Jiang Lili sighed, "I don't have a job, and I want them to spend money to support them, which already makes them feel unhappy, how dare they spend money to hire someone to serve me." I don't have that life, and I don't have that qualification. ”

These words were all repeated by Xu Mo in Jiang Lili's ear, so that when Fang Qianmi asked these questions now, she blurted out these words.

Hearing Jiang Lili belittle herself like this, Fang Qianmi felt a little uncomfortable.

What does it mean to not have that life, not to have that qualification?

"Sister, I think you're a little wrong. You are his wife, you are a full-time mother for the sake of your children, and he earns money to support you, isn't it a natural thing?

And your family conditions are not bad, and it doesn't cost much to hire a part-time aunt who cooks and cleans, so I think it's necessary. Although I have never given birth to a child, I still know how tiring it is to bring a child, and it is impossible for your husband not to know, why doesn't he be considerate of you? ”

Xu is Fang Qianmi's words touched Jiang Lili, and she couldn't help but start shaking out all the complaints in her heart.

"Only you can understand me, I get up at six o'clock every morning to make breakfast for my daughter, help her get up and freshen up, take her to school, eat a simple breakfast by myself, and then buy vegetables and go home.

Then help my son get up and freshen up, then do hygiene, play with, and make lunch. At this time, my husband just woke up for lunch, after eating, he slept again, and when my son slept, I washed clothes, took the time to rest for a while, and then got up to look at my phone and write some parenting diaries.

When my son gets up in the afternoon, I take him to pick up my daughter, then go grocery shopping and cook, bathe the two children, accompany my daughter to do homework, and when the two children fall asleep, I have to clean up my toys, tidy up the messy clothes, and wait until eleven or even twelve o'clock before I can go to sleep.

That's how I live every day, but even though I'm so busy, he still thinks I'm enjoying my days by not having to go to work full-time. I spent his money, and I could only be his appendage, and I was obedient to him. ”

Fang Qianmi could hear that Jiang Lili had a lot of dissatisfaction with her current life.

Sure enough, the system reminded her at this time: "Jiang Lili's current happiness value is only one point, which is an extremely melancholy state."

Fang Qianmi tried to ask Jiang Lili, "You seem to be living a very unhappy life, haven't you ever thought about divorce and living a better life?" This marriage is not good, you can have a second one better. ”

For today's people, divorce is just commonplace, and Jiang Lili intends to divorce, so she really shouldn't worry too much.

Jiang Lili was only stunned for a moment, and then directly denied, "I can't get a divorce." ”

"Why?"

Hearing these three words, Jiang Lili looked at Fang Qianmi, her eyes were envious and a little sad.

"How can a woman in her thirties, divorced and with two children have a better future? This kind of woman will either always be a single mother, or find a man with similar conditions, divorced and with children to reorganize the family. And there are even more contradictions in reorganizing the family. Maybe I'm not as good as I am now.

What's more, I am now a full-time mother with no income, and I am supported by my husband, and if I get divorced, I will definitely not be able to fight for custody of the children.

I'm desperately enduring it for the sake of the children, if I get divorced, I have to lose the children, so what's the point of my divorce? ”

Fang Qianmi glanced at the child in Jiang Lili's arms, he was asleep, and his little face was very cute.

If this was her own child, she probably wouldn't be reluctant. But if the relationship between the parents is not good, it will also affect his growth.

And Jiang Lili is obviously duplicitous, she originally wanted to divorce, maybe she and Jiang Lili are not familiar with the relationship, Jiang Lili said these reasons to cover herself.

Fang Qianmi continued to persuade, "Why can't a divorced woman with children meet someone better?" ”

She paused, then pointed, "Maybe someone is liking you right now." ”

Jiang Lili looked at Fang Qianmi again.

Fang Qianmi is young, beautiful, and has a high income, how can a girl like her, who is excellent in all aspects, understand the situation and feelings of a middle-aged woman. What she thinks is beautiful is nothing more than imagination. Even if she had imagined that kind of beauty herself, she knew that it was impossible.

Cowardice made her only the shrunken turtle that hid in her shell and endured everything alone.

"You don't understand at all, as long as I go out with my children now, I will feel inferior when I meet a young and beautiful girl like you.

I'm old, I'm married, I've had two children, and these can make me a worthless, worthless middle-aged woman.

So, how could anyone possibly like me? I met young and handsome men on the road, and I didn't dare to look at them blatantly, I was afraid that they would think that such an ugly woman was not qualified to peek at them. ”

"How so?!" Fang Qianmi couldn't imagine that Jiang Lili had such a pitiful thought, "How can you be an ugly woman!" Your looks, your temperament, how many people can't envy it.

Even if you don't deliberately dress up, you can kill most of your peers in seconds. Moreover, liking someone is liking your inside, which has nothing to do with whether you are married or not, whether you have children. ”

Jiang Lili showed a self-deprecating expression, she looked down at the child sleeping in her arms, and said in a low voice, "You don't understand the situation of a stay-at-home mother at all. In the eyes of most people, stay-at-home mothers are a group of people who have no contribution.

They have no way to earn money and have to rely on their husbands' handouts to get by. They don't have their own life circle, and they only revolve around their children all day long. When I talked to them, eight out of ten sentences were about children, about pregnancy and childbirth.

In South Korea, they even coined the word 'mom' to describe stay-at-home moms to express their contempt for stay-at-home moms. And I'm what they call a mom.

A stay-at-home mom who is not respected by everyone may be liked? ”

"But that's just the prejudice of people who don't know about stay-at-home moms, so why should you take it to heart? That doesn't mean you can't pursue a better life. To be honest, I found out that there is actually a person close to you who has a heart for you. ”

Fang Qianmi didn't want to waste any more time going around in circles, so he deliberately said this, wanting to test Jiang Lili's mind.

Sure enough, as soon as she said this, Jiang Lili's expression became a little nervous, and her eyes shrank a little.

Fang Qianmi guessed that something must have happened between Jiang Lili and Wang Qinmi......