjiao succumb.
So, looking at Baili Tianjiao's somewhat stubborn gaze, Bo Liang leaned over and kissed her softly on the forehead, and then expressed the precious love that made Baili Tianjiao's face red.
This way, this way, over and over, three or four times, Baili Tianjiao has no strength to fight with Bo Liang anymore.
"Well, I'm right, if you had agreed with me earlier, wouldn't it have been like this?"
Looking at Bo Liang, who was obviously cheap and obedient, Baili Tianjiao glared at the other party with some annoyance, but she forgot about her now, and there was no deterrent at all.
"Why, are you still unconvinced?"
Looking at Bo Liang, who was slowly leaning over again, Baili Tianjiao hurriedly begged for mercy and said, "Okay, okay, I agree that you are right, okay." ”
Bo Liang smiled with satisfaction.
"That's right, when he grows up a little more in the future and can live alone, let him live outside, so as not to disturb our two-person world."
Looking at Bo Liang, Baili Tianjiao felt angry and funny.
What should cultivate children's independence from an early age is an excuse, in order to let the children not disturb them, this is Bo Liang's selfishness.
But after such a while, the depression before Baili Tianjiao also dissipated, and I felt that although Bo Liang was a little strict with the children, his original intention was still good, and it did make some sense.
In the end, Baili Tianjiao, who had always insisted on his own ideas, was still reversed by Bo Liang, agreed with his ideas, and no longer dwelled on the previous things.
Bo Liang couldn't help but feel that sometimes talking too much is not as important as taking action.
So, both of them slept contentedly.
The days went on as usual, and Baili Tianjiao, who didn't think about it anymore, was still the same as before every day, and he didn't shy away from anything.
Unconsciously, it was time for Xiao Tuanzi to turn one year old, and at this time, it was time for Xiao Tuanzi to catch Zhou, which can be big or small, but it also contains some parents' expectations for their children.
"How's the preparation?"
Baili Tianjiao's face was a little happy, she wanted to know what Xiao Tuanzi would choose.
"It's all set."
Bo Liang nodded, Baili Tianjiao took the little group out, and now the little group can already climb very well, and can still stand up staggeringly.
There was a circle of small items, including books, musical instruments, paintbrushes, and microphones.
Baili Tianjiao and Bo Liang both looked at Xiao Tuanzi expectantly, not knowing what she would choose, the children still don't understand anything, and they will probably choose something with brighter colors and more interesting things.
Xiao Tuanzi's eyes swirled, and her hand slowly stretched out, first pausing on the colorful brush, and then turning in another direction.
Baili Tianjiao looked a little nervous and a little interesting, and he didn't know how Xiao Tuanzi was so small to distinguish those items.
Suddenly, Xiao Tuanzi's small hand grabbed the microphone next to him, and then laughed happily.
Baili Tianjiao picked up Xiao Tuanzi, watched her grasp the microphone tightly and didn't let go, so he smiled and said to Bo Liang next to her: "She won't choose to enter the circle in the future, I can't see it, our little Tuanzi likes to sing." ”
Bo Liang also smiled, giggling at the little group.
"As a parent, of course, I can only support it, if she is interested in this, let her go, anyway, I won't let people bully my Bo Liang daughter in the future."
Looking at Bo Liang's appearance as a daughter slave, Baili Tianjiao shook his head helplessly.
But Bo Liang is right, no matter what path Xiaotuanzi chooses to take in the future, they will support her and let her have no worries.
Maybe the child is really very spiritual, after Xiao Tuanzi chose the microphone, Xiao Tuanzi also showed a strong musical talent in some aspects of life, you know, she is still so young, if she has talent now, it is foreseeable that her future is limitless.
Baili Tianjiao and Bo Liang were a little surprised, it seems that when Xiao Tuanzi caught Zhou, he really didn't catch it blindly, but made the goal clear, so he grabbed the microphone as soon as he could.
This made them all feel that their children were really too smart, and they didn't worry about it in any way.
If Xiao Tuanzi really intends to develop in this direction in the future, they will also support her.
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