134. Deliberate netizens
When Han Ce was about to speak to persuade Xu Xiaolei to calm down first, the seven-month-old boy on the bed behind him suddenly woke up.
He looked around with big black eyes, and began to cry when he didn't notice his mother.
Han Ce wanted to go over and comfort him, but unexpectedly, as soon as he made a sound, the child cried even more.
Even across the phone, Xu Xiaolei heard his nephew's cry.
He asked with concern, "Is my nephew crying?" ”
Han Ce replied, "Yes, he just woke up and cried before he found his mother." I will write down the things you just said, but the most important thing for now is to appease the two children, after all, their father and grandparents are out of town and will not be able to come back for a while. Right now, you're the only one who can come and appease them.
Can you take a leave of absence? ”
Xu Xiaolei didn't hesitate, and immediately replied, "I'll ask for leave right away." ”
Han Ce hung up Xu Xiaolei's phone and wanted to go over and pick up the child, but the closer he got there, the more the child cried.
When the locksmith heard the child's cry, he couldn't help but walk into the room and coaxed the child, "Ouch, the little baby doesn't cry, Uncle will take you out to play ball." ”
The child is still resistant, but the lock-picking master is a former father, so he naturally has a set of coaxing the child.
He took out all kinds of toys, deliberately made exaggerated expressions in front of the child, and made strange noises, which magically attracted the child's attention and temporarily quieted the child.
Here, the forensic doctor had already arrived at the scene, and after a preliminary examination, they moved Xu Xiaoqin's body back to the autopsy room.
The technician from the technical analysis department also came to Xu Xiaoqin's home and unlocked Xu Xiaoqin's mobile phone password on the spot.
After they opened Xu Xiaoqin's mobile phone, they found that the software she commonly uses, in addition to WeChat and music software, is Tianya Forum.
And when you open her Tianya forum account, you can see that she has made a lot of posts on it, almost every post is complaining about how unhappy she is in life and how uncomfortable she feels.
Her most recently updated post was made yesterday.
In the post, she accused her husband of not coming home when he went out all day, did not help her take care of the children, and also accused her mother-in-law of being partial, only caring for her brother-in-law's family, and looking down on her as a full-time mother when she gave birth. And every time she has a conflict with her mother-in-law, her husband will only help her mother-in-law, not her, all of which make her feel depressed and hopeless, and feel that she is humble to the dust and unworthy of living in this world.
Originally, the content of her post was negative enough, but a netizen commented under her post: "Why don't you get out and die if you have the ability?" Only dare to post here? ”
Xu is netizen's comment touched Xu Xiaoqin's heart even more, Xu Xiaoqin uncharacteristically desperately replied to that netizen in the post, admitting to herself, "Yes, I just don't have the ability!"
I'm the kind of vicious woman who doesn't have the ability to get out, but she doesn't know how to be grateful, and she only keeps complaining!
yes, why don't I die! I can't get out, can't I still die? All I have to do is jump down and I'll be completely dead! ”
Although Xu Xiaoqin had already sent such a desperate reply, the netizen did not intend to let Xu Xiaoqin go like this, and under Xu Xiaoqin's reply, he sent several more posts to insult Xu Xiaoqin.
"I said, can you women not be too demanding? Since you don't go to work, you don't have a job, you have no income, and you can only rely on your husband and your mother-in-law to support you, you should lower your own posture.
Haven't you ever heard of people having to bow their heads under the eaves? If you eat other people's food and take other people's food, no matter how partiality your mother-in-law is, no matter how much she looks down on you, you have to bear it.
Also, isn't it normal for you to say that your husband always helps your mother-in-law and doesn't help you? That's the real mother who raised him, and you're just the wife he married! How do you compare your wife to your own mother? Have you ever raised your husband? If I were your husband, I would definitely only help your own mother!
In the end, it's hard to take care of children, why do you still have to give birth? Give birth to two in a lifetime? I read that you said that you graduated from the bachelor's degree, oops, you are a college student who has gone to college, why are your values still so earthy? Think it's great to have more children and dedicate all your time to them?
Please, what age is it, you women can't be independent! Here you want to be a to promote the disgusting thoughts of an independent woman, but over there you are delusional that if you have a few children, you can let your husband support you for a lifetime and love yourself for a lifetime.
Children are not your bargaining chips, what you want is still up to you to fight for it! ”
The comments replied by that netizen were scathing, and even passers-by felt that the netizen had spoken too much when they saw such remarks, not to mention Xu Xiaoqin as the party concerned.
Xu Xiaoqin seemed to have regained a little reason at the time, and then replied to the netizen: "First, I want to affirm that although I didn't have a job after giving birth, I never spent any money on my mother-in-law. I spent the money my husband earned.
I'm at home with my children, and he earns money for me to spend, which is a natural thing, and I don't feel any shame. So since I haven't spent a penny on my mother-in-law, why should I be her appendage and bear all kinds of rudeness from her!
Second, I don't think the values I choose to have children are very earthy, everyone has their own pursuits, some people like to be a strong woman, some people just want to be a good mother, and no one seems more noble of the two.
I raise my children to be talented, and I feel that I am also great, and although I am far from achieving this goal, I will try to achieve it.
Third, I am a full-time mother, not using my children as bargaining chips, asking my husband to support me, etc. I chose to be a stay-at-home mom only because I wanted to devote myself to growing up with my children and giving them a full and happy childhood. I didn't seem to be able to do it, but I worked hard.
And, please take a look at my previous post, in the past three years as a stay-at-home mother, I am not a lazy parasite, I have worked hard to write, and I have worked hard to become a good writer.
I stay up late every day, get up early and use the little time after my children fall asleep to write, also so that I don't have to spend my husband's money in the future!
Finally, I want to say that as a mother's boy, if you really think that your own mother is more important than your wife, then please live with your mother for the rest of your life, don't marry other women, and harm them for a lifetime! ”
Xu Xiaoqin's replies were quite reasonable, I thought I could plug the netizen's mouth like this, but I didn't expect that the netizen to scold her even more vigorously.