Chapter 230 is dazed
() The marriage ceremony went very smoothly, Cui Hao and Song Zilan officially set their names, and when everyone left, Yang came into the house to find his daughter.
found her sitting on the carved window of the begonia and looking out, in a daze, she stepped forward and patted her daughter's shoulder with a chuckle, and asked with a smile: "What are you in a daze?" ”
Zilan came back to her senses and saw her mother smile and asked, "Mother, are they all gone?" ”
"Left, it was very smooth, exchanged Geng posts and gifts, Cui Hao behaved very well, and he was satisfied everywhere."
Yang is very satisfied with Cui Hao in his heart, the children are very good in everything, and he is also a resolute and decisive character, he will not be easily shaken by others, and his academic talents and abilities are all outstanding, worthy of his daughter.
"That's good."
Zilan doesn't have much shyness and joy, maybe she is a little old in her heart, and she hasn't been in love, so she can't be shy.
"What's wrong with you? Are you unhappy, or dissatisfied with Cui Hao? ”
Yang chuckled in his heart.
"No, don't get me wrong, I have a good impression of Cui Hao, if I don't like it, I will be blunt, just like Li Qing, I don't like him, because he looks down on me in his bones, so I don't like him either.
I just felt like a dream, and all of a sudden I grew up, as if I couldn't be happy when I was engaged.
Mother, I am reluctant to leave you, I once thought that I would comb my hair and stay in the Song family forever, I can do a lot of things, if I stay to the Song family, my father and my brother can help me, and I can live a comfortable life. ”
Yang suddenly smiled, this child was a little dazed and flustered, thinking that he was also panicked when he first made a marriage, and he was uncertain about the future, and he was always a little uneasy.
"Fool, my mother can understand your feelings, I was more afraid than you when I married your father, the Song family is a big family, I don't know much about the big family, there are so many elders in the clan are always a little scared.
However, both the Cui family and the Song family are well-behaved people, and I am relieved to actually enter the door, especially thank you grandfather and grandmother, I really feel sorry for me.
The more well-behaved people are, although it will not be too easy to enter the door first, there are rules everywhere, and there will be no bad things, and there will be no fights between the concubines.
As for what you said about combing your hair, you won't let you do it unless you have to, although you are very comfortable combing your hair, but you still have to face many problems.
When we wait for a hundred years, no one will support you, and you have great talents, although you can satisfy the Song family, but after a long time, it will easily become a relationship of interests, and wealth is moving.
Don't think I don't know, you help your grandfather share his worries, your grandfather is still there, the Yang family dares to beat your idea, how can the Song family not do this.
There are many problems that women are not easy to face, and self-reliance is not as simple as you think, and it is not something that can be solved with talent, but I think that your sister Xuan'er is more mature and cautious than you consider it. ”
Yang also frankly analyzed with his daughter.
Zilan nodded in approval after hearing this, maybe she really wanted to be stubborn, the situation of modern celibacy is completely different from that of ancient celibacy, and the gossip and environment around her and the relationship between people and people are very different, and she may not be as comfortable as she wants.
"Mother is right, I know that I may be too idealistic, in fact, Cui Hao, I am quite satisfied, in line with my imagination. I knew that the elders were all planning for me wholeheartedly, but I was suddenly a little dazed and a little hypocritical. ”
Zilan was embarrassed to lean on her mother's arms and coquettishly, she hadn't spoken so closely to her mother for a long time.
"I know your thoughts, you won't be so relaxed and happy in another two years, the Cui family and the Song family are different, you are a child who can do things, you can do so much in the Song family because the Song family is united, and the heart is twisted into a rope, so you have today's results.
If you go to Cui's house, even if you have ambitions, you may not be able to achieve great things, what is the future, what is the relationship between husband and wife, how to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, these are all new tests.
I know the panic and confusion in your heart, but I still hope that you will work hard to meet the new life, my daughter is so good, I believe that my daughter is the strongest and bravest, the most poor and your father and your brother, and the entire Song family to support you. ”
Zilan hugged Yang and buried her face in her arms, "Mother, I love you, I will be strong and brave, believe me, I can live my life well and make myself happy and safe." ”
"Of course, how good my daughter is, his Cui family has picked up the treasure, otherwise can the old man Cui come to the door in person to propose, this is their attitude of valuing you."
Yang patted his daughter lightly and smiled.
Zilan quickly stabilized her mood again, raised her head and smiled embarrassedly at Yang's family, pulled her arm and said coquettishly: "Mother, I am reluctant to let you go, can you come back for the New Year?" ”
"I'm afraid not, your father is bent on further supporting you and your brother, he is determined to do a good job, I can't hold back, plus your shipping plan also needs someone to keep an eye on you.
If you do this, the clan will be able to remember your great achievements, and it will benefit you a lot in the future. But you brothers and sisters are married, and we will come back. ”
The Yang couple will never deceive and fool their children, even if they are cruel, they will tell them the truth, and cultivate their ability to think independently and bear independently from an early age.
"Okay, I asked Mo Yan to make some self-defense mechanisms for you, you and my father have them, and I've already boxed them for you.
You go back and let my dad take a look, I have some antidote herbs with me, and I still have some things for my dad to take for an experiment.
I don't worry about you in Jiangnan, it's very messy, mother, you should also take care of yourself, don't trust outsiders, including slaves, not intimate marriages, don't believe them, be careful of their backlash. ”
The official in charge of salt introduction in Jiangnan, the news she knows has already died several officials, how can she rest assured, but the people in her family are all the same, and they report good news but not bad news, and neither side will let the other worry a little.
Yang touched her daughter's head lovingly, "It's all up to you, I used all the people and things you arranged for me last time."
Don't worry, I'll be careful, we'll be back in two or three years at most, and wait for us. In the past two years, you will slowly put your family's property to your brother, and you should also rest and take care of your body, but unfortunately I am not here, otherwise you don't have to worry about it like this. ”
Yang is very guilty, in the past few years, her daughter has borne everything alone, for the family and the clan, she has considered everything diligently, the industry has increased several times, almost to the extreme, she knows that the child is for her husband and son to have more resources and money to take care of everything in the future.
"I'm not tired, I'm willing to do this, I've learned a lot of things, I'll do half of it, my brother is about to take the fame test, and when my brother has fame, I can rest assured that I can hand it over to him, mainly for fear of affecting his study."
It's not that Zilan has to dominate this industry, but because Ziyan is not old enough, the imperial examination will be a little later, and he still has to study, I'm afraid that he will be distracted.
"Okay, don't tire yourself out."